FabSwingers.com forum: Bi curious

By *omsarah73 OP Couple
33 weeks ago

Suffolk

My partner has asked and talked about meeting a guy I could possibly play with as in touching sucking wanking and possibly giving.

In return she want us to play with him together then let him fuck her and me watch or join in.

Sounds interesting but not sure if I’m going to enjoy.

Should I try before comment?????

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33 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"My partner has asked and talked about meeting a guy I could possibly play with as in touching sucking wanking and possibly giving.

In return she want us to play with him together then let him fuck her and me watch or join in.

Sounds interesting but not sure if I’m going to enjoy.

Should I try before comment?????"

I would suggest going with what you are comfy with try it if you want to don’t if you don’t go with your comfort level if you start of small you can allways do more that way your not diving head first into something you might not enjoy and maybe you will find more things you do enjoy

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By *andydan69Man
33 weeks ago

south west m5 corridor bristol to past exeter

Happy to chat etc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
33 weeks ago

Central

With 3 of you present, you'd have lots of options to explore. It's probably better to explain to a prospective partner that you don't know if you'd enjoy it, as some people gain a lot more pleasure from a full bi session and it could be their main motivation.

Obviously there's nothing to stop you exploring by yourself and it could potentially just start with watching porn and trying out other things.

Obviously each person is different, so it could be helpful to define your ideal partner. Just as women here are not interested in every man, the same could be true for you.

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By *issmorganWoman
33 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You won't know unless you try op, but do you want to do it, or are you just doing it for her?.

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By *littylicker69Man
33 weeks ago

abergavenny

This is tricky it sounds like it’s what she wants but it depends more on how you are feeling about it & maybe how jealous you may start to feel about another guy fucking your g/f in front of you & could end up with you parting company because of it think if you are happy about that bit before trying things for real

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By *ideshaft1971Man
33 weeks ago

Midlands

"This is tricky it sounds like it’s what she wants but it depends more on how you are feeling about it & maybe how jealous you may start to feel about another guy fucking your g/f in front of you & could end up with you parting company because of it think if you are happy about that bit before trying things for real "

As said above, it does sound like she wants another guy to take her but clearly has a want to see you touching another guy which she has no doubt been thinking about for a while. You won’t know until you try so it’s your call

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By *awpleasureMan
33 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Why not give it a go. I did and now i cant get enough of bi mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I would say communication is key for you all certainly for you and gf to discuss in more details and what you are comfortable exploring. Equally any additional invited parties should be aware of any boundaries that are set and work with you. Take care and have fun and stay safe - most of all comms is key in my opinion

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By *om WxmMan
33 weeks ago

Wrexham

As said above, communication is the key to it. Make sure what you do is what you both want.

Has your partner been looking for a suitable playmate yet?

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
33 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

You need to ask yourself how curious you are to try it. Don't do it for your partner if it makes you uncomfortable. It has to be something you both want. Before I ever explored with another guy I was very curious, and after playing many times (as couple and solo) I am confident in knowing I'm bisexual. What started as curiosity for giving head to a guy has grown to me actually having crushes on men and getting very intimate with them. If you do find the thought of bi play a turn on then dive in and try it. Worst case you dont enjoy and dont have to do it again, best case you enjoy it a lot and get to have some of the best threesomes ever! (Better than MFF in our opinion).

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By *otfunx1Man
33 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We have talked about her enjoying another guy, though turns us both on. I'd love her to suggest me enjoying him too. She knows how much I enjoy her fucking me and sharing my cum with me

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By *heffstarMan
33 weeks ago

Sheffield

My bi curious side is tgirls/cd..the a typical man meeting 1 on 1 doesn't do anything for me but love playing with couple and receive oral and top male.so much better when female enjoys watching etc

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By *omsarah73 OP Couple
33 weeks ago

Suffolk

Thank you all for your kind words of advice giving me lots to think about and it’s much appreciated.

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By *evlishduncMan
33 weeks ago

north suffolk south norfolk

Don’t feel pressurised into doing anything that you don’t want to do, that’s is unlikely to turn out well.

If you are intrigued enough to be inquisitive, then give it a go. You would not have to repeat it if you didn’t enjoy it. That being said, have a very frank conversation with your partner and set agreed boundaries. If after that you decide to go ahead, set up a meeting with someone but being clear about your boundaries from the outset. If all goes well, you can always agree to a second meeting and so on.

For me, my first big experience was with a couple and I found that easier to ‘label’ and compute in my mind. It also felt less daunting than meeting a guy alone.

You do you. Good luck.

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By *uckingfell59Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

Well your discussing it and that’s the place to start as in all things in this lifestyle, I regret not having that discussion with my ex when we were swinging together, I explored my bi curiosity much later alas alone

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By *aulnextMan
33 weeks ago

Hoar Cross Staffordshire

I love playing with a wife and bi husband

Fucking and sucking at the same time is so erotic

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