FabSwingers.com forum: Cuck and cuckqueen

By *otry OP Man
37 weeks ago

On the road

Me and a new gf have been talking and have found that the cuck and cuckquean is something that really turns us on. This for pure pleasure we dont feel like we need or lack anything we just want to fulfill our fantasies with each other. The others will just be seen as a play thing. No different to use using toys. How many other couples share this thought process? Is this a normal thought process?

And before anyone chimes in we will be creating a couple profile in due time

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
37 weeks ago

Scotland

"Me and a new gf have been talking and have found that the cuck and cuckquean is something that really turns us on. This for pure pleasure we dont feel like we need or lack anything we just want to fulfill our fantasies with each other. The others will just be seen as a play thing. No different to use using toys. How many other couples share this thought process? Is this a normal thought process?

And before anyone chimes in we will be creating a couple profile in due time"

I’m not sure many people would be thrilled at the thought of being compared to a toy and only used as a plaything 😏 We enjoy aspects of the cuck lifestyle but would never view the guys we meet as anything other than people first

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By *otry OP Man
37 weeks ago

On the road

No I get that i just meant not emotional ties strangers we dont want to make friends or anything. No disrespect meant just an addition to our fun.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
37 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"I’m not sure many people would be thrilled at the thought of being compared to a toy and only used as a plaything 😏 "

Most wouldn't be thrilled by it, but it's the reality of the lifestyle. If you play with a couple, then for them their relationship will always be infinitely more important to them than you are. And you'd be unwise to expect any aftercare.

If you can't handle that, then you probably shouldn't be in the lifestyle. There are a lot of single guys who like the sound of NSA, but if they get it they find out it wasn't what they were looking for.

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By *ikingSecrexMan
37 weeks ago

Plymouth

That is a good to approach cuckolding and cuckqueaning, seeing it as an exploration of shared fantasies rather than something born out of a lack or an insecurity.

Cuckolding is a very common fantasy for both men and women, and most couples frame it just as you have: not as “replacement” but as play, with others treated like living toys or catalysts for arousal. Psychologically, that framing protects the bond between you.

Many couples will view the extra person in different ways that fit for their particular fantasy though. This diversity is what makes cuckolding so fascinating.

I’m be curious how others here frame it for themselves: do you see the “third” as a toy, as a rival, as a lover, or something else entirely?

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By *inky_Northern_ManMan
37 weeks ago

Durham

ngl, I think being used as a hot wife fucktoy in front of her husband is actually a turn on

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By *andydan69Man
37 weeks ago

south west m5 corridor bristol to past exeter

Love this

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By *evlishduncMan
37 weeks ago

north suffolk south norfolk

I take the view that I am joining a couple to embellish their relationship. Do I feel objectified or used? No.

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By *otry OP Man
37 weeks ago

On the road

Weve been looking at clubs.is this how most start the journey? Parties social events or just jist too much drink thats lead to something?

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By *otry OP Man
36 weeks ago

On the road

We are together now and will be setting a couple account shortly will anyone like to share their first experiences the good the bad and the dam right naughty?

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Cuckqueaning is a lot harder than you might think. Before going down this road, ensure you have had the full boundaries, humiliation, shame aspect talk and ensure that the cuck-cake is aware of your dynamic and what they might experience/observe. Having two upset women isn’t fun, especially when getting a woman to join is hard enough, cuckcakes are rarer than unicorns.

Do you really mean cuckhold /cuckquean or stag/vixen?

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By *he Cream CakesCouple
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm lost - could someone please enlighten me (again)? What is a cuckquean (queen?)? What on earth is a cuckcake? Why would you potentially have "2 upset women"? I've led a sheltered life, it seems. (Mrs)

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
36 weeks ago

Scotland

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
36 weeks ago

Scotland

"I'm lost - could someone please enlighten me (again)? What is a cuckquean (queen?)? What on earth is a cuckcake? Why would you potentially have "2 upset women"? I've led a sheltered life, it seems. (Mrs) "

I believe a cuckquean is a woman who enjoys watching her husband/partner with another woman like a reverse cuckold. I think cuckcake refers to the woman chosen to join the couple but don’t quote me lol

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By *eyeYCouple
36 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Met a couple (not here) who stated guy's were just toys, we did play but the attitude stuck with us and it somewhat tainted the feeling, to almost used..

Shared fun is how we'd prefer to to view play and pretty much all we have done so with remain in touch.

But naturally our relationship is far the greater focus.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

That is it. The cuckhold/cuckquean dynamic is one which also includes shame, humiliation and exclusion of the non-included partner. It can be subtle or explicit, albeit always negotiated and consented to in healthy D/s/power dynamic relationships.

Stag/Vixen is balanced and equal and often has the partner joining in and is compersion based.

Both are hot and I (F) enjoy both dynamics with my Mr who is always a Stag. But enjoy both cq and Vixen depending on my mood/inclination for the scene at the time.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

To answer the question re: upset women, if someone is cuckqueaning and the woman joining the couple doesn’t know they have this dynamic and hears something like “this is what a real woman is like. You’re just meaningless/useless fuck meat” Aimed at the cuckquean (correct spelling) and doesn’t know it’s coming or a part of the couple’s dynamic, she might be shocked and upset. Equally if the male partner just jumps to a statement such as the above without prior discussion/checkins it can come as a shock and be upsetting.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
36 weeks ago

Cannock

We have good friends who are a cuckqueen couple, she lives to see her hubby fucking other women, she’s bi so she likes to play with the other lady as well before her husband fucks her. She’ll often just watch on playing with a vibrator whilst her husband is fucking away.

As a cuckold couple ourselves, we can understand their dynamic, even though it’s reversed to our ours. Works well for them.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

It’s interesting and fascinating how language and definitions evolve- I would have placed that dynamic in the stag/vixen category as well. As they are both playing and loving it, with compersion and no power dynamics.

Cuck seems to be evolving into a generic term away from the power dynamics.

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By *iddle ManMan
36 weeks ago

Walsall

And before anyone chimes in we will be creating a couple profile in due time

I am perfectly fine being a plaything or a toy.

You have to understand sometimes being the third party in a couples fantasy means you are only there to help fulfill their fantasy. I just happy to help.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
36 weeks ago

Scotland

And before anyone chimes in we will be creating a couple profile in due time

I am perfectly fine being a plaything or a toy.

You have to understand sometimes being the third party in a couples fantasy means you are only there to help fulfill their fantasy. I just happy to help."

And that’s great for you but I’m sure you don’t speak for all singles invited into a couples relationship. In our case we are perfectly capable of seeing the men we invite to join us as people without having any sort of emotional connection with them but again everyone’s dynamic is different

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By *otry OP Man
33 weeks ago

On the road

We still havent took the plunge to invite a 3rd yet but. She had me ties up last night on all fours going from suckin my cock and eating my arse! Before she had me fill her pussy and whilst being blindfolded had me clean it up as she was tellin me it was her bulls cum

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