FabSwingers.com forum: Was the neighbour watching?

By *orthernJay OP Man
44 weeks ago

Hyde

Given the heat, we’d opened a couple of doors that are ordinarily closed and we’d made use of a downstairs room as it was cooler.

Very late into the evening, I’m sat on the sofa and she’s between my legs sucking amazingly when I noticed a shadow outside one of the doors!

Now here’s the thing, it was my imagination or it could only have been one neighbour given the set up of each house; he’s a quiet guy but recently divorced post her cheating!

I’m convinced he was watching us for a good half an hour as the shadow moved several times, she was oblivious and I didn’t want to say anything as it’d have freaked her out.

I love being watched so it worked for me, she’s really into him but wouldn’t make the first move.

So, how do I approach the neighbour to literally ask him if he was watching without freaking him out or sounding like a dick!?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

She was down there for half an hour! 😱 Her jaw must be made of iron.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think you seeing a shadow or two is enough evidence to approach your neighbour

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By *orthernJay OP Man
44 weeks ago

Hyde

"She was down there for half an hour! 😱 Her jaw must be made of iron.

Stop start

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By *usie pTV/TS
44 weeks ago

taunton

Just tell him your wife has the hots for him, he will take it as a compliment, from his reaction you may be able to gauge if he is interested. The chances of him not being interested are highly remote.

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By *orthernJay OP Man
44 weeks ago

Hyde

Just a quick update to publicly reply re feedback I’ve had from several people.

This wasn’t a consent issue or me denying consent, simply a spur of the moment situation which may have been my imagination at the time; I wasn’t sure and still unsure.

I have mentioned it her since posting on the forum and she smiled hoping he’d enjoyed the show; she’s perfectly fine with how it played out.

No drama, thanks for the feedback; always a gift.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

"She was down there for half an hour! 😱 Her jaw must be made of iron.

My thoughts exactly !

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By *allySlinkyWoman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

" she’s really into him but wouldn’t make the first move.

So, how do I approach the neighbour to literally ask him if he was watching without freaking him out or sounding like a dick!?! "

Why do you need to ask him if he was watching ? Why not just say sorry you've split up. Would you like to join us for a drink one evening. Then maybe mention how much she's into him.

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By *aomilatteCouple
44 weeks ago

Midlands

Is a neighbour able to see though one of your doors? Would they need to be in your back garden? We're in our living room now and occasionally the light changes, as in a shadow. It's the clouds moving in the sky, if you didn't see anyone then then clouds are a likely explanation.

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
44 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Yes I was

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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44 weeks ago

Central

The mind and imagination fill in the gaps and make the dubious certain

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