FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating

By *ohnlooking4u OP Man
2 days ago

bath

Who’s bothered by this who’s not and who finds it a turn on?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Massive turn off and I/we won't meet anyone playing without consent. There's too many genuinely single people out there and whilst some lie, it's a question we always ask and at the first sign of suspicion we're being fibbed to, we'll cut contact.

There's usually plenty of red flags to give an indication, even before chats go past the first couple of messages.

10000% never going to be a turn on.

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By *unKinkyCouple-XCouple
2 days ago

Hampshire

Turn off. I have in the past and have probably unknowingly at clubs been with a married man but its not something I willingly want to be a part of anymore. My cloest friend has been repeatedly cheated on in a similar situation and I've seen how it's broken her. I want no part in that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

It's certainly not a turn on.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
2 days ago

london

we've never met a cheat ie who dealred they were married etc but i'm very certain that over 95% of the guys we have met are cheats - you can easily catch them out especially on a meet and after the fun chat - often said to us "mrs/gf does not mind" wtf i think, really!

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 days ago

Gloucester

Huge turn off!

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
2 days ago

London/Kent

It doesn't bother me as such but a cheating Man is a complete turn off for me for many reasons, I would never ever meet a cheating Man intentionally.......But I was tricked into it before under false pretences before, I just find them very sneaky & their behaviour imho is sleazy.........

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 days ago

Staffordshire

Turn off.

As when it goes wrong and you get found out, guess who gets blamed.

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
2 days ago

Galway

Turn off. Not going to judge people: their life, their circumstances, their choices. But the last thing we want is to be complicit in the emotional damage to the partner if/when they find out.

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
2 days ago

London/Kent

"Turn off.

As when it goes wrong and you get found out, guess who gets blamed.

👍✌️ Exactly, & who wants a crazed jealous wife on their back, defo not me, drama free all the way for me

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't knowingly meet anyone cheating, I'm half a couple and I'd hate it done to me.

So why would I want to get involved in potentially hurting another person?.

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By *aughty-oneMan
2 days ago

Nazeing

It’s so rare that men might get a message returned on here, any moral compass will be quickly pushed to the side if they think there might be the slightest chance of getting to a point where they could possibly get some action.

There is also the sneaky thrill seekers who enjoy the weird excitement of cheating.

I find it all too time consuming to be played with peoples minds and trying to figure out how to not get found out.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
2 days ago

Stoke

Disgraceful, don't do it!!

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By *irsSubCouple
2 days ago

Darlington

For us it's a total turn off, although we won't judge your actions, we just don't want to be part of them

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By *ay h500Man
2 days ago

mansfield

Please remember there are plenty of cheating women too

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
2 days ago

Bedale

It's a strong demerit; but not necessarily definitive as to whether we would meet.

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By *omRachCouple
2 days ago

Wirral

Its absolutely vile and disgusting.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 days ago

Gloucester

"Please remember there are plenty of cheating women too "

No matter gender cheating is a huge turn off

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