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"We are probably the type of local couple you are looking to meet. Your profile text is ok. And tbh a few paragraphs is probably all you would need. First message should just be polite and say what you want from a meet . Photos aren’t overly exciting or enticing. Which can be difficult if not showing face. You say your nerdy add some of that into your photos (costumes , glasses, locations). Beards is pretty nerdy day to day and you can see that come out in some of our photos of him. " Thank you for the advice I replied privately too but I understand you get tons of messages so might get lost so I’ll say thank you on here too incase and reading your profile you sound like my kind of couple too! | |||
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"Hey everyone sorry you must get this all the time but just looking for suggestions and thoughts on my profile and also what would you put in a first message. I think mine are okay but would love to hear others " Your pics are unflattering. You're kind of just standing there with your shoulders slumped and your dick out. The one where you're showing your ass is kind of weird. The portrait one doesn't make sense, it looks like a school photo and it's a picture of your face but your face is blacked out so there's no point to it. The wanking is unnecessary and will put off a huge amount of women. The kinds of photos that will appeal to the most people and make you look the best are photos of you doing stuff outdoors shot by another person. It doesn't have to be of you scaling Mount Everest, it could just be you walking down the street, it would still be a hundred times more attractive to women than you standing in your flat with your pants pulled down. Your bio is okay but it's got the same problem most guys' bios on here have, which is there's too much irrelevant info in it. Specifically that disclaimer bit. What do you hope to gain by telling someone you haven't met that you're busy? Also it's generally a bit full-on and needy. It's fine that you're a "shy nerd" but you can still be a little bit confident and aloof at least until someone has shown interest in you. What I always say is, try to think about what a person looking at your profile would get from it. Would they be interested? Intrigued? Curious to know more? Or would they be unimpressed, bored, put off? | |||
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"Hey everyone sorry you must get this all the time but just looking for suggestions and thoughts on my profile and also what would you put in a first message. I think mine are okay but would love to hear others Your pics are unflattering. You're kind of just standing there with your shoulders slumped and your dick out. The one where you're showing your ass is kind of weird. The portrait one doesn't make sense, it looks like a school photo and it's a picture of your face but your face is blacked out so there's no point to it. The wanking is unnecessary and will put off a huge amount of women. The kinds of photos that will appeal to the most people and make you look the best are photos of you doing stuff outdoors shot by another person. It doesn't have to be of you scaling Mount Everest, it could just be you walking down the street, it would still be a hundred times more attractive to women than you standing in your flat with your pants pulled down. Your bio is okay but it's got the same problem most guys' bios on here have, which is there's too much irrelevant info in it. Specifically that disclaimer bit. What do you hope to gain by telling someone you haven't met that you're busy? Also it's generally a bit full-on and needy. It's fine that you're a "shy nerd" but you can still be a little bit confident and aloof at least until someone has shown interest in you. What I always say is, try to think about what a person looking at your profile would get from it. Would they be interested? Intrigued? Curious to know more? Or would they be unimpressed, bored, put off?" Thank you I will take some of that on board | |||
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