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"The initial idea was to have a profile pic of a suit rather than the usual boxers/dick picks I see on men's profiles. What profile pics do you think work best?" Something a bit brighter I would suggest. Both pictures are very dark and don't invite the eye particularly well. | |||
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"The two pics would put us off " What sort of pics would attract you? | |||
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"I am trying to make my profile better show that I am interested in forming strong friendships with people for regular meets. Previously my profile has been pretty terrible, but when I sit down to write I get stuck. I am making friends in socials, and I want to convey the sort of warm atmosphere I found in the last one I went to. May I ask for advice on this? Note: I cannot put lots of sexy photos up due to trust issues (long story). That I must leave for now. I am primarily focused on text. One thing at a time." What's with those photos?? Bizarre. | |||
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"I am trying to make my profile better show that I am interested in forming strong friendships with people for regular meets. Previously my profile has been pretty terrible, but when I sit down to write I get stuck. I am making friends in socials, and I want to convey the sort of warm atmosphere I found in the last one I went to. May I ask for advice on this? Note: I cannot put lots of sexy photos up due to trust issues (long story). That I must leave for now. I am primarily focused on text. One thing at a time." As you asked about your profile I will be honest and say your pics are terrible, take some classy, tasteful pics, it’s the first thing that’s looked at when people receive a message | |||
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"The initial idea was to have a profile pic of a suit rather than the usual boxers/dick picks I see on men's profiles. What profile pics do you think work best?" But a funeral suit!!! It might as well be a silhouette or a shadow. Come on, you know the first thing us advice givers are going to say, your pics are shinola. | |||
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"I think it is the large black egg instead of a head which makes your pics look unusual. You say you haven't had oral for a year then talk about clingfilm. Is the clingfilm a joke ?" I was thinking the same, I wonder how that works in practice? And no, OP, this is not an invitation - I am just miffed as never ever seen, or experienced, anyone whipping a cling film out for oral. Do you apply that to the lady's pussy or put on your cock? Also, if you're that bothered about catching something from oral, a) you're probably on the wrong site (yes, you can still catch STI from oral but chances are much lower than from unprotected penetration) and b) you can get dental dams for protection. | |||
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"Text altered. If people just want to comment on the photos, don't bother. I said I was focussing on the text and you therefore wasted your time telling me something I already know. If the cling film thing weirds people out, don't gaslight me for doing what other ladies want. You don't all have the same requirements. I am free of STDs and like doing it without clingfilm, but it can form protection, and some ladies LIKED it with the clingfilm on. Anyways, if you want to talk about the text, fine. Yes, the photos are aweful. I am working on that. Please READ the original message." Photos are loads better. At least you've taken on some feedback. Lots of profiles ask for advice and never take it. Hope it all works out for you OP. | |||
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"I haven't followed the advice nearly enough and the photos are still shit. Just tear the damn thing apart." Calm down | |||
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