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By *elshdragon900 OP   Woman
31 weeks ago

Swansea

Is there any way of limiting where people message from??

I don’t want conversations with people who are 200 miles away, for me it’s being unrealistic for a meet, I’d just like a small radius? 🤞🤞

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By *iss DevilWoman
31 weeks ago

Bedford

Sadly, there is no distance filter, as far as I'm aware.

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By *b03Man
31 weeks ago

Exeter

We have lots of filters however a distance filter is definitely one that would be useful.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I’d just like a small radius 🤞🤞"

Is that a euphemism?

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By *ink vixenCouple
31 weeks ago

Medway

Love it when they’re perfectly happy to travel 350 odd miles.

Guys round the corner regularly used to fail to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Is there any way of limiting where people message from??

I don’t want conversations with people who are 200 miles away, for me it’s being unrealistic for a meet, I’d just like a small radius? 🤞🤞"

lol! This!

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

cannock

We would have to agree, if someone from miles away messages, we do check the profile, they might be visiting a club over our way. Most of the time though theyre not and its surely not worth trying to arrange a meet with someone hundreds of miles away

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Is there any way of limiting where people message from??

I don’t want conversations with people who are 200 miles away..."

Just delete those messages. It's pointless opening/responding to people far away. Instead focus on those messages that YOU'RE sending.

I'm happy that there is no filter because the messaging facility isn't solely about physical encounters. People also message via the forums for games, challenges and participation.

In all the years I've been here I've only met one woman from London. All the others were 100s miles away. Long distance messaging works to my benefit and to my paramour/s'.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I agree it can be annoying.

I had a man message me from 300 miles away, I asked if he was ever in yorks, when he asked to chat. He said no, so I said there's not really much point as it will never come to anything.

It turned out he was after sex chat anyway, so I blocked him.

I now tend to think, many from miles away are just after dirty chat that's just my experience, so I delete messages when someone is way too far.

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By *CExeCouple
30 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Chels and I love around 250 miles apart and meet up a few times a month, which makes the distance thing a bit tricky for us. I travel around the UK a fair bit too and have had some good socials with folks when I'm stuck in an unknown town or city for a few days.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Would love this too but it will never change

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By *r SensualMan
30 weeks ago

London

Totally against this as it would stop those of us who venture further afield to go to clubs being able to reach out to people beforehand

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By *ack DawXXXMan
30 weeks ago

Weybridge

I love a small radius.

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By *arleycplWoman
30 weeks ago

Frodsham


"Sadly, there is no distance filter, as far as I'm aware. "

One is needed 😌

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