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Some guys really need to chill :)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so just had the bizarre thing happen. We had a couple message us around 9 o clock this morning. Had a read of the message nice offer thought i would run it by the mrs tonight when we get home.

Didn't think anything else of it. Then had a look again 3hours later because I hadn't replied they sent me a message back take it as a no and blocked us. Ok perhaps in hindsight I maybe could of messaged my intention but still some people really need to chill it did make me chuckle.

What a bunch of tossers I think we had a lucky escape there .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't go so far as to be rude about them but some people do think that if you don't message them back immediately that you aren't interested. I've never understood it either because as you say quite often one half of a couple will be waiting until the other gets home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am interested and the other half is not available to look I generally message back saying that will get back to them when we are both available if I'm not interested I don't answer at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't mean it to sound that rude. Just sometimes people need take a chill pill .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience obviously wasn't one of their strong points!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha these things make me laugh. What is the hurry i dont get? Its not like the cock is going to do a runner is it lol

I send some people messages. I rarely get any sort of replies. And those that do reply..reply after hours, weeks and sometimes even months lol

Im in no rush. Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a symptom of the "instant society" era in which we live I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do with an instant smack sometime lol

...or an instant coffee now would be nice actually

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

What about the guys who message as soon as they see that their first message has been read?! Give me a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the guys who message as soon as they see that their first message has been read?! Give me a chance!"

I had that yesterday. Read the message, thought about how to say no nicely and by the time I'd sent it a whole two minutes later, he'd send another with just a row of ????????'s Should have just said NO, would have been quicker lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about the guys who message as soon as they see that their first message has been read?! Give me a chance!"

No the best ones we have had are I seen you viewed my profile does that mean you wanna fuck me

Honestly guys really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the ones that send you half a dozen because you havnt read the first yet

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"If I am interested and the other half is not available to look I generally message back saying that will get back to them when we are both available if I'm not interested I don't answer at all"

More couples could adopt this approach. And then if the other couple/ person is still impatient or pushy then you'll know they aren't your cup of tea.

Sometimes meeting people halfway would minimise misunderstandings. But hey, what do i know.....

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