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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

Hello there you wonderful people.

I’m relatively new to the site and decided to take some time and dedicate it to making my profile seem somewhat professional/tidy.

I’ll happily take some advice as to better photos to take or things I should clarify that could make me more appealing.

I appreciate any and all answers so thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

A 24 year old who’s “extremely mature”……

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

Are you suggesting it should be seen as a given that I’m mature or that it’s unlikely?

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By *CockPocketCouple
33 weeks ago

?

Given unlikely I’m afraid

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By *harAndBryCouple
33 weeks ago

Downham Market

66.6% dick pics.

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

You raise a valid point so what else would you suggest to add to it? I can’t do face pics due to my job

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
33 weeks ago

Sussex

You are a single male who has only been here for 8 weeks and already had 2 meets with 2 different couples. You don't need any advice, you should be giving it

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

LMAOOO. I appreciate it. Ones from an old account and one I got lucky with.

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By *harAndBryCouple
33 weeks ago

Downham Market


"You raise a valid point so what else would you suggest to add to it? I can’t do face pics due to my job "

Of we say what pics we'd like to see, your profile might appeal to us but we might not be your target market.

Look at those you'd like to meet, look at the profiles of those that they have met and take inspiration there.

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

Such wise and simple advice. See who’s sold to the target market and use their marketing strategies, I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Are you suggesting it should be seen as a given that I’m mature or that it’s unlikely?"

See you’ve removed the comment

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

I have indeed. I’m assuming that’s what I was supposed to do

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By *uperstar76Woman
33 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire


"I have indeed. I’m assuming that’s what I was supposed to do "

Click reply and quote to the post your replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I have indeed. I’m assuming that’s what I was supposed to do "

It's your profile, do as you please, we gave you our thoughts.

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

As true as this is, you are partially the target audience if that makes sense and as previously mentioned, you should always appeal to the target audience

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"As true as this is, you are partially the target audience if that makes sense and as previously mentioned, you should always appeal to the target audience "

Who are you responding too?

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster

To you. Sorry I should have made it more clear

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By *uperstar76Woman
33 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire


" To you. Sorry I should have made it more clear "

Click reply quote under the post your replying to then they will know

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster


" To you. Sorry I should have made it more clear

Click reply quote under the post your replying to then they will know"

Ahh I didn’t notice this. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

It's really nobodies business, but you could add why you don't accom.

In most cases the mind goes to cheating which is an unfair generalisation but it is what it is.

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster


"It's really nobodies business, but you could add why you don't accom.

In most cases the mind goes to cheating which is an unfair generalisation but it is what it is."

Yeah I get that. I only ever really message those who can anyway as being a single man means no one ever messages first lmmao

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair

You don't accommodate - you don't need to explain yourself. Leave it as it is....is my humble suggestion.

Photo gallery: your opening gambit is a photo of your cock. That will put most (not all) people off. Perhaps it's my êyês but it looks like a reflection from a dirty mirror. If you really desire to have a cock photo prop your phone onto something and take it with a timer.

Replace "extremely chill" with "extremely chilled", which I believe is what you're trying to infer. I say kudos to you for not using teenage 'text speak' in your profile and writing your profile in clear sentences and paragraphs. Therefore I would say you certainly come across as mature to me.

I've seen profiles from 50/60/70 year olds who have written "soz" (because can't be bothered to write "sorry"; LOL; str8 (because they're too vacuous to write "straight") etc. I found them to be far from mature.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
33 weeks ago

Telford

Nero said it all basically

I have nothing to add apart from be yourself and that's all that should matter.

If people don't like that then would you want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Would you kind folk also give me some advice please?

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Would you kind folk also give me some advice please? "

The prevailing protocol is to create your own thread otherwise it gets confusing and convoluted on who is critiquing for whom. 🩶

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Would like some advice

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By *ourbon1Man
33 weeks ago

the beach

could i be cheeky and ask for any tips to improve mine too. feel a nice gentleman on here needs all the help he can have ha

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By *our wish my desireMan
33 weeks ago

Wakefield

Any advice for my profile much appreciated

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By *heLadNextDoor01 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Doncaster


"You don't accommodate - you don't need to explain yourself. Leave it as it is....is my humble suggestion.

Photo gallery: your opening gambit is a photo of your cock. That will put most (not all) people off. Perhaps it's my êyês but it looks like a reflection from a dirty mirror. If you really desire to have a cock photo prop your phone onto something and take it with a timer.

Replace "extremely chill" with "extremely chilled", which I believe is what you're trying to infer. I say kudos to you for not using teenage 'text speak' in your profile and writing your profile in clear sentences and paragraphs. Therefore I would say you certainly come across as mature to me.

I've seen profiles from 50/60/70 year olds who have written "soz" (because can't be bothered to write "sorry"; LOL; str8 (because they're too vacuous to write "straight") etc. I found them to be far from mature.

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Appreciate this one massively. I out a lot of effort into structuring my sentences with my profile in an effort to show people I’m not just a kid who wants a shag. At the end of the day this is more than just a hookup site to me and the people you talk to are real so they deserve the respect enough to actually be spoken to like adults.

Yeah it’s a very small mirror that I propped up and cropped out. Honestly I struggled with taking proper dick pics just because I never really knew how to pose and did research but could never get it down.

Again, I appreciate your advice so so much as you’ve given solutions and told me what’s good as well as bad so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Any advice for my profile much appreciated "

TBH you haven't really got a profile, just one generic sentence.

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By *uperstar76Woman
33 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire


"Any advice for my profile much appreciated "

Maybe try writing a profile and getting more better pics

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"could i be cheeky and ask for any tips to improve mine too. feel a nice gentleman on here needs all the help he can have ha "

Hard to give advice on a hidden profile

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By *ourbon1Man
33 weeks ago

the beach


"could i be cheeky and ask for any tips to improve mine too. feel a nice gentleman on here needs all the help he can have ha

Hard to give advice on a hidden profile "

sorry not hidden now,

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"could i be cheeky and ask for any tips to improve mine too. feel a nice gentleman on here needs all the help he can have ha

Hard to give advice on a hidden profile

sorry not hidden now, "

You'll find your answer here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1737613

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