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By *lasgow_ftm OP   TV/TS
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

Man it's not the best feeling! This man was super eager in chat, pushed for a time he could come over and after arranging time and place, I just got ghosted. It was planned to his schedule, we've got a whole flat to ourselves and he had both pussy and mouth waiting for him. Idk just confused and lonely now. How do you guys deal with getting stood up?

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Sadly, guys are just one wank away from cancelling. Often the fantasy is enough. Add nerves, fakes and general malaise it’s tough out there.

I would always make sure there’s a video call so that they know you’re real (and they are), give a message one hour before to make sure they’re coming and get them to call you when they park up. None of this guarantees they’ll knock the door but it certainly improves the chances that they do.

It’s 100% not you. It’s them.

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By *alistraWoman
43 weeks ago

Stafford

Happens alot. Report them for no show

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By *alkingbobMan
43 weeks ago

Hamilton


"Sadly, guys are just one wank away from cancelling. Often the fantasy is enough. Add nerves, fakes and general malaise it’s tough out there.

I would always make sure there’s a video call so that they know you’re real (and they are), give a message one hour before to make sure they’re coming and get them to call you when they park up. None of this guarantees they’ll knock the door but it certainly improves the chances that they do.

Good advice here I had arranged to meet a couple and messaged on the day to check it was still on but no reply very frustrating

It’s 100% not you. It’s them."

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By *ilverfox for youMan
43 weeks ago

Hull

Report them . I’m sure you can do that

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By *aidForSharingWoman
43 weeks ago

Lancashire

But what if people report others for no shows and it's not even true? There are malicious people out there

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
43 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I've had it happen more and more to the point where I'm more surprised if someone actually turns up than if they don't, not that I'm really trying to meet anyone much now either, think of it as a lucky escape block them and move on don't let it get to you or that's when they win

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By *iablo soloWoman
43 weeks ago

ecstasy

Happened to me 3 weeks in a row! Knocks u for a bit but then u shake yourself off and realise it's there loss and go again!

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By *illxxMan
43 weeks ago

motherwell

I reported a no show. She failed to show up twice. Nothing done about it after I reported it

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By *cnugatugMan
43 weeks ago

Chatham

Yup happened to me the other day. Was chatting with a couple for a good 2 weeks organised a meet at the local premier Inn I got there messaged the couple waited no reply so I went to message again only to be blocked really does hit hard when ya standing there waiting and you get blocked

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By *uliette500Woman
43 weeks ago

Hull


"I reported a no show. She failed to show up twice. Nothing done about it after I reported it "

I think the site will only act if they recurrent reports of no shows for the same person. Only one report is not really enough to sanction someone but if its happening repeatedly they may do something about it.

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