FabSwingers.com forum: My profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

I had no idea what to put in my profile, so covered questions I have been asked before.

Need more help on improving and advice to make it interesting. Also types of videos and pics to put in..

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By *hoenix_1Man
40 weeks ago

richmond

The photo of you with a college poster in the background and your looks would make me think your a fair bit younger than 37

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

look at other single males profile to get tips especially those with many meets

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
40 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Hi OP, I had a quick look at your profile and your bio seems good, you could ideally do with better pics and a smile occasionally lol you have been on the site at least 6 years so you must have a fair idea of how the site works

Mrs

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By *iss DevilWoman
40 weeks ago

Bedford

I have to say, you must have very good genes as you certainly don't look 37! And I am just jealous! Lol

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By *iss DevilWoman
40 weeks ago

Bedford

Regarding your profile, sounds like you covered most.

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By *onguiliciousMan
40 weeks ago

Northallerton

Don’t think you’re 37!!!

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By *inusix89Man
40 weeks ago

Bradford

What is wrong with my profile?

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
40 weeks ago

Gloucester

"What is wrong with my profile?"

Might be best to start your own thread as replies might get confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?

Might be best to start your own thread as replies might get confusing "

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By *lowercandyWoman
40 weeks ago

Lancashire

"What is wrong with my profile?"
. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"The photo of you with a college poster in the background and your looks would make me think your a fair bit younger than 37 "

I get that alot about my age.. I might put another picture.. lol for the poster well I like my drinks and sinless girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Hi OP, I had a quick look at your profile and your bio seems good, you could ideally do with better pics and a smile occasionally lol you have been on the site at least 6 years so you must have a fair idea of how the site works

Mrs"

Better pics, what kind of pics like? and smile ok... I have been on here for six years however never really properly used the site because of not getting replies..but you would think I be an expert

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"I have to say, you must have very good genes as you certainly don't look 37! And I am just jealous! Lol"

Can thank my mum for that I guess...do get id alot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Don’t think you’re 37!!!"

Can I ask why not?

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By *harAndBryCouple
40 weeks ago

Downham Market

"I had no idea what to put in my profile, so covered questions I have been asked before.

Need more help on improving and advice to make it interesting. Also types of videos and pics to put in.."

We might get blasted for this opinion, but having been on the site for as long as you have and not being able to show a single verification would make us think there's a very high chance you'll not turn up for a meet and only use the site to browse.

Consider starting a new profile and making your first priority getting some meet verifications at organised socials or clubs. Don't need to be play meets, but something to show that you do actually leave the house.

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By *ex MexicoMan
40 weeks ago

North West

Right, so:

Almost all your pics are selfies and the one that isn't looks a bit like a selfie. One or two selfies is fine, 13 selfies makes it look like nobody else takes pictures of you. And sorry, but none of those selfies are that appealing. Maybe go take a selfie in front of a mountain trail, rather than some messy shelves or your toilet?

On the bio front, there's a lot there you should lose and a few bits to add.

Lose:

- "I'm vaccinated" (you're not livestock)

- "I look like Harry Potter" (you don't and it's cringe)

- "I've had no success for years" (don't literally tell people you're undesirable)

- "I had a threesome once" (it doesn't seem that believable given you've just said you've had no success on here and FFMs aren't exactly commonplace in vanilla world)

- "I live with my parents" (just say you can't accommodate)

On the whole there's a lot of needless waffle there, none of which does anything to sell you. If I were you, I'd delete all of it and write a much more concise bio that includes:

- What's appealing about you (e.g. you're tall and dark-haired, you have boyish looks, many women love those things)

- Something that confidently flatters the reader (e.g. "I look forward to hearing from all you smart, funny, gorgeous ladies")

- Something witty and charming that makes it seem like you'd be fun to spend time with. Even a knock-knock joke is preferable to no chat at all.

Avoid:

- Dull admin stuff like "I'm available Wednesdays and Sunday evenings" or "I'm happy to webcam before a meet". Save that stuff for after someone's expressed interest.

