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How many photos is too many?

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By *reative Captures OP   Couple
32 weeks ago

Gloucester

Hey everyone,

We’ve had our couples profile for about 6 years now, and over time we’ve built up quite a collection of pictures.

Some of the older ones are still favorites, but we’re starting to wonder if there’s such a thing as too many photos on a profile.

At what point do you start cleaning things up or taking older ones down? Do you leave them up as part of your shared “story”, or try to keep things more current?

Even if we really like some of the older shots, we don’t want the profile to feel cluttered or outdated. We're curious how other couples handle this, do you ever go back and curate, or let it show the full timeline?

Thanks in advance

K&G

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Hey everyone,

We’ve had our couples profile for about 6 years now, and over time we’ve built up quite a collection of pictures.

Some of the older ones are still favorites, but we’re starting to wonder if there’s such a thing as too many photos on a profile.

At what point do you start cleaning things up or taking older ones down? Do you leave them up as part of your shared “story”, or try to keep things more current?

Even if we really like some of the older shots, we don’t want the profile to feel cluttered or outdated. We're curious how other couples handle this, do you ever go back and curate, or let it show the full timeline?

Thanks in advance

K&G"

Your images are great, and even the oldest are under 6 years. We've seen some with photos 15+ years old and nothing more recent

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By *reative Captures OP   Couple
32 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Your images are great, and even the oldest are under 6 years. We've seen some with photos 15+ years old and nothing more recent "

Thank you ☺️ we were just aware how your generally change over the years 🤣

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By *ancs_and_LancsCouple
32 weeks ago

north west

I don't think there is such a thing as too many, so long as you don't reach your limit and have to upgrade from Silver to Gold. One caveat though is variety, no point in having a load of pictures pretty much the same. We have seen some guys profile pictures where its like 50 pics of his cock from slightly different angles and nothing else. That's a bit strange and more than 1 of effectively identical pics is too many in that circumstance

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Diversity is more important nobody wants to see the same thing, at the same angle, again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"I don't think there is such a thing as too many, so long as you don't reach your limit and have to upgrade from Silver to Gold. One caveat though is variety, no point in having a load of pictures pretty much the same. We have seen some guys profile pictures where its like 50 pics of his cock from slightly different angles and nothing else. That's a bit strange and more than 1 of effectively identical pics is too many in that circumstance "

Shit I didn't read this, exactly my point

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

We change our photos regularily!

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By *herryEatersCouple
32 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Too many photos just seem to attract pic collectors

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By *cottish guy 555Man
32 weeks ago

London

I never look past page 1 of pictures.

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By *ellinever70Woman
32 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Any more than around half a dozen is overkill

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By *aven3Man
32 weeks ago

Street

Variety is the spice of life.Show what's on offer.

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By *eyeYCouple
32 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
32 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Sexy pics OP!

We're considering this too, but when you scroll back through them they jog naughty memories, kinda a filthy Facebook if you like 😉😄😘

But as mentioned 50 different angles of the same cock, arse, pussy or boobs is excessive.

Think one guy who contacted us had 72 of his penis and little else, I counted as I was amazed, but still uninterested 🤣👍 Yx

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By *reative Captures OP   Couple
32 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Sexy pics OP!

We're considering this too, but when you scroll back through them they jog naughty memories, kinda a filthy Facebook if you like 😉😄😘

But as mentioned 50 different angles of the same cock, arse, pussy or boobs is excessive.

Think one guy who contacted us had 72 of his penis and little else, I counted as I was amazed, but still uninterested 🤣👍 Yx"

Thank you very much, yours are great too 😉

We do like scrolling through in the same way.

We might have a small cull of our repetitive ones we think and perhaps have some fun reproducing our favourite ones 😈

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By *reative Captures OP   Couple
32 weeks ago

Gloucester

This is probably true for most people.

It depends on the variety we guess.

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By *eyeYCouple
32 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Sexy pics OP!

