FabSwingers.com forum: What to wear as a female at a club

By *tarlight01 OP Woman
32 weeks ago

Redcar

I’m thinking of visiting a club for the first time but am having anxiety over what I should be wearing. I was thinking a dress for early in the evening but what do people wear when it comes to play time?

I’m not the most body confident so would like to stay a little covered at least the first visit. I was wondering if some crotchless underwear would be suitable?

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By *aven RedWoman
32 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

Depends what club it is but 'dress down' for me used to be my underwear. When I was self conscious I wore a baby doll set. It covered up the mum rolls. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. Its usually underwear for women on dress down. Hope that answered your question OP x

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
32 weeks ago

Epsom

My favourite go to is a bodysuit (like I have pictured - so not the full body ones) which can also came in crotchless for easy access and you can always pop your tits out too 😉

And I’ll pair with a skirt with high slits. So I feel covered when I wanna be and ready to play. Also it’s easier to keep track of your clothes in the pile 😂

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By *JohnMan
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Dress down is fairly flexible, at least at the clubs I've been to. The main thing is that you're not fully clothed, as that can be off-putting to people who are playing.

Wear something you feel good in. You want to feel confident and sexy. Any kind of lingerie works. If you want to cover up a little more, you can wear a robe over it.

Having some flexibility in your outfit is good - you might end up feeling more daring than you were expecting. I was surprised how comfortable I was the first time I went to a club

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm a big fan of the lacy long dress with a high split when I'm feeling self conscious.

Wear what you feel comfortable in.

Some clubs are dress down on entry so they can be a bit more difficult on the self conscious days. If that's the case just wear your favourite underwear and take a lace or silky robe so you don't have to feel too exposed all the time 💜

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
32 weeks ago

Sheffield

Take a bag and a few choices. X

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By *etro manMan
32 weeks ago

manchester

Dressing to please you is important if you feel good you will be good and sexy under wear helps should you feel like sharing the girls and guys will show there interest in different ways

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By *ewisandsofiaCouple
32 weeks ago

North Cornwall

This is an interesting conversation. Sofia and I have been thinking of visiting a club, but we are casual, surf type dressers and Sofia is adamant she wouldn’t want to go as anyone but herself.

So we’ve been wondering what on earth we would do

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
32 weeks ago

Tamworth

"This is an interesting conversation. Sofia and I have been thinking of visiting a club, but we are casual, surf type dressers and Sofia is adamant she wouldn’t want to go as anyone but herself.

So we’ve been wondering what on earth we would do "

You could always look at dress down clubs which removes the need to dress up and feel uncomfortable?

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
32 weeks ago

London - South East and West

"This is an interesting conversation. Sofia and I have been thinking of visiting a club, but we are casual, surf type dressers and Sofia is adamant she wouldn’t want to go as anyone but herself.

So we’ve been wondering what on earth we would do "

I recognise Sofia's struggle. I want to feel like me and not like ive dressed up as a sexpot for the night. I've ended up buying sheer versions of the kind of dresses I would normally wear. I think the key thing is to enable easy access. So wear things that unbutton down the front, or can be pulled to one side to reveal bit of you. Have fun in whatever you end up wearing

Mrs DD

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By *rregularchoiceCouple
32 weeks ago

Blackpool

I tend to mix it up depending on my mood. I have bodysuit style body stockings, little slips that I wear over my underwear, sometimes it’s just black bra and knickers with a body chain. It really depends. I also have a really short dress that isn’t clingy but is booby that I feel 100% comfortable in. It’s also acceptable to just have a towel around you if there’s a wet area so I have been known to not get dressed again after a hot tub!

Ultimately being comfortable is the most important thing, you can’t go wrong with a baby doll in my opinion then once you’ve been a few times and you’re comfortable then change it up ☺️

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
32 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

To be honest there is a wide variety of clubs and dress, if you’re looking to go but aren’t dress up people, try a fancy dress night. This time of year there’s loads. Halloween, Christmas etc. clothes aren’t on for long anyway. I’m a big fan of wearing a wraparound dress (easy to get on and off and I can wear it open when it’s too hot).

Most importantly wheat whatever you feel comfortable in. If you feel great you’ll give off hot vibes. That’s far more appealing than the clothes IMO.

I hope you have the best time!!

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
32 weeks ago

Hampshire

I always like a crotchless body stocking. Can wear it under my dress - don't have to take it off for play unless I want to and it just makes me feel a little more confident! Xx

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32 weeks ago

I like to wear a short LBD halter neck dress when in the socialising areas

. When i am playing usually i have some sort of lacy outfit on. I dont like being fully naked perfer to have something on. The lace outfis normally have scope to either move to one side or flick over my head so my stomach area (which love/hate) is still covered

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By *aandLoCouple
32 weeks ago

Southampton

"I always like a crotchless body stocking. Can wear it under my dress - don't have to take it off for play unless I want to and it just makes me feel a little more confident! Xx"

And they look amazing on you! 💖

I have quite a few body stockings, plus the dress type. Love them.

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