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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha." I mean, your bio says “looking for fun”.. that could be anything from a day out at Alton towers or a game of scrabble 😂 | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha." You haven’t got a profile you’ve got three words. | |||
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"That's a fair assessment " Reply+quote allows you to quote the post you're replying to  | |||
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"I mean I get that but I just don't know what to put, what are women wanting to know about a guy. " Two responses to this. 1: what you want - this is vastly different across fab and can impact compatibility so it’s important. 2: depending on the above, what do you think is important for people to know about you? If you’re after quick hook ups this will differ greatly from if you’re looking for a FWB. | |||
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" Two responses to this. 1: what you want - this is vastly different across fab and can impact compatibility so it’s important. 2: depending on the above, what do you think is important for people to know about you? If you’re after quick hook ups this will differ greatly from if you’re looking for a FWB. " Thanks for the advice. I will update my profile and then I may be back to ask for a proof read ha ha. | |||
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" Reply+quote allows you to quote the post you're replying to "Ah ha, thanks for the tip. | |||
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"It looks much better" Thank you, now I just need to figure out what a good opening message is ha ha. i am useless yes but I am just a man after all ha ha. | |||
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"It looks much better Thank you, now I just need to figure out what a good opening message is ha ha. i am useless yes but I am just a man after all ha ha." Feck me sideways!!! A man who's actually taken on board advice! Well done OP! | |||
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"So I have updated my profile if anyone would be generous enough to proof read it for me." I think you’ve done a nice job 🙂 you’ve given people an understanding of possible compatibility and something to reference in their messages. | |||
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" Feck me sideways!!! A man who's actually taken on board advice! Well done OP! " Ha ha thanks, I may be a man but I can follow instructions. I blame video games, they always have a tutorial. | |||
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" I think you’ve done a nice job 🙂 you’ve given people an understanding of possible compatibility and something to reference in their messages. " Thanks, I expect I'll be inundated with messages now ha ha. | |||
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I'd suggest a range of photos that are all recent and includes your physique, as partners are going to need to find it attractive.
Focus more on what you give than want | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha." Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos?? | |||
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" Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos??" Good lord no, I guess it does look like that. I suppose at the time I thought I looked 90's cool ha ha | |||
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" Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos?? Good lord no, I guess it does look like that. I suppose at the time I thought I looked 90's cool ha ha" Please do not try to look cool. Gives me the autistic ick. Maybe you need to play a dating video game...or a hook-up video game. It sounds like you spend a lot of time alone which is not ideal for swinging. You probably need to go to socials and clubs to find out what people like about you apart from sex and your body. This isn't a skill you can learn online or at work. Good luck. | |||
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" Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos?? Good lord no, I guess it does look like that. I suppose at the time I thought I looked 90's cool ha ha" Side note, wild hair and wild beards can be off-putting to, I think, the majority of women. I'd know how to tame your hair. I suggest YouTube videos and attempting various methods. | |||
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" Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos?? Good lord no, I guess it does look like that. I suppose at the time I thought I looked 90's cool ha ha Please do not try to look cool. Gives me the autistic ick. Maybe you need to play a dating video game...or a hook-up video game. It sounds like you spend a lot of time alone which is not ideal for swinging. You probably need to go to socials and clubs to find out what people like about you apart from sex and your body. This isn't a skill you can learn online or at work. Good luck." I did try doki doki literature club but I'm guessing you mean something less... Sinister ha ha and I would've thought single men weren't really welcome at clubs. Also I don't think I could just go to a club on my own even if single men were welcome. I can be a bit shy | |||
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" Are you smoking drugs in one of your photos?? Good lord no, I guess it does look like that. I suppose at the time I thought I looked 90's cool ha ha Side note, wild hair and wild beards can be off-putting to, I think, the majority of women. I'd know how to tame your hair. I suggest YouTube videos and attempting various methods." I have tried many things, even used a chemical relaxer once specifically designed for afro Carribbean hair. That didn't even work. But I refuse to cut it. It's the only thing that makes random women approach me with their "can I touch it" ha ha | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha. I mean, your bio says “looking for fun”.. that could be anything from a day out at Alton towers or a game of scrabble 😂" Yeah looking for fun is very vague when I see that it makes me think if anyone puts the opposite 🤔 | |||
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"Only advice is keep the profile pic can’t understand how that isn’t getting there attention "Can't tell if being sarcastic ha ha | |||
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And with regards to the hair.... my hair is mental so I know its not easy, but looking like you haven't even tried gives the impression that you're not really interested in self care which is quite off putting | |||
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"Your profile photo doesn't make you look approachable
And with regards to the hair.... my hair is mental so I know its not easy, but looking like you haven't even tried gives the impression that you're not really interested in self care which is quite off putting "I mean in my current profile pic my hair has been exhaustively straightened and brushed ha ha. Heat defense spray and frizzease and everything ha ha. Damn. | |||
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"Your profile photo doesn't make you look approachable
And with regards to the hair.... my hair is mental so I know its not easy, but looking like you haven't even tried gives the impression that you're not really interested in self care which is quite off putting I mean in my current profile pic my hair has been exhaustively straightened and brushed ha ha. Heat defense spray and frizzease and everything ha ha. Damn."I noticed mate but you can’t please everyone  | |||
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"Cut your hair " Cut yours he has majestic locks or hair | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha." Sorry OP I need to piggy back off of this 😂😂 | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha. Sorry OP I need to piggy back off of this 😂😂" Are you asking for advice? | |||
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"Could I please get advice on how best to jazz up my profile or point out what's wrong with it. Starting to feel like the elephant man over here ha ha. Sorry OP I need to piggy back off of this 😂😂" 12 pics of your cock, far tooooo much. 2 at most. Started to read bio and soon realised over half, was the usual Sydney university and to whom it may concern guff. This put me off reading any further so I can't comment beyond that. You could have strengths galore but if your bio isn't read!!!! | |||
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"It looks much better Thank you, now I just need to figure out what a good opening message is ha ha. i am useless yes but I am just a man after all ha ha." Part of the consideration is to read the profile you are considering messaging! Do you meet their requirements (eg.you list as a smoker do they meet smokers ) Does the profile indicate anything about the couple/single you need to consider in your message.. pick up on something and use it to help say hey I can do xyz like you want/I've read your profile and see we both have interest in abc | |||
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"Wanting to keep your hair is one thing but I would at least show a pic of how it can be tamed. The beard, mmmmmm, reminds of a teenager trying to grow one. I would consider trimming it from abandoned garden to a manicured cricket pitch. I'm sure a good hairstylist could advise you on a way to control your bonnet when needed and still allow you to keep your wild side." the whole point is you can’t be tamed your a fucking stud ! I couldn’t pull off them glasses but look at you ! I for one am jealous! But hats off this reply is fucking golden this is why I’d never ask for advice on here cause your opening urself up to getting hilariously roasted !! your taking it well OP I’ll give you that fair play  | |||
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