FabSwingers.com forum: What am i doing wrong?

By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

I have been a member of fab for well over a year ive had meets but just lately i cannot get anyones attention, im not sure if its my profile or the messages i send people i think i may be too polite!!

Any guidance would really be appreciated

Ian

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have been a member of fab for well over a year ive had meets but just lately i cannot get anyones attention, im not sure if its my profile or the messages i send people i think i may be too polite!!

Any guidance would really be appreciated

Ian"

stop trying dont take things to serious an have a laff then you just might never no

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By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

I do try to have a laugh but constantly get deleted messages!!! Help lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I appreciate u don't meet males - but - for me if ya spelt discreet correctly it would be a plus. But then 'i'm fussy bout nonsensical trivials like that!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

dont try too or so hard!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I dont see anything wrong with your profile, OP - it is probably just that there are so many similar profiles. Could you perhaps try and make yours a bit unique? Best of luck xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

1 - Avoid telling people you are struggling to get a meet.

2 - Punch below your weight.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"dont try too or so hard!"

an btw if some1 thinks your not werth meeting cos you can't spell kick em in the dangles an walk on by as a sparrow probly has more intelligence

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"1 - Avoid telling people you are struggling to get a meet.

2 - Punch below your weight."

pmsl forgot about punching low hahaha

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By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people"

we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people

we know

Yes EVEN ME lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a tad full on/OTT fella. Chill out, engage in the forums and become part of the community.

Will all fall into place after that

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people

we know

Yes EVEN ME lol

Especially you!! You could be eradicated from the face of this earth....like...now!! scary scary!!!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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Any guidance would really be appreciated

Ian"

Much has been written elsewhere about the use of 'professional' in profiles and about single males who cannot accommodate. I won't repeat it.

However, your preferred age range (18-99) and your extensive list of interests might be thought by some, less charitable Fabsters, as smacking a bit of desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been here a year and had meets so you must know by now how this works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone for the advice its really appreciated you are all great people

we know

Yes EVEN ME lol

Especially you!! You could be eradicated from the face of this earth....like...now!! scary scary!!!

I come in peace........... I'll be leaving in pieces lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ask the people who have met you, what it was that attracted them to you. Then do more of the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe remove the cock shot from public view! I seems most ladies seem to get more turned off by them than on by them. I'd go for the less is more on that approach. good luck though

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Unfortunately your profile is generic. On a site where there are articulate, witty, engaging men, you'll be overlooked.

We are all unique: let us know about YOU: what do YOU want, what are YOU bringing to the party? Don't put what you think people want to hear: it's dull!

Good luck!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

2 - Punch below your weight."

If there's a hell you're going there

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Any guidance would really be appreciated

Ian"

You've had at least 7 more meets than the average person or couple who joins fab - what's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 - Avoid telling people you are struggling to get a meet.

2 - Punch below your weight."

Why punch below his weight?...he may have standards and not just view any hole as a goal like some on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant accom...

the smiling pic on right hand side just looks false

have some proper body pics

ur in and around london etc...check local swing clubs

ur verifications do seem a bit way too dated...it really does make people wonder why they are so far n few between, given the time uve been on fab

the cock shot...well it will attract whoever it attracts...never understood the need to hide a body part really...especially one that saves the fucking arsing around messaging what the cock might be like...just dont send it in first mails ffs(unless specifically asked for)

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By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

Hows the updated profile look!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well done mate

Username???? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows the updated profile look!!"

Looking better

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Like your photos and personally I like to see a cock shot because they are all different and don't believe anyone who says they're not! The rest of your profile is a bit boring though and doesn't really stand out.

Good luck.

Lisa

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By *owland4Man
over a year ago

croydon

hi guys... been here for few months now still didn't manage to meet anybody. please help!!!!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"1 - Avoid telling people you are struggling to get a meet.

2 - Punch below your weight."
lol yep i agree scrape the barrel, and u should be good to go, and the results will start comming in

im kidding im kidding before u all start lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Still generic and like most profiles on here. Personally, my spidey senses start twitching when I see can't accommodate and discrete on the same profile, let alone as a user name, but hey, I'm a cynic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys... been here for few months now still didn't manage to meet anybody. please help!!!!"

Your profile is 4 lines long and apart from being poorly spelt (whats a bang bang?) tells me nothing about you. Can't accomodate and poor pics. Address those issues and you might improve your chances.

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By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

Comments taken on board thanks again all ive updated again!

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Much better

now if you could just widen your search to Notts

Lisa

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Comments taken on board thanks again all ive updated again!"

NOW your personality comes through! Well done, much better and good luck!

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By *iscrete guy OP Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh

Thanks all

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ah ha! Someone who listens to advice and takes action! I do hope none of it is copied though. Also I prefer the non smiley pic.

Good luck and happy swinging, I think you will have success with your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better

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