FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help for meets

By *sm225 OP Man
34 weeks ago

hull

Anyone know how to as a guy meet singles and couples with wanting to keep discreet , I keep wanting to branch out and meet new people but feel due to not having public photos this might be causing issues wondered if anyone has any advice or had got past this issue

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
34 weeks ago

The lost village

Why having you got any public pics? They dont have to be of your face but most people won't entertain blank profiles.

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By *sm225 OP Man
34 weeks ago

hull

I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
34 weeks ago

Tamworth

Unless you’re sending photos with messages, you’ll find it very hard to connect with others. Physical attraction isn’t everything but it’s a key starting point.

I will say I find it interesting that you are extremely cautious about your own privacy, but you have a video on your profile where a woman’s face and tattoos are visible enough to identify her at several points.

I mention the video because it may well not be doing any favours. The first thing many people think when they see similar videos is, does she even know she’s on here?

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By *sm265Woman
34 weeks ago

Perthshire

The lack of public pics certainly wont be helping.

The video would also put me off, as per the reasons mentioned above.

I usually look at a profile before I even open a message. If there isnt enough on the profile to capture my interest then, unless Im really bored at the time, I'm unlikely to engage with the message.

Looking at your profile I know that woman is blonde (possibly not entirely naturally), pretty, I have an idea of her body shape and size, i can tell she has false eyelashes and is enthusiastic about sucking cock. I actually know far more about what she looks like than I do you.

Having said all that, you've multiple verifications so youre doing far better than a lot of the single men on here.

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By *sm265Woman
34 weeks ago

Perthshire

"I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable "

Plenty of people have clothed pictures on their profiles if youre concerned about showing your tattoos.

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By *sm225 OP Man
34 weeks ago

hull

Thanks for the advice and I will take it on board she is one of the verification and is on here and is happy to have the video on there as have discussed this , but your points are still valid I am heavily tattooed so that’s why the reason why the no public photos as it would be quite easy to but I guess I could find a way with some clothed photos

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By *issmorganWoman
33 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable

Plenty of people have clothed pictures on their profiles if youre concerned about showing your tattoos. "

This, a nice suit to show off your build, with your head cropped or use an app to cover /blur the tattoos.

Most ladies won't engage with a shadow, as theres no way of knowing if they'd be attracted etc and there's tonnes of other profiles with pics on op.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Personally, I won’t entertain a profile with no photos. I get wanting to protect privacy but if someone recognises you on here, they’re on here too, I doubt they want to shout about that.

If you still want to protect your privacy, put some photos of yourself on but with clothes. I’ll reply to a headless suited man, but won’t reply to a photoless man.

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By *harAndBryCouple
33 weeks ago

Downham Market

"...but feel due to not having public photos this might be causing issues"

You've already worked out what is going wrong. Were you expecting people to actually say that pics didn't matter?

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
33 weeks ago

Barnsley

We definitely need pics and don't talk to anyone without them. We send our face pics in return. We wouldn't talk to anyone without them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
33 weeks ago

Leeds

My profile says I won't reply to a message from a silhouette. There must be something you can show in a pic eg a clothed body.

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By *ussell Nobbs...Man
33 weeks ago

Lincoln

Let us know if it makes any difference whatsoever OP!

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