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By *andK123 OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Devon

How do people arrange hotel meets?

Couple inviting a male?

What are the best hotels? Getting passed security? Hotels to avoid? Advice please

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By *ink vixenCouple
31 weeks ago

Medway

Never been an issue.

Book hotel room as a couple.

Arrange to meet guy or guys in the bar.

Brazenly walk to room together.

Hotels know what’s going on and if you’re not pissed and acting like noisy twats they don’t care I believe.

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By *andK123 OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Devon

How would you arrange the scenario where by the come to the room. Not really interested in social in the bar etc . Can people come to your room or do there have to go with you ?

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By *moothGrooveWoman
31 weeks ago


"How would you arrange the scenario where by the come to the room. Not really interested in social in the bar etc . Can people come to your room or do there have to go with you ?"

That all depends whether you need a key card to get through the internal doors and use the lift.

If you don't just tell them your room number, if you do need a key card, you'll probably need to meet them at the door.

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By *CExeCouple
31 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

We use hotels all the time and have never had an issue once. Usually Chels will get settled in the room and I'll pop down and meet whoever is joining us and bring them up. The hotel staff won't care unless it's a druggie, a really obvious working girl or someone who appears underage. Travel Lodge, Premier Inn and that type of hotel is best rather than some private or boutique type.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

One of us goes down to meet whoever we have invited to join us

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By *he Gloryhole GirlCouple
31 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Give them the room number, leave the door on the latch and they let themselves in. Most hotels dont have keycard access on the stairwells so tell them to use that route or alternately hide the room key somewhere (tyre on the car etc)

There are hundreds if guests in a hotel and staff change shifts so no chance they question it. Enjoy!

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Coleraine

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Coleraine

Never been an issue. Hotels simply don’t know its happening or care.

If them knowing bothers you as it did for us in the early days when we always asked for two key cards for the room and asked the guy to follow up after us. Very useful having the two cards anyway.

We pretty much always meet in the bar first to check everything is as it should be and to build things up slowly.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
30 weeks ago

Norwich

When I arranged a blindfold surprise for Debs I left a key card on top of the front wheel of our car in the carpark and told the guy our room number and where to find the key.

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By *andybitches1Couple
30 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Only had two but first just got the room number and went up and walked in and second was met outside and just walked past reception and up to room.

Didn't think it would be that easy but so far it has been.

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By *uriouscouple105Couple
30 weeks ago

Fife

Had a room meet arranged last night but failed to show. It would have been easy to get in as lift bypassed reception on 1st floor

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've always noticed that these types of threads are most often created by couples.

In earnest, and genuine question what are the perceived issues or obstacles that they have to overcome for a seamless hotel meet?

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By *sWyldWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My preference has always been to meet in hotels. Never ever had an issue.

Sometimes I've met the person in the bar and other times either I or they have gone straight to the room.

Its no big deal and isn't hard to arrange

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have done this where the female stays in the room and the male meets the other person outside the hotel, taking both room cards so both can give a quick flash of a room card if necessary. It's never been a problem.

It's even handier if there is another entrance / lift that doesn't go past reception, but not essential.

Biggest tip - don't look guilty!

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By *aomilatteCouple
30 weeks ago

Midlands

Hotel staff aren't going to remember everyone who is staying there. You can meet in the car park and simply walk together to the room. We had a play meet at a hotel and at the end of the meet found out the Lady had carried a box with a double dildo (with a photo of the contents!) past reception and a busy bar. We were in hysterics later.

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By *enelope2UWoman
30 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Actually act like an adult and go speak with them as a human. walk up with them and live your life. If you're too embarrassed to be seen with the person you're too immature for my liking to warrant sex.

If im doing a fantasy play then I'd put the key at my car tire and tell them the details.

I'd give two names at the front desk and ask reception to give me a call once ..Dr Jones.. arrives so we'd continue the fantasy play with staff innocently helping.

