FabSwingers.com forum: Going to a club to watch only the just play with partner

By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Okay so I’m going to Gran Canaria in November and wanting to go to a club literally just to watch and get the experience of what’s going on then hopefully after that me and my partner playing alone as anybody got any hints or help of what or not to do.

Thank you.

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By *iss DevilWoman
42 weeks ago

Bedford

Advice on what exactly? I've never been to Gran Canaria so have no idea of the actual set up of clubs there. But in UK, most clubs I know have open play areas where people are happy to be watched while playing. There are also private lockable rooms where you can go and play, just the two of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Okay so I’m going to Gran Canaria in November and wanting to go to a club literally just to watch and get the experience of what’s going on then hopefully after that me and my partner playing alone as anybody got any hints or help of what or not to do.

Thank you."

The clubs we’ve been to in PDI have private areas and public areas. You should be fine if your partner is up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Tbh we do that at the attic most of the time. We don't have any issues ever. Only the odd single man who you can just tell to get lost

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"Advice on what exactly? I've never been to Gran Canaria so have no idea of the actual set up of clubs there. But in UK, most clubs I know have open play areas where people are happy to be watched while playing. There are also private lockable rooms where you can go and play, just the two of you. "

Thanks for info.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
42 weeks ago

Staffordshire

To be honest, we've been to clubs now for 3 years off and on.

Weve never met anyone in a club thats made us want to take it upstairs.....Mr especially just doesn't enjoy the club vibe, it can often feel sleazy.

So yes....just make your intentions clear when talking to people and you'll be absolutely fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Thank you.

The clubs we’ve been to in PDI have private areas and public areas. You should be fine if your partner is up for it."

Ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"To be honest, we've been to clubs now for 3 years off and on.

Weve never met anyone in a club thats made us want to take it upstairs.....Mr especially just doesn't enjoy the club vibe, it can often feel sleazy.

So yes....just make your intentions clear when talking to people and you'll be absolutely fine. "

Thanks

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By *eiaorganaWoman
42 weeks ago

Dundee

One thing I learned from Insomnia in Berlin is that places abroad have different approaches to club play. Guys started randomly touching me, which took me by surprise as there was no chat or anything beforehand like we do here, but they stop when you say no.

Maybe something to keep in mind just in case!

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By *urplebadger69Couple
42 weeks ago

Colchester

I think secrets in PDI would be perfect for you.

There's a large open bar/dancefloor area where everyone mingles. There's a large couples only area that you can wander around with areas to hide away in if you want to.

Also, there's an area for single guys which also has about 4 lockable rooms, dark room, glory holes, Czech glory holes and a cinema area.

It was definitely an eye opener when we visited for the first time. We just kept ducking in to lockable rooms to play and chat about what we'd seen.

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