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By *eedsexcitement OP   Man
30 weeks ago

belfast

I've been told that my profile hasn't enough info on it to be interesting.

New to this kinda thing so looking advice on what I could add to be more interesting.

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By *uteguyhereMan
30 weeks ago

leeds

I struggle with this as well but looking at yours is like one which doesn’t have enough effort put in. Mines the same.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Tamworth

Photos. Ideally not just cock pics.

The purpose of your profile is to tell other people what you offer and what you’re looking for so that they can judge if you’d be compatible with them. So that should be your aim with your text.

Also, there are dozens of threads about this exact topic so I’d recommend a search.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

It’s blank. There’s barely text and there’s no pictures.

You’ve put zero effort into it. Take some pictures, different angles, not all of your nether regions. List your positive attributes.

C x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

What do you want to know about the people you're looking for? Assume they want to know the same about you and write it on your profile

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By *allySlinkyWoman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

I think your profile text is missing the word "for"

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By *issmorganWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It'd be a straight delete for me op, no pics and doesn't really tell me anything interesting about you.

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By *ink vixenCouple
30 weeks ago

Medway

It’s perfect.

Makes a refreshing change no to have to read loads of lies and look at lots of cock pictures.

Leave it just the way it is.

Be patient.

Success will be yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

To be honest. I don’t think many women even read profiles anyway. If they don’t like the pic you send in your message, they straight up delete without even reading your profile. Or maybe that’s just me 😂

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By *issmorganWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"To be honest. I don’t think many women even read profiles anyway. If they don’t like the pic you send in your message, they straight up delete without even reading your profile. Or maybe that’s just me 😂"

I think more do than you think. It's the first thing I do when I get a message and if it's unappealing, I don't respond.

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By *nicornLadySparklesWoman
30 weeks ago

Scotland

Actually it's the first thing I do when get a wink or a message, check out their profile, photos, what they've wrote, interests, and especially the verifications xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

I always read profiles before replying

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By *oliteplaymateMan
30 weeks ago

sheffield


"To be honest. I don’t think many women even read profiles anyway. If they don’t like the pic you send in your message, they straight up delete without even reading your profile. Or maybe that’s just me 😂"

To be fair it’s a woman’s perogative to be choosey. After all they are the ones in control of what they want to do and with whom. All we can do is try and sell ourselves to them.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
30 weeks ago

Hinckley


"I've been told that my profile hasn't enough info on it to be interesting.

New to this kinda thing so looking advice on what I could add to be more interesting. "

Have you compared it to other profiles on here? Being honest it looks pretty poor.

And if I understand it you are looking for a teacher??

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By *ovinglife!40Man
30 weeks ago

Hinckley

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By *ouple_For_BuddyCouple
30 weeks ago

Newport

Most men seem to want a shag, they want it right now, they want it with the minimum of effort and most do not care what they shag.

Worse still, most men seem to think that we shouldn't care who we shag either.

You seem to be one of those individuals.

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By *oliteplaymateMan
30 weeks ago

sheffield

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By *arand25Couple
30 weeks ago

Crowborough


"To be honest. I don’t think many women even read profiles anyway. If they don’t like the pic you send in your message, they straight up delete without even reading your profile. Or maybe that’s just me 😂"

It's also the other way round, when we first started looking for single guys so many clearly couldn't be bothered to read our profile before messaging. In the end we blocked single guys & if we want one, we'll find them, it's far less debilitating lol

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By *ovinglife!40Man
30 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Most men seem to want a shag, they want it right now, they want it with the minimum of effort and most do not care what they shag.

Worse still, most men seem to think that we shouldn't care who we shag either.

You seem to be one of those individuals.

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Very accurate comments.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Tamworth


"To be honest. I don’t think many women even read profiles anyway. If they don’t like the pic you send in your message, they straight up delete without even reading your profile. Or maybe that’s just me 😂"

Unless they’re telling you why they’ve deleted, you have no idea why.

I too read all profiles before the message but you’d never know because like most women, I’m in ninja mode.

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I've been told that my profile hasn't enough info on it to be interesting."

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What profile? 🤔

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By *idalioMan
30 weeks ago

NW

You're certainly not alone in this question OP, I've dissected my profile so many time's and still without any luck. And luck is all it seems to be, even when texting, some like a direct dirty approach whereas other's want polite chit chat, I'm certainly never rude to anyone but the amount of introductions I've made , all to fall flat on my face. I remain clueless and optimistic though. Good luck and happy Fabbing 😊

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
30 weeks ago

London - South East and West


"I've been told that my profile hasn't enough info on it to be interesting.

New to this kinda thing so looking advice on what I could add to be more interesting. "

Get some picture of you showing off your gentleman sausage in your bathroom, be sure to have towels strewn everywhere and just like a pic Mrs DD saw not too long ago, stick it through the cardboard of an empty toilet roll tube, they will be falling over themselves to date you.

Failing the above, just one picture taken of you ‘on the job’, while wearing socks, preferably white ones and pulled up as far as possible.

My fingers are firmly crossed that these pearls of Fab wisdom works wonders for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Mr DD 🙃

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