FabSwingers.com forum: Gang Bangs

By *rSmith78 OP Man
41 weeks ago

darlington

hello there

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

has anyone been to one and how hard is it to sort one out. any hints or tips.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
41 weeks ago

Durham

If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show

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By *rishlife69Man
41 weeks ago

colchester

Agreed, ive turned up to a pre organised g.b and its just been a 3sum as so many people didnt turn up

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By *valanche1001Man
41 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Durham

Try and find a group of guys who do them. If you try to organise one yourself lots of guys will chat about it but won't show up x

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By *valanche1001Man
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Like herding cats in my experience (had to correct my own typo, damn my OCD)

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe try a Greedy Girl night at a club for starters?

Charles

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By *oiluvfunMan
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

You’ll struggle to have anyone take you seriously OP, advertising from an unverified solo male profile….

There are established profiles in here, who regularly organise private gb’s, perhaps contact one of those for your lady friend. Otherwise, both swinger clubs in the NE run regular ‘greedy girl’ events, so you could always visit one of those, and start building contacts that way?

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By *oiluvfunMan
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Agreed, ive turned up to a pre organised g.b and its just been a 3sum as so many people didnt turn up"

My first ever threesome, was because the other two guys didn’t show up 😂

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By *rSmith78 OP Man
41 weeks ago

darlington

i knew it would be hard work doing this thats why i was putting things off.

maybe i will get unlucky and invite 100 and all 100 turn up lol

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By *rSmith78 OP Man
41 weeks ago

darlington

thanks

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
41 weeks ago

Manchester

"hello there

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

has anyone been to one and how hard is it to sort one out. any hints or tips.

as quoted above , we enjoy them , but yes we turned up a a few and half the room is empty .

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
41 weeks ago

Manchester

"Agreed, ive turned up to a pre organised g.b and its just been a 3sum as so many people didnt turn up"

same

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The biggest tip I can offer is for you and your friend - if she REALLY does want to expericence a gangbang - is to set up a photo-verified Couples profile.

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By *rSmith78 OP Man
41 weeks ago

darlington

that is a great idea

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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41 weeks ago

Central

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41 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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41 weeks ago

Central

Many of us don't change our preferences and requirements for individual partners, just because we want several simultaneously. It's potentially not about having the volume of men but getting the attractive, compatible right men together for us.

She could manage it, with assistance.

Clubs are going to be an easier option, with men already on site.

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By *oelMan
41 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show"

Really 50? I know more than 50% will drop out, but I think if you invite 50, you will end up with between 10 and 20 men, which may be too many

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ve been in a couple gangbangs, just echoing what people have said most times a lot of people ghost you. I’m in Darlington though, would love to chat more if you want help setting one up

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show

Really 50? I know more than 50% will drop out, but I think if you invite 50, you will end up with between 10 and 20 men, which may be too many "

I've often found the "x3" rule works. If you want 5 guys then invite 15.

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By *rSmith78 OP Man
41 weeks ago

darlington

thanks i will keep you in mind.

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By *oofightersCouple
41 weeks ago

Taunton

It does work if you find the right people

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By *r stallionMan
41 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

Depends what area you hold it but I have been to a few and would be interested.

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By *ebsandmarkCouple
41 weeks ago

Feltham

And of the five that tun up on 2 or 3 will be able to perform

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
41 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"i knew it would be hard work doing this thats why i was putting things off.

maybe i will get unlucky and invite 100 and all 100 turn up lol"

This will never ever happen.

We invited 20 to the last one and one turned up. The AA was having a roaring night’s business. Guys are just one wank away from cancelling. Equally many don’t like the idea of being a part of a group when it becomes a reality.

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By *harAndBryCouple
41 weeks ago

Downham Market

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show

Really 50? I know more than 50% will drop out, but I think if you invite 50, you will end up with between 10 and 20 men, which may be too many "

We invited 32, ten confirmed that they'd come, three turned up on the day.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

As other posters have said, by far the easiest way is at a club event

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By *enelope2UWoman
41 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"hello there

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

has anyone been to one and how hard is it to sort one out. any hints or tips.

Everything has been mentioned.

if you want 5 you'll need to invite 100 most lie on the size and keyboard.

Don't expect any physical appeal.

