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By (user no longer on site) OP   
31 weeks ago

Being new on here I'm finding it difficult to get connections. What makes a good profile and opening message to get your attention? Steve

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By *aven RedWoman
31 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

There are numerous threads giving advice on this in the lounge. Go look at them and read them. Lots of very good advice. But then you need to personalise it to yourself. Good luck x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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31 weeks ago

East Sussex

Whose attention do you want to attract?I

If I tell you what would make me sit up and take notice it won't be what other people like necessarily.

Be yourself and read profiles before you message.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Being new on here I'm finding it difficult to get connections. What makes a good profile and opening message to get your attention? Steve "

As a couple, maybe not your target audience as we’re straight, we’d pass. Daytime meets and can’t accommodate are a bit of a red flag to us. We could of course be wrong in our assumption

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By *herryEatersCouple
31 weeks ago

East Cheshire


"Being new on here I'm finding it difficult to get connections. What makes a good profile and opening message to get your attention? Steve "

Daytime fun and can't accomodate ?. To us that says you're playing away....

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By *nigmatic PeachTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Be honest, be real, be you. Appreciate and accept that not everybody will fall at your feet or want to even talk to you.

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By *izzy.Woman
31 weeks ago

Stoke area


"Being new on here I'm finding it difficult to get connections. What makes a good profile and opening message to get your attention? Steve

Daytime fun and can't accomodate ?. To us that says you're playing away...."

The wedding ring on the profile photo suggests that too.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I think a good profile has a variety of sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I’ve been on here as a single previously. I liked a good varying degree of pictures, but no close ups of your wilf. Along with a profile of what you’re looking for. First messages, this is your first impression, make sure you’ve read their profile and adapted your first message to align with that.

That said, everyone is different. It depends on who you want to attract and what they’re looking for personally.

Happy Fabbing

C x

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