FabSwingers.com forum: Last min meet

By *omhardly OP Man
1 week ago

Chester

Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short

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By *alkingbobMan
1 week ago

Hamilton

For me it is sort it before meet

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
1 week ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

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By *all me FlikWoman
1 week ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection."

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult.

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By *omhardly OP Man
1 week ago

Chester

"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult."

Ok ok I’m new , I have however just seen an advert for a bareback gangbang so it clearly takes place

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
1 week ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult.

Ok ok I’m new , I have however just seen an advert for a bareback gangbang so it clearly takes place "

Yes they do indeed take place, but as I doubt the last minute meet you are going on was listed as a bareback meet, take some rubbers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

"Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short

Take your own, especially if you have a particular brand you like but be prepared for the person to have their preference too. You could ask if there's a type they like, some people are allergic to latex for instance.

Kudos to you for asking you'd be surprised at the number of men who don't and assume that we'll bring our own (we do) or more commonly that we will bareback.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

Always turn up prepared, ie with condoms, don't expect her to have them or to go bare, unless agreed before hand. I'd usually discuss it before a meet.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
1 week ago

Hampshire

Agreed- bring your own but if there is an allergy she may have her own.

You'd be surprised the amount of men that turn up to meets / clubs without condoms 😬😬

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By *uzziman63Man
1 week ago

Northampton

Try asking the person who you are meeting if they want bareback

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By *xploring 2000Man
1 week ago

Mayo

Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

"Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this "

Really?

We met a man some time back of a similar age. When I asked Mr N for a condom for him he was genuinely shocked. It hadn't occurred to him that we would use them.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
1 week ago

Hampshire

"Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this "

You'd be surprised! I appreciate people asking the questions as it means they aren't just assuming bareback (like so many do!)

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By *ilverfox for youMan
1 week ago

Hull

Sort prior to meeting .just ask her

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By *unover40Couple
1 week ago

yeovil

Always have them with you, we prefer to.play without but not everyone is the same

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By *oobslover80Man
1 week ago

Wokingham

Always be prepared

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By *ll 4 HerCouple
1 week ago

Bolton

Always take your own as has been said.

It's better to have and not need them, than need them and not have them.

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By *ucka39Man
1 week ago

Newcastle

Normally in my case everything has been discussed prior so already know what is going to happen so I Go equipped 😝

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By *e and him 2021Couple
1 week ago

stoke on trent

"Always take your own as has been said.

It's better to have and not need them, than need them and not have them. "

This, if we meet a guy and he doesn’t come prepared than it would go no more than a social xx

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By *lleyCat1969Man
1 week ago

Folkestone

How did it work out, OP?

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By *ink vixenCouple
1 week ago

Medway

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By *ink vixenCouple
1 week ago

Medway

"How did it work out, OP?"

Yeah spill the beans (discretely)

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By *ichaelsmyMan
6 days ago

doiglas

I always am the question as a way to find out preferences and there’s a latex allergy.

Although I’ve had every kind of reaction to the question

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By *estinysswingersCouple
6 days ago

Worsley

Take it with you?

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By *un couple 2Couple
6 days ago

Tynemouth.

common sense to always have some just incase, id of thought.

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
5 days ago

Westmidlands

Oh my oh my FFS

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 days ago

Central

Take what you like to use, including lube

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 days ago

Coventry

Yes always take a taser and pepper spray just incase.

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By *hogun300Man
4 days ago

Dundee

"Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short

Really?

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