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By *donis79 OP   Man
4 days ago

Watton

Hello ladys n gentleman.

I need your help I've never had what they call the gift of the gab. So

Ladys what would a good opening message look like that would get your attention from all the messages you get.

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By *rChanceMan
4 days ago

Oxford

honesty works wonders. Humour helps.

Beware there are so many men on here that your voice might not be heard. Better to meet women at the pub & open with the same question "My friend is a swinger, how would you chat to swingers"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 days ago

Central

People look at profilea before reading messages, so if your profile is right for them, it gives your introductory message the best chance.

Friendly, picking up from their profile and honest and clear work. Experiment and see how it goes. But there's a very low rate of people being mutually compatible.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

Always read a profile, then try to tailor your message to them, maybe by referring to something you liked.

Ie I get messages about my book pic.

All women are u individuals, many will indicate usually the way they like speaking to, in their bios.

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By *lanenakedMan
4 days ago

eaglesham


"Always read a profile, then try to tailor your message to them, maybe by referring to something you liked.

Ie I get messages about my book pic.

All women are u individuals, many will indicate usually the way they like speaking to, in their bios. "

Done exactly this hundreds and hundreds of times to a full range of ladies different locations ages body shape kink interests, always polite always relevant always funny.

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So .. there are richer picking grounds.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit


"Always read a profile, then try to tailor your message to them, maybe by referring to something you liked.

Ie I get messages about my book pic.

All women are u individuals, many will indicate usually the way they like speaking to, in their bios.

Done exactly this hundreds and hundreds of times to a full range of ladies different locations ages body shape kink interests, always polite always relevant always funny.

No replies

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So .. there are richer picking grounds. "

I was just speaking on what I'm more likely to respond to.

But then I always reply to a well written message, even if it's a no thanks.

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