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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Leicester

Well,

I have met a couple (not on FAB) and have enjoyed thwir company on multiple occasions, and they have always made me welcome in their home.

They have asked me to find a play partner and to bring her with me to the next meetings qith them.

This is where the issue is.

I have massive body confidence issues, (i dont get naked in front of them and they respect that)

How would i go about approaching this with any POTENTIAL partners

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think you'd need to just ask them outright.

It's a bit of a cheek asking you this I think

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
41 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

To be honest, this all sounds much too complicated for you to get anywhere. There are just too many hurdles to overcome, and it will be difficult to establish enough trust quickly.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

Central

I'd address your body confidence issues as a separate point in your development. The over-perfected body emphasis is a pointless pressure when we are all normal and different. And have things we're less happy about than our other qualities. We're good to go, as we are. We're perfect. Without change.

Meeting a single woman is probably much harder if you expect them to fulfill a plus one desire. It's hard enough to find as it is.

When you've established relationships, then it might become possible. But don't try to run, before you can walk, is probably better.

Visiting clubs may open up more possibilities of partners and establish body confidence further too.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
41 weeks ago

Gloucester

I would be asking them to make a profile on here as there are very few (if any) single women who would agree to that scenario coming from a single man,

Otherwise the three of you could try a club together

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
41 weeks ago

Chester

I would agree that this is a completely unreasonable request to make of you.

A club will be the best bet, or they make a couples profile, search for someone themselves and make sure they link to your profile in any messages they send.

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Leicester

You guys have been amazing.

Thank you

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By *iss DevilWoman
41 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, that play partner, is it supposed to be for you or for them? sounds like they are trying to force you into finding them a "play thing", which is wrong on so many levels! Is you finding a "play partner" to bring with you a requirement for them to continue to invite you over? If yes, just ditch them, they can look for someone themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Well,

I have met a couple (not on FAB) and have enjoyed thwir company on multiple occasions, and they have always made me welcome in their home.

They have asked me to find a play partner and to bring her with me to the next meetings qith them.

This is where the issue is.

I have massive body confidence issues, (i dont get naked in front of them and they respect that)

How would i go about approaching this with any POTENTIAL partners"

Any potential partner should probably run a mile at the suggestion. Seems like you’re being played OP

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By *uttercupWoman
40 weeks ago

Borders

You don't have a lady to take. Utterly ridiculous order with so much pressure. Be kind to yourself, be you, don't let them control you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Even if you find a playmate, how do you know she will fancy the couple ?

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By *herrybakewellCouple
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They've probably given up trying to find a couple themselves.

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Leicester


"OP, that play partner, is it supposed to be for you or for them? sounds like they are trying to force you into finding them a "play thing", which is wrong on so many levels! Is you finding a "play partner" to bring with you a requirement for them to continue to invite you over? If yes, just ditch them, they can look for someone themselves. "

Hi

No this is not a requirement more a do you want to, do you fancy etc.

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Leicester

To everyone.

Once again thabk you, you are all am amazing bunch of people.

Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Never hurts to ask.

i may be wrong but in my vast experience a sa cuck around 45 years - mrs used to say no, we built up on it and she surprised me as on her first nude massage when i left the room - not once did she indicate she was going all the way as we both agreed it was a body, tits massage - she kissed and then had sex - so it was what i wanted but dared not ask her at the time as i thought she was too shy etc

other cuck and couple i have met on the beack, eurka years ago, most men said their wife said no intially but as time went on the shyness wore off - but like anyhting, not everything is for everyone and a no can mean no

what helped us was we had a happy marriage at the time

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