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By *andK123 OP   Couple
30 weeks ago

Devon

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By *andK123 OP   Couple
30 weeks ago

Devon

Nothing to do with immaturity or embarrassment. And nothing to do with not acting like an adult. The idea was to have someone come in while playing . Thanks for your input !!

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By *tallion26Man
30 weeks ago

durham

I’ve met women and couples in travel lodge, premier inn and radison blue in the past and never once had a problem, staff usually aren’t bothered unless you look like your upto something you shouldn’t be or are visibly d*unk/drugs etc, don’t think I’ve ever been to a hotel where you need a card to get to the rooms, only to enter the room itself

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By *our_Best_Kept_SecretMan
30 weeks ago

Telford

Most Premier Inns need a key card to get from reception into the room corridors

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By *rasshopper201Man
30 weeks ago

kendal

Went to one hotel don’t think I was the first there just walked in and asked where the room no I was looking for was and went don’t forget some interviews took place this way business meets aswell

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By *abulincsCouple
30 weeks ago

near a bridge

Never had a problem other than no shows all else fails dirty hotel sex between us if others turn up happy days

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By *ildmanYorksMan
30 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Never had a problem other than no shows all else fails dirty hotel sex between us if others turn up happy days "

If you were in a hotel.near me, I'd definitely turn up!

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By *ichaelsmyMan
30 weeks ago

douglas

i once worked in a hotel a couple would check in, leave 2/3 hours later.

the room was cleaned and re let again.

they booked in every two weeks, left huge tips foreveryone. we all knew what was going on and didnt care about it.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
30 weeks ago

Leicester

We would also mention using the Dayuse app for daytime hotel meets. Very convenient and often cheaper than the overnight rate. Also hotels that do Dayuse are going to be used to guests having 'meetings' in their rooms so no eyebrows will be raised

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By *aughtycheshirecoupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire

We either have people back to our house after a night out or invite people off here to our hotel. Stayed in everything from a premier inn to a five star hotel. Never had an issue getting anyone to our room or several at different times. Hotels know this stuff goes on lol

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By *ig daddy 1969Man
30 weeks ago

manchester

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
30 weeks ago

London

I have been a thrupple in a premier inn a few times. They have seen us all together. We needed room key to get to rooms. But had two keys. So if we wanted the third to join in the middle of play that wouldn’t have been a problem. The staff were friendly and helpful. They gave us more towels and another cup for teas and coffee xx

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By *he Silver FuxMan
30 weeks ago

Utero

The Village Hotels know the deal.

No keycards needed to gain access to any floor until the Room door.

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By *dm34Man
30 weeks ago

Belfast

Ring the hotel direct and ask for a day room, usually 9-5pm, cheaper than full rate.

Used the Clayton in Belfast in occasions

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
30 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west


"How would you arrange the scenario where by the come to the room. Not really interested in social in the bar etc . Can people come to your room or do there have to go with you ?"

We usually get to the hotel and hit the 'see who's near'button... we've had people come straight to our room, no socialising at all

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By *rincess and partnerCouple
20 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

Sounds like a good idea, were thinking of trying a hotel meet for the 1st time.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Me and my fwb use mercure hotels they allow 5 hour bookings and they now definitely what's going on...

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Never had an issue. Have used the app day use many times for day hotel meets.

Agree a time and then I’ll book. Have done both head their first and he room, tell the other person the room number. Have also met them and headed in together which makes it fun as the reception staff clearly know what your using the room for

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By *abulincsCouple
20 weeks ago

near a bridge

We arranged many hotel meets but like most single guys choose to either ghost or no show on the day lol but then post can’t get meets 3 one day lol this site is nowhere near as reliable as it used to be

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By *ycleguy300Man
20 weeks ago

telford

I met a lovely lady who just told reception I was coming and I’d need to pick up a key card. Went to reception and said the room number and had to pick up a key card. I’m sure they knew what was going on but straightforward to do.

