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By *offeeLover OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Hey I'm struggling to get replies. Is there anything in my profile I can change? I try and message women or couples based on their bio but get read or deleted. I get single guys are bottom barrel here but I'd like to chat to someone

Anything you'd recommend in my profile that could help? Thanks

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, I would say yours is one of the finest profiles I've seen recently. Your profile text shows everything that you're passionate about, it's nerdy and goofy and that's a good thing, it's well-structured and you've summarised what you're looking for and what excites you.

You just need to polish off the narrative: an apostrophe missing here and there.

Photos: I would remove the huge juvenile face emoji because it looks silly. Try and crop out your face or make it opaque (blurring...?). Also...your first photo is your cock which isn't a great opening gambit for your photo gallery and will probably put a lot of women/couples off. Avoid using mirrors like you have; the result looks amateurish. Instead balance your phone on something and use the timer function.

Overall your photos aren't bad but they really could be better.

Whatever you decide to do I wish you all the best. 🌈

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By *uenevereWoman
29 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I agree with Nero.

I would replace the photo that comes up first with the emoji thing, as it does you no favours.

Otherwise a good profile, so just be patient and see what happens.

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By *offeeLover OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"OP, I would say yours is one of the finest profiles I've seen recently. Your profile text shows everything that you're passionate about, it's nerdy and goofy and that's a good thing, it's well-structured and you've summarised what you're looking for and what excites you.

You just need to polish off the narrative: an apostrophe missing here and there.

Photos: I would remove the huge juvenile face emoji because it looks silly. Try and crop out your face or make it opaque (blurring...?). Also...your first photo is your cock which isn't a great opening gambit for your photo gallery and will probably put a lot of women/couples off. Avoid using mirrors like you have; the result looks amateurish. Instead balance your phone on something and use the timer function.

Overall your photos aren't bad but they really could be better.

Whatever you decide to do I wish you all the best. 🌈"

I really appreciate you taking the time to read it. Means a lot that the bio is solid. I'll fix those grammar issue. So you think I'm limiting myself with my bio? Is there anything I could remove?

Yeah you make a good point there and it's not intention to most recent one I took. I wish there was a way to rearrange the pics. Yeah I've taken pictures like that. Thought mirror self would mix it up a bits it's gone

I appreciate it. Thank you. You as well

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By *offeeLover OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I agree with Nero.

I would replace the photo that comes up first with the emoji thing, as it does you no favours.

Otherwise a good profile, so just be patient and see what happens. "

Well, I removed it so we'll see.

Thank you. Is it worth while re message people who deleted my message now that I've removed it or once I take better pics or should I just move on? Only asking because there's only so many couples and women in my area and I'm running out of people

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