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By (user no longer on site) OP   
29 weeks ago

right I've always wanted to go a club so it's time I just done it I wanted to meet someone and maybe go with them but it ain't happened so couple questions what club is best close to Birmingham xtasia or chameleons? what would I need to take with me? thanks

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By *he James gangCouple
29 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"right I've always wanted to go a club so it's time I just done it I wanted to meet someone and maybe go with them but it ain't happened so couple questions what club is best close to Birmingham xtasia or chameleons? what would I need to take with me? thanks "

A 4 leaf clover. All joking aside, chams is way better than xtasia in our opinion. It's dress down from the get go. Friday nights they allow single guys but can be very competitive. The jacuzzi's are good for chatting if you're not shy and is a good starting point. If you possess a bit of charm and wit, that's a good leg up. The smoking area is also a good place to chat. Finally, a pair of flip flops and sexy pants or use the towel provided. Your own booze of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
29 weeks ago


"right I've always wanted to go a club so it's time I just done it I wanted to meet someone and maybe go with them but it ain't happened so couple questions what club is best close to Birmingham xtasia or chameleons? what would I need to take with me? thanks

A 4 leaf clover. All joking aside, chams is way better than xtasia in our opinion. It's dress down from the get go. Friday nights they allow single guys but can be very competitive. The jacuzzi's are good for chatting if you're not shy and is a good starting point. If you possess a bit of charm and wit, that's a good leg up. The smoking area is also a good place to chat. Finally, a pair of flip flops and sexy pants or use the towel provided. Your own booze of course."

ok nice one mate people walking round naked or swim shorts or summat?

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By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

Chams and Xtasia are two very different clubs. For starters, Chams is a dress down on arrival spa-based club, whereas Xtasia is "dress to impress" nightclub style club. You can't really compare the two.

Historically, it has never been easy to get single man's membership at Chams, not sure how it is currently, if they still have a waiting list. It's also rather expensive, at £80 per year, I believe.

I don't think it's very easy to get single man's membership for Xtasia either (most clubs are oversubscribed for single men), but they do have the Flirts bar, with cinema and some play rooms, that I believe it's the first step to getting membership at the club for men. Xtasia website should clarify that.

At Chams, most people walk around in towels or underwear. Make sure you have some comfortable footwear, there is a lot of stairs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
29 weeks ago


"Chams and Xtasia are two very different clubs. For starters, Chams is a dress down on arrival spa-based club, whereas Xtasia is "dress to impress" nightclub style club. You can't really compare the two.

Historically, it has never been easy to get single man's membership at Chams, not sure how it is currently, if they still have a waiting list. It's also rather expensive, at £80 per year, I believe.

I don't think it's very easy to get single man's membership for Xtasia either (most clubs are oversubscribed for single men), but they do have the Flirts bar, with cinema and some play rooms, that I believe it's the first step to getting membership at the club for men. Xtasia website should clarify that.

At Chams, most people walk around in towels or underwear. Make sure you have some comfortable footwear, there is a lot of stairs. "

AHH thank you for that information very helpful x

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By *he James gangCouple
29 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

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By *he James gangCouple
29 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"right I've always wanted to go a club so it's time I just done it I wanted to meet someone and maybe go with them but it ain't happened so couple questions what club is best close to Birmingham xtasia or chameleons? what would I need to take with me? thanks

A 4 leaf clover. All joking aside, chams is way better than xtasia in our opinion. It's dress down from the get go. Friday nights they allow single guys but can be very competitive. The jacuzzi's are good for chatting if you're not shy and is a good starting point. If you possess a bit of charm and wit, that's a good leg up. The smoking area is also a good place to chat. Finally, a pair of flip flops and sexy pants or use the towel provided. Your own booze of course.

ok nice one mate people walking round naked or swim shorts or summat? "

I'd go for something more risque than swim shorts, gladiator/Tarzan type skirt, or show offy pants. There's plenty on eBay, temu etc. or a towel.

We've only been to extasia on bi nights (no more than 20 there) but it's more like a nightclub/disco with loud, thumping shit music and playrooms separate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
29 weeks ago


"right I've always wanted to go a club so it's time I just done it I wanted to meet someone and maybe go with them but it ain't happened so couple questions what club is best close to Birmingham xtasia or chameleons? what would I need to take with me? thanks

A 4 leaf clover. All joking aside, chams is way better than xtasia in our opinion. It's dress down from the get go. Friday nights they allow single guys but can be very competitive. The jacuzzi's are good for chatting if you're not shy and is a good starting point. If you possess a bit of charm and wit, that's a good leg up. The smoking area is also a good place to chat. Finally, a pair of flip flops and sexy pants or use the towel provided. Your own booze of course.

ok nice one mate people walking round naked or swim shorts or summat?

I'd go for something more risque than swim shorts, gladiator/Tarzan type skirt, or show offy pants. There's plenty on eBay, temu etc. or a towel.

We've only been to extasia on bi nights (no more than 20 there) but it's more like a nightclub/disco with loud, thumping shit music and playrooms separate."

yh that's enough to put me off 🤣 x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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29 weeks ago

Central

It's always better to review facilities, men permitted options plus costs. It might be cheaper to venture further out, when costs are high membership waiting lists etc

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