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By *randmrssexyne OP   Couple
29 weeks ago

north east

Hi have been trying hot Wife play for about a year and we both enjoy it. I have suggested that this time I arrange the whole date. So she does not know anything about it apart from the date and time. I will book a hotel probably in Newcastle. Then will chat to the meet man I chose and arrange for him to chat her up in the bar before heading to the bedroom. We have quite a few things we, want for the meet. The main one is we are soft play.

Has any one experience with this? Any advice?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

My partner once tried to arrange this for me. He was eventually successful but a lot of men didn't believe I was in full agreement of him arranging it all.

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By *randmrssexyne OP   Couple
29 weeks ago

north east

Hi thank you for your comment.

Hopefully Steve can chat with them and share photos videos etc. So hopefully they realise Sam is in total agreement. But not thought about that until you mentioned it.

PS you have amazing nipples. We love nipples. :

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By *esparate danMan
29 weeks ago

glasgow

It feels rather more like a power play for you than her getting to experience an authentic connection with someone

I would say its a bit unorthodox but if it works for you thats fine

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By *outherngent74Man
29 weeks ago

Hampshire

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By *outherngent74Man
29 weeks ago

Hampshire

Surely the Hot wife, has the final choose, and you both vet them together.

It doesn’t sounds like she’s much say or is in full control, and that’s the whole point of being a Hotwire isn’it?

I leave this as a fantasy, it could cause lots of problems.

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
29 weeks ago

Barnsley


"Surely the Hot wife, has the final choose, and you both vet them together.

It doesn’t sounds like she’s much say or is in full control, and that’s the whole point of being a Hotwire isn’it?

I leave this as a fantasy, it could cause lots of problems. "

This depends on the couple and what they like. My Mrs is also my submissive so likes me to take control and arrange things.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
29 weeks ago

Scotland

Sounds fun 😊 We would probably like to do something similar however I’d have to pick a few guys that I liked the look of and get hubby to choose between them. The rest of the scenario could play out the same though 😋

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By *randmrssexyne OP   Couple
29 weeks ago

north east

Was thinking we were the only ones. But thanks for the support.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
27 weeks ago

Norwich


"Was thinking we were the only ones. But thanks for the support. "

This is the way we play a lot of the time, our profile includes this

"Also to note is that when we play all meets are arranged by Steve, Debs just enjoys them. By all means you can speak to Debs on the phone so you know she actually exists and consents but she doesn't want to know the actual details like where, when, what is going to happen etc"

It works for us.

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