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By *ricky84 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Cannock

Any tips on messaging on her as don't get many replies

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By *offiacoolWoman
30 weeks ago

Alsager

When a woman receives a message, she reads the profile bio. If that bio has 4 words on it, none of which reflects anything she seeks, she will not reply.

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By *ricky84 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Cannock

Thanks for replying

I will update my bio

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By *offiacoolWoman
30 weeks ago

Alsager

"Thanks for replying

I will update my bio"

It needs to reflect your personality, what you offer and seek. Read some others profiles and get some ideas.

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By *harAndBryCouple
30 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Any tips on messaging on her as don't get many replies"

It's not a messaging tip and we don't know if we're your "target market" (mostly because your profile doesn't say what you're looking for or offering) but your first pic would be enough for us to just delete your message. Sorry.

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair

I agree with Renata300 and CharAndBry — most women will look at the sender's profile before even opening the message, if at all.

Also, most (but not all) women/couples are overwhelmed with messages and therefore your message will simply be lost amongst the 'hundreds' in their inboxes.

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By *ricky84 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Cannock

Yea good thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Open to anything? So you want to be pegged and flogged then clean my kitchen naked? 😂

Elaborate on what you like and what you can offer maybe? You are a good looking guy and you had 2 meets last month you just need to open up a bit more.

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By *uperstar76Woman
30 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

The open for anything part are you really open to doing anything? This just makes me think you cant be bothered to write an actual profile

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By *arleycplWoman
30 weeks ago

Frodsham

First thing I do is check the profile, 'up for anything ' sounds desperate. First pic a cock and I press return

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Looking at your bio from my point of view when I was on here as a single woman ….. first thing that stands out (and I mean no offence so please don’t take it that way), is that you need to wash your hands before touching your dick (again my personal preference).

There’s nothing in your bio, it needs to reflect your personality, what can you bring to the table, what are you specifically looking for. The public face pictures are great.

Make sure, when you’re messaging, it’s not just “hi”, as a single woman on here you get inundated, make yourself stand out, throw some personality into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Your profile is very lazily written, as if you couldn’t be bothered to fill it out. Tell people about you, what you like, what you want, what you’ve done.

When you message, write a decent paragraph. Hi how are you is boring. Speak to both people if it’s a couple. We get lots of messages from single men. If it’s a one liner, see ya. If you send a dick pic, I’ll remind you it’s illegal to send one without being asked. If your profile pic is a dick pic, I’ll likely ignore it. If you take the time to read our profile and write a message tailored to it, I’ll give it a chance. If you can’t be bothered, I can’t be bothered.

You won’t get anywhere by sending copy and pasted messages, or one liners. You need to stand out, especially if you are messaging single women!

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By *uliette500Woman
30 weeks ago

Hull

As stated by others most women will check out your profile before even opening your message. You have no bio to speak of and the filthy hands in your first photo would make me delete your message without even reading it.

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By *arleycplWoman
30 weeks ago

Frodsham

"As stated by others most women will check out your profile before even opening your message. You have no bio to speak of and the filthy hands in your first photo would make me delete your message without even reading it. "

Omg why would anyone wank with such dirty hands

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By *r SensualMan
30 weeks ago

London

"Any tips on messaging on her as don't get many replies"

I’ll be honest, don’t even bother sending out messages. 99.9% of them won’t even get read let alone replied no matter how good you think your profile is.

Ask ladies how many of the messages they’re inundated with that they actually reply to and you’ll find the number is very very small regardless of the content of the message itself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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30 weeks ago

Central

As said, users read the profile of the sender, before the message. Read some posts about getting that right. People need to know what you will do for them, why to pick you.

They won't reply if you're not mutually compatible, as most people aren't.

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

We tend to approach folks advertising a meet, either in meets, or status's. Outside of that we tend to more respond when approached.

The two single blokes we did approach posted meets. Though one of them wasn't serious about a meet that day so didn't happen.

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