Had a great afternoon too

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I normally choose a hotel that has easy access to the rooms, key card access etc. Did have a problem the other week where my guest was interrogated by reception in a hotel that I normally have no problems with. The reception had to call me then they let him up without much extra hassle. I just won’t use that hotel again.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

From photos posted on Fab, Premier Inn is popular, although other hotel chains are available

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By *sWyldWoman
20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love a day room Hotel. Get some nice rooms for much less than their overnight rate and it feels like a nice escape from the world.

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By *k_123Man
20 weeks ago

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I stay in lots of hotels and have had several meets, newer ibis, premier inn and Travelodge all seem to have key card restrictions on the lifts.

Village Hotels are by far the best access, private apartments on booking.com are also great if you want more discretion or not have to worry about noise.

Nothing better than a daytime hotel meet

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
20 weeks ago

Frodsham

We use day rooms and over night stays for meets. We prefer hotels that don’t need a key card to access lifts if possible (holiday inn, ibis are 2). However as someone said the stairs rarely have key card access in any hotel so there’s always a way for people to get to the room. We just give them the number and wait for them to arrive

Never had an issue and all of our meets have been in hotels

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By *estinysswingersCouple
20 weeks ago

Worsley

You need to give first refusal to the reception staff.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
20 weeks ago

South East

Book a room and check in as a couple

Get your meet to arrive and park up and let you know when they are there. Send someone down to meet him and walk back to your room, the hotel couldn’t care less

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
20 weeks ago

London


"Book a room and check in as a couple

Get your meet to arrive and park up and let you know when they are there. Send someone down to meet him and walk back to your room, the hotel couldn’t care less "

Exactly this, we always get our own room as that's a treat in itself.

No hotel cares unless you have hundreds of people arriving or those that are using it for business purposes...

Hotels that don't require keys to access just means they can come right to your room, but for many having the security of meeting someone for the first time in a public place is often preferable

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By *ilva69Man
20 weeks ago

stockport

Got lost in the maze of bedrooms, chamber maid asked if she could help embarrassingly I asked for the room number, I think it goes on more often than you realise!

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By *amseMan
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

I prefer to dayroom hotels, and it’s a good way to have discreet meets.

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By * New YorkieMan
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Love hotel meets. I mostly host the singles and couples. Some times they want to come right to the room. Other times a drink in the bar to make sure everyone is comfy. I love both. I have never found any issues with the hotels as like most ppl are saying they are so busy to know who is there to sleep and who is there for fun..

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By *ee And MikeCouple
19 weeks ago

Cannock

As a cuckold couple we’ve often met guys in hotels.

Never found it to be an issue, even if I sit in the bar having a drink whilst she goes up to the room to play.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Never had an issue, usually we check in, meet person in the hotel bar or a bar closed then all go to the room together.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
19 weeks ago

East Sussex

The way I look at it is that we've rented the room and as long as nobody stays over we can invite who we like into it for a couple of hours.

Some hotel rooms accommodate three people anyway, so if you book it on that basis there's no problem

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By *ungle JesusMan
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm certain hotels have a lot worse people to be watching out for other than consenting adults fucking hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

As most say on here we've never had an issue, they know and one gave us a knowing wink

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By *etro manMan
19 weeks ago

manchester

Have had a few hotel meeting book same hotel or a swingers hotel I have booked a hotel and noticed the other people have taken pictures I text them jokingly saying keep the noise down I am in the room below they replied yea send a picture so I did me naked on the bed 5 minutes later I was on there bed naked

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Weve only had 1 meet and gave the guy our room number. I couldn't get hard as I was panicking over the noise and other people hearing me be cucked lol....wanked over the videos after the bull left though lol

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By *umagain58Man
19 weeks ago

London

Have done hotel meets many times on work trips. Never been any issues for me as just need to be confident when meeting others and if any on reception. Only once had an issue when a couple were dressed inappropriately. I gave them a miss as not for me and did not take back to room. Lots of fun had and nice people

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By *akingtheplungeMan
19 weeks ago

kent

There's a ok one near me, nice because reception is of to the side do no awkwardness explaining to the staff , just walk straight in, easy

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