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By *uicyandhaytch84 OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD

We have talked about me (female) experimenting with another female for quite awhile and even though I'm super nervous, I'm feeling like I should take the plunge. I'm wondering is it better to go with someone really experienced or someone that is also figuring it out and new? X

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By *iss DevilWoman
45 weeks ago

Bedford

How about attending a female only event? Get chatting, chilling with the ladies and maybe make connections?

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By *aomilatteCouple
45 weeks ago

Midlands

It shouldn't matter how experienced they are. Just do what comes naturally, do what feels nice. There's generally lots of FF play in clubs.

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By *arleycplWoman
45 weeks ago

Frodsham


"It shouldn't matter how experienced they are. Just do what comes naturally, do what feels nice. There's generally lots of FF play in clubs. "

This and I found it easier to met another lady on my own with out hubby there

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By *ndymac888Man
45 weeks ago

Dumbarton

F/F meets must be a nightmare to to organise, who would take responsibility for the so called “mental stimulation” requirements 😂😂

On a serious note though I would just use the same metrics you probably already have and look for the woman you connect with most easily.

Unless you want some smooth operator to sweep you off your feet then you might need to advertise to woman on your profile.

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By *iss KinkWoman
45 weeks ago

Up North

Maybe get a single F profile? Then you can explore that side rather than people thinking your OH needs to be involved

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By *unloversCouple
45 weeks ago

rotherham

Just perhaps try a club or private house party where the female of a couple wants to play and let the hubbys watch……..who knows what will happen

Good luck xx

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By *alter and Skyler 500Couple
45 weeks ago

Lincoln , Midlands

Well we recently met an experienced couple who were the perfect hosts in every respect, not pushy, sounding out if it was the male pressuring the female , discussed any jealousy which of course shouldn’t exist, expanding on - is this for you or for the couple, (m/f) .

They were very reassuring and considering it was our first FF interaction all was near perfect, only thing missing was the ladies disappearance for 20 mins to get grips with each other, hubby missed out on that initial girl on girl experience, however going forward we met another couple and the FF fun included my hubby, all again near perfect , so we would advise do your homework first and ensure there’s chemistry, it should all feel relaxed and natural 😊😘xxx

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By *uicyandhaytch84 OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD


"How about attending a female only event? Get chatting, chilling with the ladies and maybe make connections? "

Yes this is something I have thought about as there's one at quest I believe. This may be something I need to plan

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By *uicyandhaytch84 OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD


"It shouldn't matter how experienced they are. Just do what comes naturally, do what feels nice. There's generally lots of FF play in clubs. "

Thankyou I think I'm scared of not being able to be natural 🤣

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By *uicyandhaytch84 OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD


"It shouldn't matter how experienced they are. Just do what comes naturally, do what feels nice. There's generally lots of FF play in clubs.

This and I found it easier to met another lady on my own with out hubby there"

We have spoken about this, I said it might relax me just having some private time whether just a drink etc, first

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By *uicyandhaytch84 OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

SHEFFIELD


"F/F meets must be a nightmare to to organise, who would take responsibility for the so called “mental stimulation” requirements 😂😂

On a serious note though I would just use the same metrics you probably already have and look for the woman you connect with most easily.

Unless you want some smooth operator to sweep you off your feet then you might need to advertise to woman on your profile."

Haha thankyou for the input. The problem I think is that I can't tell if another woman is flirting with me 🤣 been a couple of times at clubs I've come out thinking did that woman come on to me.

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By *ezandcCouple
45 weeks ago

Telford

Kez was very nervous Saturday, even though she had a little play a few weeks back at Xtasia, her nerves went away quickly once they started, mine on the other hand were still through the roof

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

if my wife is anything to go by, though not meeting a F but a Male, the guys told me mrs lets herself go

So a F wanting to meet another F alone is highly recommended

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By *unover40Couple
45 weeks ago

yeovil

More important is someone that you click with, just relax and enjoy

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