FabSwingers.com forum: Is this swinging or just creative begging?

By *Stud2017 OP Man
33 weeks ago

North West

Had this exchange with a couple, want to know if this is normal or just time-wasting.

• I asked where they were based → they sent postcode

• I said I’d be in the area at a certain time

• They asked if I could put £30 towards “party supplies”

• I told them I don’t take drugs

• They said it helps them relax and gets them in the mood

• They still invited me over if I was ok with it

• I asked to swap photos → they sent 4 body pics, no faces

• I asked for face pics → they read it and never replied

Red flags I noticed:

• Never asked for my photos

• Money/drugs before any verification

• Silent as soon as I asked for faces

Is this just how some people play, or is it likely scam behaviour?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I just think one has to be very careful,the internet can be a dangerous place.

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By *WB85Man
33 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When they dont ask for pics after sending you some....it isnt real.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
33 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

You probably dodged a bullet OP

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By *layfullsamMan
33 weeks ago

Solihull

Definitely a scam imo or if it isn’t it’s still not the meet I’d like

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By *Stud2017 OP Man
33 weeks ago

North West

"I just think one has to be very careful,the internet can be a dangerous place."

True. That’s why I was cautious when money came up before anything else. Better to step back than walk into something sketchy.

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By *Stud2017 OP Man
33 weeks ago

North West

"When they dont ask for pics after sending you some....it isnt real. "

Yeah, that stood out to me too. No genuine couple skips basic mutual verification.

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By *Stud2017 OP Man
33 weeks ago

North West

"You probably dodged a bullet OP"

Agreed. In hindsight, I think I did. Silence after asking for face pics tells me everything I needed to know.

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By *Stud2017 OP Man
33 weeks ago

North West

"Definitely a scam imo or if it isn’t it’s still not the meet I’d like"

Exactly my thoughts. Even if it wasn’t a scam, the vibe was off and not the kind of meet I’d want either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
33 weeks ago

East Sussex

Report them

Asking for money and drugs is against site rules.

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