FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Verifications.

Jump to newest
 

By *olitepleasure OP   Man
29 weeks ago

London

Show all verifications, or just a couple. What is the general view?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aven RedWoman
29 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

I show most of mine. The ones I keep hidden are either graphic or have my non fab name in them x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair

There is no general view.

You show whatever you please, how much or how little.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urprise69100Couple
29 weeks ago

Leicestershire


"I show most of mine. The ones I keep hidden are either graphic or have my non fab name in them x"

I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications but I didn't think about people maybe using real names or being a little too graphic!

I shall try to be less judgemental moving forwards!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications"

•

How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uliette500Woman
29 weeks ago

Hull


"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications

•

How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?"

If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottish guy 555Man
29 weeks ago

London


"I show most of mine. The ones I keep hidden are either graphic or have my non fab name in them x"

What she said. ☝️

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottish guy 555Man
29 weeks ago

London


"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications

•

How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?

If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have. "

But some of their verifications may be from people who have left the site. It may not necessarily be them hiding any.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipstick KissesWoman
29 weeks ago

Newry


"There is no general view.

You show whatever you please, how much or how little."

This.

Do Fab your way. You'll never please everyone whichever you decide.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
29 weeks ago

Cardiff


"There is no general view.

You show whatever you please, how much or how little.

This.

Do Fab your way. You'll never please everyone whichever you decide."

Completely agree, I choose not to display ones that are a word or two from people who barely know me or have my name in, and many of my veris have left the site now. But no judgement

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
29 weeks ago

cahoots

We choose to only show the "meeting in person" ones.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eautifully TwistedWoman
29 weeks ago

Telford

I don't show mine usually, if someone wants to check them out I am happy to make them visible.

I don't mind if people have theirs on show or not though.

Other peoples opinions hold very little weight to me , I like to make my own judgement.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * AND R 777Couple
29 weeks ago

Teesside

We show all or ours(although some people have now left fab) we think its open and honest to show them all xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aithRestorerMan
29 weeks ago

Bolton

I only show ones that talk about me as a person, any that go into detail about sexual acts or my cock or cum stay hidden. I ask anyone I meet who wants to verify to keep it PG so I can display them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

[Removed by poster at 27/10/25 13:08:23]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouple_For_BuddyCouple
29 weeks ago

Newport


"Show all verifications, or just a couple. What is the general view?"

Depends upon what you are after and your audience!

We are looking for just one regular buddy so notches on the bed post would not attract us to a profile with loads of verifications.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ctionSandwichCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

We look at who has left them, and what was said (avoid social and cam only folk).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ust and PoundCouple
29 weeks ago

Wirral

We had one hidden on our old account as they used our real names. Current ones are all shown.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onyHoveMan
29 weeks ago

North East

I show a few of mine. A lot of people have left site over the years. I'd hide more graphic ones but not sure I have many of those. I never send rude ones either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications

•

How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?

·

If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have. "

•

Not necessarily - people leave the site but the overall tally remains.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ature housewifeWoman
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

As someone who likes to meet the same person more than once, I like to see a couple of verifications from the same member on someone's profile. It used to be the case that a verification was to show that the profile was a true representation of the person met and how easy was communication/arranging the meet...oh, and did they turn up? Any hiccups? Now many leave verifications for no reason other than to exhibit their own sexual prowess... Some are nothing more than graffiti - saying little more than, "I've shagged her!", or words to that effect. Some think it's an opportunity to provide a brief synopsis...some aren't so brief.

Some are bloody useless. I once seen one from a club that said they didnt get a chance to meet him personally but the ladies he had met spoke highly of him. All I take from verifications left by clubs is that the member's payment cleared and they turned up on the night.

I went through a phase of enjoying outdoor meets late at night. ,and I thought it was important to show that I had done it before and men who had turned up had lived to

tell the tale.

Personally, I don't care what they leave in a verification. Sometimes I find they can enhance someone's profile.

Just as an aside, I do think there is something suspicious about peope who hide their verification summary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ature housewifeWoman
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 27/10/25 14:51:16]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *moothGrooveWoman
29 weeks ago

As a general rule, I prefer not to show all of mine. I usually show one so people can see itd genuine.

No one needs to know who I've been meeting. I was also put off showing them because on more than one occasion, people have inboxed me about people I've met. Or, men saying that somebody on my verifications list didn't fit what my profile said so I should give them a go....

Each to their own

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ellhungvweMan
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I show mine. The only ones I don’t are for people who have left the site.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elaxed CoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire

We're so new that it makes sense to show all our verifications. That way, we figure that it tells others a little about us.

That said, if we received one that was a bit too explicit, we'd hide it.

As the numbers go up, we'll be selective as to which we show, just because we are thinking, who wants to read through pages of opinion that's 10 years old?

We're assuming a lot by thinking they will go up though, haha.

Anything other than meet in person, we discount as not being something that tells us what we want to know about people anyway.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uliette500Woman
29 weeks ago

Hull


"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications

•

How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?

If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have.

But some of their verifications may be from people who have left the site. It may not necessarily be them hiding any.

"

That's also true, I have quite a few like that myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottish guy 555Man
29 weeks ago

London


"As someone who likes to meet the same person more than once, I like to see a couple of verifications from the same member on someone's profile. It used to be the case that a verification was to show that the profile was a true representation of the person met and how easy was communication/arranging the meet...oh, and did they turn up? Any hiccups? Now many leave verifications for no reason other than to exhibit their own sexual prowess... Some are nothing more than graffiti - saying little more than, "I've shagged her!", or words to that effect. Some think it's an opportunity to provide a brief synopsis...some aren't so brief.

Some are bloody useless. I once seen one from a club that said they didnt get a chance to meet him personally but the ladies he had met spoke highly of him. All I take from verifications left by clubs is that the member's payment cleared and they turned up on the night.

I went through a phase of enjoying outdoor meets late at night. ,and I thought it was important to show that I had done it before and men who had turned up had lived to

tell the tale.

Personally, I don't care what they leave in a verification. Sometimes I find they can enhance someone's profile.

Just as an aside, I do think there is something suspicious about peope who hide their verification summary.

"

A very interesting and informative post.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aomilatteCouple
29 weeks ago

Midlands

People can do as they wish. Personally we only reply if some or all of their verifications are displayed. We read a lot more into verifications than "they're real and they turned up". Last week we got a nice message off a hot looking couple, however something in a verification ensured we didn't reply.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittynzWoman
29 weeks ago

Richmond

I’m always interested in this,

I used to show mine but they say same or similar things so I don’t show any now.

I’ve seen some people with 160+ displayed which I’m always like do you need to show them all?

Others I’ve seen some people don’t display recent ones but do oldest ones.

It’s your account you do what ever you want for me the only thing is if you’ve had an account for a while and you’ve not got any or you lost recent is from 2019 then id be less likely to meet.

But everyone has there own theory

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittynzWoman
29 weeks ago

Richmond

Also verified by cam is not valid for me but that’s just my preference

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *herryEatersCouple
29 weeks ago

East Cheshire


"Show all verifications, or just a couple. What is the general view?"

All in general. We only hide those that stupidly mention our real names or from folk we'd certainly not meet again hence don't want to be judged by...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top