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"I always read profiles before reading any message that comes my way. Your profile literally tells me that your message will be a bit boring and lack effort. Chances of me reading it now? Zero. Concentrate on what you want and what you offer and be specific. Trying to appeal to everyone will actually probably not press anyone’s buttons. " Thanks for the advice. Done some adjustment in the Bio. Does it look any better now? Really appreciate it. | |||
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"Theres alot of useless information and half the pics show nothing of you so are therefore also pointless, in my opinion. Oh and you spelt boring wrong "Thanks for the correction. Still learning after 10 years that I moved in UK lol. Regarding pictures I removed some and adjusted the bio. Does it look slightly better? | |||
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"I'm gonna be a bit harsh The end...the bite..it's lame, generic and makes women eye roll. Negativity eg saying boring makes women switch off. Girls is ok. Women is a better term It's about you, but it's also about what you can offer. Have a look at the lounge, look at some of the profiles, there's humour, artistic pics, from the header on down it's interesting. It's hard I imagine to convey yourself in writing, but what's not hard is to use a timer on your phone for pics Good luck "Thank you for the heads up. Done few adjustments. I hope that looks a bit better now. | |||
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"In the middle of your text it says how your first message might seem quite boring. People will never see this if they receive a boring message and don't look at your profile. Half way down you say "that's the boring stuff over". Why have text on your profile you acknowledge is boring ?" I did rectify it. Thanks darling | |||
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"Thanks darling " Do you use words like darling in your opening messages ? | |||
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"Thanks darling Do you use words like darling in your opening messages ?" You right about Fab I did mention it, regarding Darling or any other nice words wich one is the best? Some time i use this way but also doesn't go anywhere. Good morning gorgeous. What an outstanding creature that you are. I'm aware that I may not get a reply but would love to have a little chat with you to know each other. In the meantime I wish you a lovely day Alfie. | |||
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"Have you wondered why a message like that doesn't get you anywhere ?" The fact that I may not get a reply I guess. A compliment I think is always appreciated. But I don't have any idea. Bare in mind I was in a 18 years relationship, so flirting with women, talking with them is all new to me. I'm also from another country. | |||
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"I think it's too over the top for a first message to a woman whose face you have probably not seen. " Thanks for your tips. Really appreciate it. | |||
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