- Listing your experiences with other people (just makes it sound like you're trying to prove you've had sex)

- Talking about sex explicitly (a bit of tasteful innuendo is fine, but very few women want to hear dirty talk from men they've never met).

I hope that helps, I know it's a lot and please don't take any of it personally, I'm genuinely trying to help. Let me know if you have any questions or if you want anything clarifying.

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By *harAndBryCouple
40 weeks ago

Downham Market

Let's keep the replies in here and not DMs....the conversation may be helpful for others.

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
40 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

"Right, so:

On the bio front, there's a lot there you should lose and a few bits to add.

Lose:

- "I'm vaccinated" (you're not livestock)

- "I look like Harry Potter" (you don't and it's cringe)

- "I've had no success for years" (don't literally tell people you're undesirable)

- "I had a threesome once" (it doesn't seem that believable given you've just said you've had no success on here and FFMs aren't exactly commonplace in vanilla world)

- "I live with my parents" (just say you can't accommodate)

On the whole there's a lot of needless waffle there, none of which does anything to sell you. If I were you, I'd delete all of it and write a much more concise bio that includes:

- What's appealing about you (e.g. you're tall and dark-haired, you have boyish looks, many women love those things)

- Something that confidently flatters the reader (e.g. "I look forward to hearing from all you smart, funny, gorgeous ladies")

- Something witty and charming that makes it seem like you'd be fun to spend time with. Even a knock-knock joke is preferable to no chat at all.

Avoid:

- Dull admin stuff like "I'm available Wednesdays and Sunday evenings" or "I'm happy to webcam before a meet". Save that stuff for after someone's expressed interest.

- Listing your experiences with other people (just makes it sound like you're trying to prove you've had sex)

- Talking about sex explicitly (a bit of tasteful innuendo is fine, but very few women want to hear dirty talk from men they've never met).

I hope that helps, I know it's a lot and please don't take any of it personally, I'm genuinely trying to help. Let me know if you have any questions or if you want anything clarifying."

This is excellent advice...take note OP 👍

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Let's keep the replies in here and not DMs....the conversation may be helpful for others."

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Right, so:

On the bio front, there's a lot there you should lose and a few bits to add.

Lose:

- "I'm vaccinated" (you're not livestock)

- "I look like Harry Potter" (you don't and it's cringe)

- "I've had no success for years" (don't literally tell people you're undesirable)

- "I had a threesome once" (it doesn't seem that believable given you've just said you've had no success on here and FFMs aren't exactly commonplace in vanilla world)

- "I live with my parents" (just say you can't accommodate)

On the whole there's a lot of needless waffle there, none of which does anything to sell you. If I were you, I'd delete all of it and write a much more concise bio that includes:

- What's appealing about you (e.g. you're tall and dark-haired, you have boyish looks, many women love those things)

- Something that confidently flatters the reader (e.g. "I look forward to hearing from all you smart, funny, gorgeous ladies")

- Something witty and charming that makes it seem like you'd be fun to spend time with. Even a knock-knock joke is preferable to no chat at all.

Avoid:

- Dull admin stuff like "I'm available Wednesdays and Sunday evenings" or "I'm happy to webcam before a meet". Save that stuff for after someone's expressed interest.

- Listing your experiences with other people (just makes it sound like you're trying to prove you've had sex)

- Talking about sex explicitly (a bit of tasteful innuendo is fine, but very few women want to hear dirty talk from men they've never met).

I hope that helps, I know it's a lot and please don't take any of it personally, I'm genuinely trying to help. Let me know if you have any questions or if you want anything clarifying."

Thats alot of stuff to take in...

Pictures well agree but can't be helped if single taking is hard...

Thats why I asked what sort of pics as well..

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By *ex MexicoMan
39 weeks ago

North West

"Right, so:

On the bio front, there's a lot there you should lose and a few bits to add.

