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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

H,i we have a young bi submissive guy who wants to be our submissive sissy/slave this really is something we've been wanting to do for some time and now have the opportunity.......any pointers of how to go about training him or any good sites that give advise and ideas??????

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

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What does he want out of it?

What do you want out of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"H,i we have a young bi submissive guy who wants to be our submissive sissy/slave ......any pointers of how to go about training him ??????"

A big stick normally helps

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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I think it's best to follow your own instincts and ideas, rather than follow a pre-formatted guide. This has worked well for me, when I've trained subs. They carry my pedigree then, and happily certified

Also, doing it this way, you can chop and change things, depending on your whims. That can add to the unpredictability, which some subs really appreciate.

Key simple guide -

rules are rules

boundaries are respected all ways

My fave is less = more. The more a sub pushes for more, the less they'll likely get, as I find this disrespectful of my sensitivities.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

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"Hi, we have a young bi submissive guy who wants to be our submissive sissy/slave this really is something we've been wanting to do for some time and now have the opportunity.......any pointers of how to go about training him or any good sites that give advise and ideas??????"

A chastity cage in his size is a fairly good place to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I think I'd have to agree with following our own instincts and ideas as to being best, we can watch as much slave training/bdsm online for ideas but every person is different as well as every meet/session we have has potential to be very different. Having a pre thought out scenario can be good but if we plan it all around this and follow to a script it can take all the enjoyment out of it for all and we don't want that. Start with small steps and basic training building up to greater things as we progress, no point rushing in and trying to get everything done in one session could spell disaster!! We want our slave to learn his place with us obviously.

Yes rules are rules and these will be set out, boundaries will always be respected, this involves allot of trust to be put into someone, that has to be respected in itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's best to follow your own instincts and ideas, rather than follow a pre-formatted guide. This has worked well for me, when I've trained subs. They carry my pedigree then, and happily certified

Also, doing it this way, you can chop and change things, depending on your whims. That can add to the unpredictability, which some subs really appreciate.

Key simple guide -

rules are rules

boundaries are respected all ways

My fave is less = more. The more a sub pushes for more, the less they'll likely get, as I find this disrespectful of my sensitivities."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humiliation, punishment, total submission .small reward. Very little sexual satisfaction for him until he completes tasks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Humiliation, punishment, total submission .small reward. Very little sexual satisfaction for him until he completes tasks. "
wow think you have the knack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Humiliation, punishment, total submission .small reward. Very little sexual satisfaction for him until he completes tasks. "

As I Dom I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a submissive sissy I love the Annamalice site, full of hypno suggestive video clips you can make him watch even when he's not with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lock his cock in a chastity cage, maybe drop a viagra down him n then do all kinds of dirty stuff in front of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lock his cock in a chastity cage, maybe drop a viagra down him n then do all kinds of dirty stuff in front of him"

Thats too much of a reward.

Cage it, make him clean the floor with a nail brush, wash up, make tea, sit in a corner and shut up.

When he's done as instructed to the letter, let him lick your high heels and stroke your ankles. Then make him kneel at your feet for another hour..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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"As a submissive sissy I love the Annamalice site, full of hypno suggestive video clips you can make him watch even when he's not with you"

Thanks, I didn't know that existed. I often use hypnosis on my subs, as a qualified hypnotherapist, so maybe I should do my own site etc.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Also, all punishments are non-negotiable - rules are rules of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Humiliation, punishment, total submission .small reward. Very little sexual satisfaction for him until he completes tasks. "

Sound advice, thank you ; ) we look forward to putting all into practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a submissive sissy I love the Annamalice site, full of hypno suggestive video clips you can make him watch even when he's not with you

Thanks, I didn't know that existed. I often use hypnosis on my subs, as a qualified hypnotherapist, so maybe I should do my own site etc. "

hmmmmmmm - are you sure that hypnotism on people for sex is an awfully good idea???????? Altho they may be 'subs ' we ALL know a large area of fantasy is involved with this. Sooooo how would they (or indeed you) know they were not engaging in something that when in full command of their faculties they would NEVER contemplate agreeing to?????

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

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Could the hypnotised person be said to be truly consenting?

Even if they consent to the hypnotism they could claim what they were actually persuaded to do something whilst in trance was against their previously expressed wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The videos on the site are very much fantasy based

Basically it works on an almost 'self fulfilling prophecy' basis, the people who watch them do because they want to do those things, otherwise they'd not watch them. Then when they're doing them they can console themselves with it. It's similar to 'forced bi' when it's agreed beforehand.

I have been hypnotised properly before and it's really not the same thing, more suggestive than ordering

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