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By *inkystar1 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Heathfield

Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed

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By *asualfun15Man
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

People are odd. I think is about as much as you can draw from that. Some of us would be delighted to have a single verification never mind the number you have

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

Some people never cease to amaze me!

I would say that it's certainly a 'them' problem, not you!

One of the first things that you state in your profile is you have been here for 10 years - so I would fully expect you to have verifications

I did only skim over them, but the one's I read referred to how sociable you are, which is vital in this lifestyle

Maybe the person who blocked you, wasn't that experienced, or maybe they wanted to 'get off' on the descriptive verifications that some people have!?

Who knows? - but what should be important to you is 'who cares?'

Carry on being you and take no notice of someone who's opinions in this case, really doesn't matter

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By *inkystar1 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Heathfield


"People are odd. I think is about as much as you can draw from that. Some of us would be delighted to have a single verification never mind the number you have "

Someone earlier messaged me saying he was a mechanic and asked about my car. I told him the problem. Which he replied was an easy fix. Then said I was another time waster just after attention and I was blocked. He messaged me and we were talking about my car...ffs. lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
42 weeks ago

Midlands


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

Madness, their loss.

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By *b03Man
42 weeks ago

Exeter

Well everyone had preferences. Most wont meet if you don't have verifications, some won't if you don't have enough, and some won't if you have several.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

Fuck them and the horse they rode in on.

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By *uliette500Woman
42 weeks ago

Hull


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

If that's their attitude leave them to it. Don't let it stress you out. I also counter block these people to stop them being able to come back to me again later.

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By *itter78Couple
42 weeks ago

Spennymoor


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

You sound lovely! The life of any party 😊😊

We wouldn't meet you based on your verifications though, it sounds like we wouldn't get more than a snog.

That's an us thing though after plenty of meets with swingers who weren't interested in playing in the end (more into the social side) and we'd expected otherwise 😅

It's their (and our) loss - people can be weird

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By *bi HaiveMan
42 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

The day I place any reasonable value the opinion of a total stranger on the Internet is the day I log off for good.

You can never be all things to all people, nor should you want to be. 🤷‍♂️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Fabulous, someone who isn't the right fit for you will no longer appear in searches or local updates. They've saved you time and energy.

They could have done it without comment, but hey 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Fabulous, someone who isn't the right fit for you will no longer appear in searches or local updates. They've saved you time and energy.

They could have done it without comment, but hey 💜"

Hey look she said it! The name of the site!

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By *inkystar1 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Heathfield


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed

You sound lovely! The life of any party 😊😊

We wouldn't meet you based on your verifications though, it sounds like we wouldn't get more than a snog.

That's an us thing though after plenty of meets with swingers who weren't interested in playing in the end (more into the social side) and we'd expected otherwise 😅

It's their (and our) loss - people can be weird "

A lot of those verifications are from play. I just ask people to not kiss and tell. I don't like verifications that say tight pussy or great fuck. That's just crass

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By *hoenix_1Man
42 weeks ago

richmond


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

I skipped over them, most if not all are from socials, and 37 in 2 years is not many.

No reason for anyone to be put off you

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By *harAndBryCouple
42 weeks ago

Downham Market


"Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed"

Don't worry about it - their loss. We've had a number of people turn us down for having too many verifications (and we only display half of them) or telling us were "too experienced" for them.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
42 weeks ago

London

I wouldn't worry about what some random on the Internet thinks. Having read your verifications you sound like a lovely person to spend time with and get to know.

They're all very positive (I know there's no such thing as a negative verification displayed on any profile) and speak to anyone who reads them looking for a bit of info on you.

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By *inkystar1 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Heathfield


"Hi peeps.

Just had someone say my verifications are off putting and block me.

Any opinions welcomed

I skipped over them, most if not all are from socials, and 37 in 2 years is not many.

No reason for anyone to be put off you

"

Read my message above. Actually about half are from playing, not just socials

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By *cottish guy 555Man
42 weeks ago

London

And if someone is put off by your amount, then I am truly stuffed.

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

I couldn't see anything in your verifications that were off-putting. They're delightfully benign.

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