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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt

So, after a lengthy time away, I am giving this another shot. Life has been extremely stressful past few years and I am craving positive experiences and excitement. That said, I'm pretty rusty with all this and would definitely appreciate some tips on how to make more profile more approachable and exciting to onlookers 🙏

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By *enk15Man
36 weeks ago

Evesham

It's a bit bare.

Sell yourself, inject some personality.

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt

I always struggle with that 😅 Cheers for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I thought that it was quite refreshing compared to other male profiles - but yes you could have more text. Sounds like you're a decent bloke to go on a social with.

Amazed at the photos OP, I think my appearance has barely changed in 25 years (well grey hair), but yours could be a different person!

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt

Thanks! Yeh, I guess the more confident and comfortable I get on here, the more naturally I'll assert my personality haha. All tips and opinions are appreciated

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
36 weeks ago

Tamworth

When I’m reading a profile, I want to get a bit of a sense of the person and I also want to understand what they’re looking for and what they enjoy to gauge if we’re compatible. People who say they’re looking for fun etc. don’t give much to go on.

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By *enk15Man
36 weeks ago

Evesham


"I always struggle with that 😅 Cheers for the advice"

Just mess around with it.

Honestly, there is no right or wrong. Sometimes bare profiles get a lot of attention and superbly presented ones don't.

It's your profile, present it in a way you are comfortable with, and in a way that you think truly reflects you.

I have found it helps if there is something in the profile that people can latch onto into messages to spark conversations.

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt


"When I’m reading a profile, I want to get a bit of a sense of the person and I also want to understand what they’re looking for and what they enjoy to gauge if we’re compatible. People who say they’re looking for fun etc. don’t give much to go on."

Very fair point, I'll definitely attempt to add more detail. Cheers

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt


"I always struggle with that 😅 Cheers for the advice

Just mess around with it.

Honestly, there is no right or wrong. Sometimes bare profiles get a lot of attention and superbly presented ones don't.

It's your profile, present it in a way you are comfortable with, and in a way that you think truly reflects you.

I have found it helps if there is something in the profile that people can latch onto into messages to spark conversations."

Tbf, I've only ever briefly dabbled on here before and life wasn't exactly great at the time, so it's still pretty new territory. Taking everything on board though 🙏

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"So, after a lengthy time away, I am giving this another shot. Life has been extremely stressful past few years and I am craving positive experiences and excitement. That said, I'm pretty rusty with all this and would definitely appreciate some tips on how to make more profile more approachable and exciting to onlookers 🙏"

Try looking at it from the perspective you want to make YOU more approachable and exciting, not 'the profile'. Your profile is just the vessel to show people who you are and what you're like.

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By *og and MuseCouple
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Hey brave post but your post said all the things that would put us off meeting you.

We like men that have got the shit together mentally physically relationally and are assertive, confident and know what they are doing and have to offer.

Our advice is work on yourself first.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Use chat gp, you write in a bit about yourself, what you like to do ( doesn't have to be sexual) add in some kinky bits you want to try and who you are looking for and who you are NOT looking for also good luck!

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By *og and MuseCouple
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

On the plus side you have good face structure, puts you at a huge advantage over many here

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt


"Use chat gp, you write in a bit about yourself, what you like to do ( doesn't have to be sexual) add in some kinky bits you want to try and who you are looking for and who you are NOT looking for also good luck! "

Good shout that!

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By *omad_Sol OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Cheshunt


"On the plus side you have good face structure, puts you at a huge advantage over many here "

Fair play haha

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By *he Silver FuxMan
36 weeks ago

Utero

Maybe use a different site where your personality can come out. Your profile doesn’t sound like you’re wanting to be a ‘swinger’.

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