Best bet is to openly communicate to the guys she already knows and seems how their friends are around the subject.

I've only enjoyed FWBs/USA legitimate GBs so have had no issues being spoiled and returning the favour.

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By *urFantasy21Couple
41 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Club events or a club evening where single men can attend, use an open access room and have the Mr on quality control x

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By *he Boot BoysCouple (MM)
41 weeks ago

LIVERPOOL

Contact a reliable, well verified gangbang squad, such as the Boot Boys!

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By *uriosityandcatCouple
40 weeks ago

sheffield

Just so you know, we invited 11 recently, and were turned up. When fantasy meets reality, men wilt.

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By *uriosityandcatCouple
40 weeks ago

sheffield

Forgot to mention, check Neways on fab.

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By *uriosityandcatCouple
40 weeks ago

sheffield

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show"
This!

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By *octor ProdMan
40 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Do it at a club that lets in single men. Its a safe environment, you can socialise and pick who you want to join and the venue is set up for group play

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By *wesomecoupleCouple
40 weeks ago

east of england

We used to try a couple of yrs ago. We would invite 7/8 guys, but the most We had show up was 2. Mostly only 1.

Even tried dogging quite a bit but very hit and miss. Probably try a club next time but there's none near us so it's a weekend away

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By *enlikesbothMan
40 weeks ago

york or visiting

"hello there

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

has anyone been to one and how hard is it to sort one out. any hints or tips.

I’ve been to several in York I’ve been guy number 8 on more than one occasion haha. So I’d say a your one would be a good shout.

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By *heGigglingGiraffeWoman
40 weeks ago

Leeds

So I’ve never been to a private one but have had them in clubs.

I went to an event at Pandoras (Thursday Desires Unleashed) last Thursday and a few of us had them there.

There’s another one in September -18th - and I bet (although no guarantee!!) that there could be some more there. 😈

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

(Edited for typos) If you actually do want to do it here are some tips beyond just inviting WAAAY more than you need;

* speak ahead of time as to how she wants to feel. Adored? Get guys who like worship/foreplay & limit numbers. Overwhelm? More is more and guys that don’t need help getting hard and their egos stroked to perform. Orderly queues? Form a line chaos. It also helps with the briefing for the the guys to help them decide if it’s for them as well as directing the play in the day.

* do it on a day that there is plausible deniability. I.e. during a big football match, between two rugby games etc. that way they can say they’re going to the pub for a couple of hours. They’re more likely to turn up. Saturday afternoons tend to work well.

* have a maximum 20 minute window for arrivals. We have a hard limit on when we don’t accept any more. This stops you having to go to the door and welcome people, brief them etc. when you should be on security (watching for boundary oversteps, stealthing etc).

* encourage guys to bring condoms that they know fit them and that they can perform in. Also have spares and lube.

* brief them ahead of time that if they can’t perform (super common), that they step back and let someone else get in and they get themselves hard again. No whining, no complaining and no excuses about condoms. It’s boring and kills the vibe and puts the blame on the girl/situation. Less said is better.

* provide a map, whatthreewords for the door and a photo of the door on the day to those you’ve confirmed an hour before the meet starts. I also offer video calls to ensure that they know that I’m real and the house is legit.

* I also run through the rules and limits ahead of time and then again at the briefing at the beginning.

* she should make sure that she is happy with the guys and what is going to happen and that you are on hand with a code/word if she wants someone to stop or for you to get them out. It happens. That’s okay. Just because w wall said yes, doesn’t mean that we can’t change our minds if it’s not working in the moment.

It’s tonnes of fun when it goes well. I love them! I hope it is as fun for her.

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By *oupleJBCouple
40 weeks ago

Chislehurst

We used to go to Eureka and had quite a few gang bangs there.

Usually in the woods or occasionally in the bottom field if it was very quiet.

Only on quiet days though.

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By *orny4sex999Man
32 weeks ago

Broomfield

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show"

If I were local & invited I'd shurly show up me & my cock loving being part in the team injection pleasure fest with lots of super heavenly steadly switching around spit roasting fuck licking,DVP wile she & her nipples are constantly being sucked,kissed tugged on & made love too

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By *teveanddebsCouple
32 weeks ago

Norwich

"If you want 5 guys to turn up, invite 50 as 90% who say yes will be fantasies who don't show"

That's a fair assessment

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By *exytimeCoolMan
32 weeks ago

swadlincote

"hello there

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

has anyone been to one and how hard is it to sort one out. any hints or tips.

