FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *illJames003 OP Man
38 weeks ago

harlow

Hi I’m relatively new to this site and I just wanted to ask for some help. I would love to meet up with people for a drink or something like that. But usually if I ever do message a woman saying I may be interested and wanting to start a convo to get to know them they just don’t reply. If they don’t reply because they don’t want to that’s completely fine I just wanted to know if there was any other way to spice up my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Appreciate we’re not your target audience. Your update says you’re attached, your profile doesn’t. From a personal perspective we really dislike emoji pics

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Appreciate we’re not your target audience. Your update says you’re attached, your profile doesn’t. From a personal perspective we really dislike emoji pics "

I would have been confused by yhe whole thing if it had not read your comments b4 looking at the profile

OP, as a single, tens of thousands around like you - read other peoples single profile who have had many encounters

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By *ovinglife!40Man
38 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Hi I’m relatively new to this site and I just wanted to ask for some help. I would love to meet up with people for a drink or something like that. But usually if I ever do message a woman saying I may be interested and wanting to start a convo to get to know them they just don’t reply. If they don’t reply because they don’t want to that’s completely fine I just wanted to know if there was any other way to spice up my profile ? "

Quite simple really.

If they don't reply they are not interested.

There are thousands and thousands of single guys on here, and LOTS of choice.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
38 weeks ago

Cumbria

Saying you like connection whilst also saying message for a hookup feels a little contradictory. You may be looking for both but that would put us off

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By *quirtlover81Man
38 weeks ago

CHESTERFIELD

Your not showing anything naughty so why not remove the emoji and show your face? I have my face on my profile as well as full blown hardcore

It's basically and adult dating site so no need to hide who you are we are all on here for mostly the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Think of your profile as your shop window, after browsing the window would you enter? Is it showing you in the best light? Your bio doesn’t say much about you to be honest.

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By *nutsdeepCouple
38 weeks ago

Manchester

Show more of yourself ie, naked (but classy) seems to be the way. Your update saying you’re lonely is a negative too, no offence but it comes across a bit sappy. Have a look at some more well established profiles and see what they’re doing right and do something similar but in your own way. Be persistent, don’t let rejections get you down, there will be someone at the right time for you.

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By *he James gangCouple
38 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Your bio is shit, talking about your cock size and how you love to eat pussy and ass isn't going to cut it. In fact, don't even mention it. If you get a meet it's expected.

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

Most of the info is already within your profile so let some of your personality shine

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

Dial down the sex talk. Save it for people who are interested.

Play up that you're tall. Most women are weirdly obsessed with height.

Might as well play up that you're 24 because it'll be too young for some no matter what but some will love it.

Just blur your face or black box it. Emojis make people look like they're wearing a big stupid mask.

Be more up front about how you're in an open relationship. It'll put some off anyway but not being clear about it makes you look sneaky.

Lastly and most importantly, this site is to be used as a supplement, not the main thing. You might get a few meets on here, but men who want a decent amount of action need to get out and about.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

I think cropped pics look much better than emojis.

How do you accommodate when you have a partner ?

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, you've just repeated much of what's already stated on your profile ie age, height and can accom.

Most won't be interested in anything sexual until they've established a connection /attraction.

So maybe fill in more about what you offer meets, as you do need to stand out amongst all the other men that are after the same.

I'd also mention your partner, I always think it's quite deceptive when people are in relationships, but there's no mention of them on their bio, if they know.

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