Lose:

- "I'm vaccinated" (you're not livestock)

- "I look like Harry Potter" (you don't and it's cringe)

- "I've had no success for years" (don't literally tell people you're undesirable)

- "I had a threesome once" (it doesn't seem that believable given you've just said you've had no success on here and FFMs aren't exactly commonplace in vanilla world)

- "I live with my parents" (just say you can't accommodate)

On the whole there's a lot of needless waffle there, none of which does anything to sell you. If I were you, I'd delete all of it and write a much more concise bio that includes:

- What's appealing about you (e.g. you're tall and dark-haired, you have boyish looks, many women love those things)

- Something that confidently flatters the reader (e.g. "I look forward to hearing from all you smart, funny, gorgeous ladies")

- Something witty and charming that makes it seem like you'd be fun to spend time with. Even a knock-knock joke is preferable to no chat at all.

Avoid:

- Dull admin stuff like "I'm available Wednesdays and Sunday evenings" or "I'm happy to webcam before a meet". Save that stuff for after someone's expressed interest.

- Listing your experiences with other people (just makes it sound like you're trying to prove you've had sex)

- Talking about sex explicitly (a bit of tasteful innuendo is fine, but very few women want to hear dirty talk from men they've never met).

I hope that helps, I know it's a lot and please don't take any of it personally, I'm genuinely trying to help. Let me know if you have any questions or if you want anything clarifying.

Thats alot of stuff to take in...

Pictures well agree but can't be helped if single taking is hard...

Thats why I asked what sort of pics as well.. "

What I see all the time is what I call the "lazy selfie" where a guy just takes a snap wherever he happens to be when he's putting his profile together: his computer chair, his sofa, his bed. Again, not necessarily terrible per se, but if that's all there is, it's not a great look.

In general terms, photos are there not just to show what you look like, but also to give the viewer an idea of what you're like, and how much fun you would be to be around. So I suggested taking a selfie in front of a mountain trail, but it could also be at a car meet, or at the beach, or in a cool restaurant, or at a museum, or doing some gardening - just doing something, anything other than sitting on your own in your house.

Photos are an opportunity to tell people about yourself, basically, so lean into that opportunity and see if you can get some photos that make you look like being friends with you would be a total blast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Right, so:

On the bio front, there's a lot there you should lose and a few bits to add.

Lose:

- "I'm vaccinated" (you're not livestock)

- "I look like Harry Potter" (you don't and it's cringe)

- "I've had no success for years" (don't literally tell people you're undesirable)

- "I had a threesome once" (it doesn't seem that believable given you've just said you've had no success on here and FFMs aren't exactly commonplace in vanilla world)

- "I live with my parents" (just say you can't accommodate)

On the whole there's a lot of needless waffle there, none of which does anything to sell you. If I were you, I'd delete all of it and write a much more concise bio that includes:

- What's appealing about you (e.g. you're tall and dark-haired, you have boyish looks, many women love those things)

- Something that confidently flatters the reader (e.g. "I look forward to hearing from all you smart, funny, gorgeous ladies")

- Something witty and charming that makes it seem like you'd be fun to spend time with. Even a knock-knock joke is preferable to no chat at all.

Avoid:

- Dull admin stuff like "I'm available Wednesdays and Sunday evenings" or "I'm happy to webcam before a meet". Save that stuff for after someone's expressed interest.

- Listing your experiences with other people (just makes it sound like you're trying to prove you've had sex)

- Talking about sex explicitly (a bit of tasteful innuendo is fine, but very few women want to hear dirty talk from men they've never met).

I hope that helps, I know it's a lot and please don't take any of it personally, I'm genuinely trying to help. Let me know if you have any questions or if you want anything clarifying.

Thats alot of stuff to take in...

Pictures well agree but can't be helped if single taking is hard...

Thats why I asked what sort of pics as well..

Well unfortunately I don't do that.... not since uni days that's to far back.... all I do is work and game...

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By *ex MexicoMan
39 weeks ago

North West

Well unfortunately I don't do that.... not since uni days that's to far back.... all I do is work and game...

Well, I can't tell you what to do with your life, but what I can tell you is that it's possible you might struggle to engage with people if you don't make an effort to broaden your horizons beyond just working and gaming.