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be happy hear more if could be part

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By *INKYLOVE69Couple
32 weeks ago

Chesterfield

We have been trying to organise a gangbang for so long now we have given up

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By *izandpaulCouple
32 weeks ago

merseyside

We've had several, it can be an absolute nightmare.

Just remember about 75% of people on here are delusional, sad dreamers.

There is a couple of ways you can approach it.

You can find a group who already organise them and ask them to sort it.

Organise it yourself but it will be an nightmare and unless you invite everyone to your home, don't do that, you will need to pay for a hotel.

Or, do what we did initially.

Before any gangbang is organised advertise a social meetup for the single guys who would then be invited to your gangbang at a later date.

If they make it to the social good chance they will attend your gang bang.

Good luck, you will need it.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
32 weeks ago

South East

Go to a club, you can have one there in a matter of minutes if it’s what you’re looking for

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By *iddle ManMan
32 weeks ago

Walsall

"Go to a club, you can have one there in a matter of minutes if it’s what you’re looking for "

Yep, if you absolutely want a gangbang or multiple play mates, a club is almost guaranteed fun and attendees. The only problem then is you are only picking front the people attending that club at that time.

People enjoy selecting and vetting the participants for privately organised gangbangs and group fun. It is sometimes part of the allure.

As mentioned the huge downside is the fact a lot of people don't turn up.

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By *oiluvfunMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Agreed, ive turned up to a pre organised g.b and its just been a 3sum as so many people didnt turn up"

This has happened to me twice now too, but mfm is still good fun…

I’ve never been to a ‘greedy girl’ event at a club, because you are limited as to who turns up at those events, and they may not be to your own personal taste, but it might be interesting to visit one, for the voyeuristic experience of watching something you normally can only find on a porn site….

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

There was a great one in Bristol that used a social club as its venue. Always well attended and some very nice ladies in attendance. Sadly it seems to have stopped. I’d be up for organising one but don’t have a venue.

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By *ovetowalkMan
16 weeks ago

Norwich London

Agreed- works if you find the right people. Look at previous go's in your location and the people who have verifications - have experience and did turn up. And go from there, in my experience.

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By *ixcplCouple
16 weeks ago

Fulham

We love gangbangs but don’t even bother with trying to arrange with guys we don’t know for all the reasons above

Welcome invites from experienced groups and prefer share the fun with at least one other girl

If couples want to join our friends then welcome too

Baby bare

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By *allySlinkyWoman
16 weeks ago

Leeds

i have a friend who would love to have a gang bang it is all she goes on about.

Maybe try a club Greedy Girl night

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By *arket Town CoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Keighley

"We love gangbangs but don’t even bother with trying to arrange with guys we don’t know for all the reasons above

Welcome invites from experienced groups and prefer share the fun with at least one other girl

If couples want to join our friends then welcome too

All good advice. Go for an organised group with good veri's. Otherwise you will be on your own.

Baby bare "

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By *ommy 2wMan
16 weeks ago

burton on trent

I would to join you with your freind for a gangbang.

I'm Tommy from Burton-On-Trent 15mins from you .

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By *aveharris448Man
10 weeks ago

hitchin

I can arrange a gang bang for ladies and couples i can pick you up take you to a hotel in herts and london where the guys will meet you later how many guys do you want you can be blind folded if you prefer. Bareback is prefered for the guys and tests results can be provided

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By *lenderfoxMan
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Having spoken to several people who've tried to organise one, it seems challenging to arrange privately as guys are so unreliable.

Your best bet is either at a club, particularly nights catered towards it, or finding an established group that organise them who have reliable participants

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By *oelMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"Having spoken to several people who've tried to organise one, it seems challenging to arrange privately as guys are so unreliable.

Your best bet is either at a club, particularly nights catered towards it, or finding an established group that organise them who have reliable participants"

It's not just men who are unreliable with gangbangs, aligning lots of people at the same time is a challenge. From Arranging gangbangs in the past, women, men and couples all drop off. Location, time/date and people is always a challenge

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