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What do women look for?

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By *ambamXXX OP   Man
5 days ago

Daventry

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By *ambamXXX OP   Man
5 days ago

Daventry

Ok so as a male, we’re usually very shallow creatures. Sign of some bare skin and we’re ready! But Iv been wondering what do women look for on here?

Clean shaved, hygienic seems to be a prerequisite and I’d say the latter more so!

But for males who take the time to read profiles, see some connection and respond accordingly, it’s still very difficult for males to be successful on. I’m not talking endless scores of female conquests, think majority would be overwhelmingly satisfied with a connection with a female or couple, to have fun with. Yet it seems to still be mammoth task to engage a conversation. Some read and don’t reply, so no feedback as to why or what we’re doing wrong. Perhaps there’s another platform of which others have found more beneficial than Fabswingers?

I used to have another profile, and had a few varies - however these also seemed to be a red card by some! I’d have thought a comment from others suggesting one’s character would be a good thing?

Be interested in others thoughts. Both male, female and

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

Mostly women look for compatible people.

What that means varies by every individual 💜

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex

It's difficult for men on fab. That is basically it.

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By *ambamXXX OP   Man
5 days ago

Daventry

So are women largely looking to form a relationship on here, rather than a mutual exchange of sexual fun?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually


"So are women largely looking to form a relationship on here, rather than a mutual exchange of sexual fun? "

Some are looking for a relationship. Some are just looking for fun. Both require compatible people to be successful 💜

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
5 days ago

Wolverhampton

Dunno if I'm weird here right, but some of us really like being treated as individuals and not one homogeneous being.

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By *ambamXXX OP   Man
5 days ago

Daventry

Totally accept we’re all different and indeed have variable expectations from the web site. My curiosity was to explore what women fundamentally look for, in males on Fab.

It’s subjective I know, and as I previously said, is males are by and large shallow creatures.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex

You'll get a range of answers from bare back gang bangs to long term exclusive relationships.

The only thing *you* can do is try to appeal to the kind of woman you want to meet while being your authentic self.

There is no magic combination of photos and profile text which will make women fall at your feet.

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By *riel13Woman
5 days ago

Northampton

Initially, a face I am attracted to

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By *ubcuckpupMan
5 days ago

Manchester


"Initially, a face I am attracted to "

Your face is very attractive and your ink is amazing

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
5 days ago

scunthorpe

There’s got to be the attraction first. I’m not bothered about body type but I have to find someone’s face attractive.

After that I look for someone who can hold a conversation, be humorous and have shared interests.

Donna x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually


"Totally accept we’re all different and indeed have variable expectations from the web site. My curiosity was to explore what women fundamentally look for, in males on Fab.

It’s subjective I know, and as I previously said, is males are by and large shallow creatures.

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Fundamentally, compatible people.

Whether that's whatever is nearby with a penis and a willingness to shove it in or someone to build a long term relationship with will vary.

As a general rule, women are less likely to take the any pole's a goal approach. But some do.

There's only any point in trying to attract the people who are compatible with you. Trying to appeal to the broadest or easiest demographic in the hope of more unfulfilling encounters is unlikely to yield much fruit 💜

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By *ambamXXX OP   Man
5 days ago

Daventry

Some really insightful responses. Thank you to all who commented.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
5 days ago

West Suffolk


"Some really insightful responses. Thank you to all who commented.

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Attraction, connection and compatibility are the 3 main things I would say

Mrs

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 days ago

Gloucester


"Some really insightful responses. Thank you to all who commented.

Attraction, connection and compatibility are the 3 main things I would say

Mrs"

I have to agree with this

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By *he Happy ManMan
5 days ago

Merseyside


"Ok so as a male, we’re usually very shallow creatures. Sign of some bare skin and we’re ready! But Iv been wondering what do women look for on here?

Clean shaved, hygienic seems to be a prerequisite and I’d say the latter more so!

But for males who take the time to read profiles, see some connection and respond accordingly, it’s still very difficult for males to be successful on. I’m not talking endless scores of female conquests, think majority would be overwhelmingly satisfied with a connection with a female or couple, to have fun with. Yet it seems to still be mammoth task to engage a conversation. Some read and don’t reply, so no feedback as to why or what we’re doing wrong. Perhaps there’s another platform of which others have found more beneficial than Fabswingers?

I used to have another profile, and had a few varies - however these also seemed to be a red card by some! I’d have thought a comment from others suggesting one’s character would be a good thing?

Be interested in others thoughts. Both male, female and "

What people aze looking for on here will vary from person to person and couple to couple. We are all unique individuals.

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By *olds CoupleCouple
5 days ago

Louth Lincolnshire

1: Excellent hygiene and short clean nails

2: Respectful and polite

3: Attraction

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
4 days ago

Westmidlands

Majority of people on fab Are Not Looking For Single Guys ,sadly Men are out of Fashion on fab ,it's mainly couples looking for bi experience and same with majority of single ladies looking for a munch .

Fire away I'm ready but it's True

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