Again please don't take this personally, I really am trying to help you here, if the aim of the game is for you to meet women, I think you could do with having a think about what women are looking for in a guy, and whether you're open to the idea of trying new things that would make you seem more appealing to a woman.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
39 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Just remember your profile is your shop window, would you stop and go in your shop after looking at your window?

Mrs

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By *he James gangCouple
39 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Definitely the pics have to change as to be honest they make you look nerdy. Now, you may well be but that's not what you want others to think

1. Decent haircut

2. Dress smart, not t shirts.

3. Change your background

4. Try a club and get verified

5. As suggested, a re vamp and set up a new profile and this time smile.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Just remember your profile is your shop window, would you stop and go in your shop after looking at your window?

Mrs"

True...but being honest I don't judge so when it comes to me hard to sell myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Definitely the pics have to change as to be honest they make you look nerdy. Now, you may well be but that's not what you want others to think

1. Decent haircut

2. Dress smart, not t shirts.

3. Change your background

4. Try a club and get verified

5. As suggested, a re vamp and set up a new profile and this time smile.

Good luck."

I get i have to sort the pics...hmm for the nerdy I guess i am..

Some of suggestions i get...

Verifed is harder because I don't do clubs...

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
39 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Definitely the pics have to change as to be honest they make you look nerdy. Now, you may well be but that's not what you want others to think

1. Decent haircut

2. Dress smart, not t shirts.

3. Change your background

4. Try a club and get verified

5. As suggested, a re vamp and set up a new profile and this time smile.

Good luck.

I get i have to sort the pics...hmm for the nerdy I guess i am..

Some of suggestions i get...

Verifed is harder because I don't do clubs..."

Find your local social. Go talk to people,

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By *ex MexicoMan
39 weeks ago

North West

I get i have to sort the pics...hmm for the nerdy I guess i am..

Some of suggestions i get...

Verifed is harder because I don't do clubs..."

Again, please believe this is genuinely meant to assist you in achieving your stated goal of meeting women -

The attitude of "all I do is work and game", "I'm a nerd", "I don't do clubs" is not going to serve you well.

We can give you all the advice in the world on how to punch up your profile, but at the end of the day the person behind the profile has to live up to what it promises.

Not only would it make you much more appealing if you did fill your life with more than work and gaming, and if you did do clubs, but it would also tremendously enhance your life.

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By *he James gangCouple
39 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

As they say here, your on a beaten docket from the start, when you can't accommodate and don't drive. Your profile also comes across as 'woe is me, boo hoo, feel sorry for me'. It's all 'negative waves man'. You don't come across as a confident guy at all. It's as if you want a sympathy fuck. A total change of your own mindset is needed. You don't have to be 'jack the lad' but on the other hand, being perceived as a 'harry potter' type, ain't gonna earn you many stripes in the bedroom dept. Kapeesh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos.."

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??"

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it."

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it.."

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice."

I have cut it down

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

I have cut it down"

Yes, I see that. A little bit. Maybe cut it more? Maybe also try employing some of the other advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

I have cut it down

Yes, I see that. A little bit. Maybe cut it more? Maybe also try employing some of the other advice?"

Sorry but what other advice points are you talking about?

Im not trying to mess you about i am trying to take you advice.

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

I have cut it down

Yes, I see that. A little bit. Maybe cut it more? Maybe also try employing some of the other advice?

Sorry but what other advice points are you talking about?

Im not trying to mess you about i am trying to take you advice. "

I'm really not trying to be a dick here man but a lot of people have taken the time to write out a lot of thoughtful comments and tips for you. Least you could do is read it.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
38 weeks ago

Gloucester

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

I have cut it down

Yes, I see that. A little bit. Maybe cut it more? Maybe also try employing some of the other advice?

Sorry but what other advice points are you talking about?

Im not trying to mess you about i am trying to take you advice. "

Maybe go back and read the whole thread again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"What is wrong with my profile?. You have repeated all the fixed data in your free test blurb

The rest looks like cut and paste... Why would you be getting dick pics if you have set your message filters!?