We're considering this too, but when you scroll back through them they jog naughty memories, kinda a filthy Facebook if you like 😉😄😘

But as mentioned 50 different angles of the same cock, arse, pussy or boobs is excessive.

Think one guy who contacted us had 72 of his penis and little else, I counted as I was amazed, but still uninterested 🤣👍 Yx

Thank you very much, yours are great too 😉

We do like scrolling through in the same way.

We might have a small cull of our repetitive ones we think and perhaps have some fun reproducing our favourite ones 😈

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Thank you! 😊

Actually asked a similar question on the forum yesterday, if you want to see the feedback we got (Pic Cull, a reserve idea..) x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
32 weeks ago

Coventry

I say have as many as you like. They're kind of a visual journal and many of us are proud of them. However bear in mind most people probably won't look past page 2. So if you want to show your A game be selective in what you show.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
32 weeks ago

Sheffield

I tend to never scroll past page 1 on anyone’s pictures.

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By *elaniejayTV/TS
31 weeks ago

London

I think it depends on what's in the set, I do find it strange on some guys profiles that they have 50 very similar photos of them on holiday at the beach or round the pool, but none of the very important areas we girls like to check out xx

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By *ancs_and_LancsCouple
31 weeks ago

north west

Prime example....just looked at a profile from another chat topic - "favourite pic from the person above", and found 78 pictures of the guys cock and no pictures of anything else at all.

Needless to say, no reply to forum post from us.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
31 weeks ago

Midlands

We've got loads, as we don't delete the old ones. I'd like to think they're all a bit different though.

Katie

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By *aretobareCouple
31 weeks ago

Central Portugal

More pictures is always lovely especially ones of both of you - it is annoying going to a couples profile and only having pictures of one of you x

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would say anything less than six in total and over three years old is probably not going to appeal to some people.

I'm a fan of a full and varied gallery, creative and imaginative photographs, old and new. I think it's a qualitative thing than a quantitative one.

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
31 weeks ago

Newport

Quality over quantity. There's a guy in my area I see on updates page, I swear he uploaded like 10 pics a week all exactly the same kind of pic. Like be creative and do something different instead of uploading your 100th pic of you standing in your living room with your dick out.

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By *punfun432Man
30 weeks ago

South Lincs

the diversity thing also has a hidden bonus. If you have x photos all depicting a similar thing then people can 'fab' them but you get no information from it really. If you have pics that represent the kind of things you enjoy, your kinks and suchlike, then you can glean lots from which photos someone fabs. For example, if you are a bi couple and a prospective meet only fab'ed the pics with a female it would be a red flag. if you like BB then it gives a bit more confidence if someone fab's pics that show that. I'm sure you get the idea - its a great way to glean more info for a lot of different reasons and isn't used often enough for that purpose IMO

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair


"the diversity thing also has a hidden bonus. If you have x photos all depicting a similar thing then people can 'fab' them but you get no information from it really. If you have pics that represent the kind of things you enjoy, your kinks and suchlike, then you can glean lots from which photos someone fabs. For example, if you are a bi couple and a prospective meet only fab'ed the pics with a female it would be a red flag. if you like BB then it gives a bit more confidence if someone fab's pics that show that. I'm sure you get the idea - its a great way to glean more info for a lot of different reasons and isn't used often enough for that purpose IMO"

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I'm sure there is merit in what you're saying but I don't entirely share your thoughts.

Most of the people I know that have an array of creative and enticing photos care less about getting 'fabs' on their images. Any 'fabs' that they get are simply a byproduct of their appealing galleries.

I'm vanilla. I'm not a swinger or any form of kinkster, and yet when I Fab a photo it's often because I'm paying homage to a woman's photogenic pussy or her décollatage, even though she might be tied up to a swing or juxtaposed with a shit load of varying dildos and strapons. I pay little attention to their toys or erotic paraphernalia.

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By *issmorganWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If it gets to several pages, I do get bored of looking at pics.

Also on couple profiles (not yours op) if there's no pics of the man on the first page, I click out of that profile.

I won't search for pics of the Mr.

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