FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for Improving My Profile

By *ack.W OP Man
39 weeks ago

Canterbury

Hello fellow Fabbers!

I’m seeking som honest, non-judgemental, constructive advice on how to improve my profile and thereby my chances of actually being visible on here! (Especially interested in the perspective of women and MF couples as that’s who I’m interested in meeting).

I’m aware from experience that women and couples get bombarded with messages, and it’s very difficult to standout and not end up in the bulk delete pile.

I know some share naked pics, and whilst I’m completely fine with my body it’s a hairy iron board so not one that I’d say would specifically add to the attraction if included on the profile! (My plan is to share privately if requested).

I used Fab about 9 years ago and had a few single women and couples here and there, but it was a while ago.

Thanks in advance for your support!

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By *ex MexicoMan
39 weeks ago

North West

There's nothing much wrong with it.

Bit weird that your profile pic has a bar over your eyes, but the other public photo is a portrait of you with no masking.

Otherwise it's just a bit of a missed opportunity.

Not showing any nudity is fine, better even. But some photos other than a couple of formal portraits would give it a bit more interest.

Your title is "single for women and couples", which is what the "looking for" box is for.

Your bio is short, but doesn't really tell us anything specific about you.

Even your status is just a bland hello.

You need to put some personality into it. If you love to laugh, be funny. If you're approachable, say something that'll make people want to approach you. It's seduction, not a job interview. Have a cool and funny title. Put up interesting statuses. Upload photos of you doing stuff (not sex stuff). Write a bio that tells people why they should pick you over any other guy.

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By *urge72Man
39 weeks ago

Hull

Hi OP,

I cannot see much wrong with your profile either and the above advice is perfectly reasonable too.

My advice would be to look for social events in your area. These are safe areas for people to meet and gain valuable verifications and possibly meet people for further 1-2-1 socials if you pique their interest but dont push on this. Aim for the verifications. Remember, it's not a sprint.

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By *ack.W OP Man
39 weeks ago

Canterbury

"There's nothing much wrong with it.

Bit weird that your profile pic has a bar over your eyes, but the other public photo is a portrait of you with no masking.

Otherwise it's just a bit of a missed opportunity.

Not showing any nudity is fine, better even. But some photos other than a couple of formal portraits would give it a bit more interest.

Your title is "single for women and couples", which is what the "looking for" box is for.

Your bio is short, but doesn't really tell us anything specific about you.

Even your status is just a bland hello.

That’s really helpful, thanks for your support and input 🙂

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By *ack.W OP Man
39 weeks ago

Canterbury

"Hi OP,

I cannot see much wrong with your profile either and the above advice is perfectly reasonable too.

Thank you. It’s not the first time I’ve seen others receive similar advice RE socials, and it makes sense.

Thanks!

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