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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt

Well... to wink or not to wink, that is the question? Just wondering what the opinions are out there. I do wink but starting to think it's pointless but on the other hand I don't know whether sending messages is to intrusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind a wink but prefer a message as I rarely look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks work for us. If we like we will wink back or mail.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Don't think I ever had a reply to a wink,so if I'm interested I always send a message now.

On the odd occasions that I receive a wink I do always reply though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't mind a wink but prefer a message as we rarely look at them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink from someone I like the look of, I always wink back and then messages follow from there and I have also winked and then had a wink back which I take as a green light to send a message...

I usually send a message but sometimes winks can be a good opener!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Winks are ok - they signal interest. I do hate it, though, when someone does the triple - wink, friend request and single line message (or a single word!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its been said in many other posts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks work for us. If we like we will wink back or mail. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink its just to let u no we like ur profile n pics n that we r interested

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Winks work for us. If we like we will wink back or mail.

Same here "

Do you actually look at your winks??? Just curious x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

we do and like a wink

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I ignore winks...

So many times in past I responded to them only for silence...

Dont bother with them at all now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore winks...

So many times in past I responded to them only for silence...

Dont bother with them at all now..."

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt

a mixed bag then...... I personally do look at winks, not that I get many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good winker. Lol.

Always see who has winked.

Winks show an interest, and you don't have to reply to them either?!

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I wink to show interest and also wink back to those I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female, I think winks are a waste of time. Why would a single female respond to a wink, when we have more well-thought out (I hope!) messages in our inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't even bother looking at the winks tbh. Somedays we can get loads of them and most are from miles away so just give up on them

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Very rarely would I respond to a wink.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Really can't be bothered with winks, I just delete em every couple of days. If someone wants to get to know me then they'll hopefully read my profile and know this and will send a message instead x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female, I think winks are a waste of time. Why would a single female respond to a wink, when we have more well-thought out (I hope!) messages in our inbox. "

I don't take any notice of my winks anymore. I'd rather have a decent message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are too busy to meet at the moment, so profile is hidden, but at other times if we get a wink we view it as an invite to check out the profile, then we may wink or message back if we like what we see. IF that response is not followed up by a decent message then we tend to write of the profile as mass winkers.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like winks, and I wink back. Read the profile, and if it mentions winks in it, then adhere to the profile's preference too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think a lady can wink to get a lads attention but i think a single fello should send a nice mail to say hello. id say the majority of winks from lads to ladys are ignored

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

very rarely even look at winks , would much rather have a nicely worded message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... to wink or not to wink, that is the question? Just wondering what the opinions are out there. I do wink but starting to think it's pointless but on the other hand I don't know whether sending messages is to intrusive. "

personaly we think they are lazy and say so on our profile

each to there own but they dont read our profile and wink they dont get another warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am of the view that a wink is a simple way to show your interest, as long as the profile has been read, and a wink back, as said before, is a sign that a message would be appropriate. If the original winker does not message that to me shows a cant be bothered attitude and just forget the winker!

I like winks!!

And, as a single guy on here, I believe it shows a tiny bit of etiquette towards the women...

To me the process is, wink, then messages, then friend request.

Cant really complain at getting a friend request straight off if you are happy to bypass the first signal of interest.

Or am I just old fashioned????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... to wink or not to wink, that is the question? Just wondering what the opinions are out there. I do wink but starting to think it's pointless but on the other hand I don't know whether sending messages is to intrusive. "

I tend to ignore them and mass delete every few weeks. I can honestly say I've not got back to anyone who winked.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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I tend to ignore them and mass delete every few weeks. I can honestly say I've not got back to anyone who winked. "

Damn!

I should have read that before I winked at you ...... still, I like a challenge

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"i think a lady can wink to get a lads attention but i think a single fello should send a nice mail to say hello. id say the majority of winks from lads to ladys are ignored"

Spot on.

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