That's more what you see on a single/couples profile

Perhaps think about your profile as your shop window.. would you stop?

Maybe some photos..

Is that answer to me or the other guys question??

Does it matter? People have been giving you advice for two weeks and you haven't changed so much as a comma on your profile. It won't improve if you don't improve it.

I just got round to updating it but still not happy with it..

I'm not surprised, you've ignored everyone's advice.

I have cut it down

Yes, I see that. A little bit. Maybe cut it more? Maybe also try employing some of the other advice?

Sorry but what other advice points are you talking about?

Im not trying to mess you about i am trying to take you advice.

I'm really not trying to be a dick here man but a lot of people have taken the time to write out a lot of thoughtful comments and tips for you. Least you could do is read it."

I see.. just to let you know i have read the people comments.

Photos- which comment about my photos not being in different locations. Unfortunatley well sorry I'm not photogenic where I take photos of where I go plus, its hard to take photos when myself ( i dont have a personal photographer 24-7).

Also my looks and personality well sorry that the way I am being a realistic and nerdy and not falsing myself. Also I'm not self pitty myself just answering there question. I guess people prefer faking and wasting each other time.

For social gathering well that's why I use the website because I work and dont have the cash to go out to find the people but because of profile and verification people dont bother respond. Before I get hammard I not saying you got to respond to me or that because I know you get 100's of emails and hard to respond etc.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
38 weeks ago

Gloucester

Most camera phones have a timer on so set the timer, pose, wait for timer to go off,

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
38 weeks ago

Gloucester

If you don’t go out then unfortunately you unlikely to meet anyone in person as most like a social meet before any other meet.

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West

I see.. just to let you know i have read the people comments.

You seem very resistant to the idea of making any effort to present yourself better. Nobody's saying you have to improve your profile. You asked us how, we told you, and you've come back with a load of reasons why you can't or won't.

Fab isn't a dating service for people who don't have money or time to go out. It's hard enough for the most eligible guys on here to meet women. Again, you don't have to do any of the things we've suggested, but if you can't even be arsed to step out of your house to get a photo in daylight, if I were you I'd seriously revise my expectations of attracting any interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

I see.. just to let you know i have read the people comments.

Ok thanks for the advice

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By *he James gangCouple
38 weeks ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Why do we bother giving advice. You can't change what you are inside but I suppose you I'm do get a haircut once in a while! Everything thing that was said you've ignored. The killer point you made, was you can't afford to go out. So you expect to join fab and the ladies will throw themselves at you, catch a grip. I was right, it's a sympathy ride your looking because you sure as hell won't get one after this and with this profile.

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38 weeks ago

"Why do we bother giving advice. You can't change what you are inside but I suppose you I'm do get a haircut once in a while! Everything thing that was said you've ignored. The killer point you made, was you can't afford to go out. So you expect to join fab and the ladies will throw themselves at you, catch a grip. I was right, it's a sympathy ride your looking because you sure as hell won't get one after this and with this profile."

Thank you for your advice everyone is entitled to there views.

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

Let your personality shine then continue what you are looking for and what you are able to offer. Anything that you might like to explore sexually maybe even a scenario

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By *onMogsMan
38 weeks ago

Lincoln

My problem for mine personally is my photos I believe but others would have to confirm. I just have a resting bitch face and if I force a smile it looks weird haha

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38 weeks ago

"My problem for mine personally is my photos I believe but others would have to confirm. I just have a resting bitch face and if I force a smile it looks weird haha"

Tend to agree, photos don't stand out. Bathroom pics tend to be a turnoff too.

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By *olinOfBathMan
38 weeks ago

Corsham

Folks, he's not listening.

He's been here slightly longer than me, with no success. I'm approaching 65 years old, with a face like the northern end of a southbound camel, but have enjoyed 200+ meets.

Your intentions are admirable. If I thought he'd pay attention, I would throw in some advice that hasn't yet been mentioned. But...

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

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