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"What is hot about our profile and what needs adding to it to make it better" It’s a couple profile, but all we see is you ??? Speaks volumes about your partner | |||
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"Also, why would you let someone continue to message 3 messages, if your not interested?" More because we got a lot of messages that we might have missed the first 1 or 2 but thank you for the advice on both messages 😊 | |||
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"Also, why would you let someone continue to message 3 messages, if your not interested? More because we got a lot of messages that we might have missed the first 1 or 2 but thank you for the advice on both messages 😊" Aha. It reads like someone messages and you reply no thanks but then they try and try again. But then it is early for me🥱 | |||
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"Also, why would you let someone continue to message 3 messages, if your not interested? More because we got a lot of messages that we might have missed the first 1 or 2 but thank you for the advice on both messages 😊 Aha. It reads like someone messages and you reply no thanks but then they try and try again. But then it is early for me🥱 "Yeah we get that it could look like that now will look at changing it round. When thinking of it in your head and writing it down it sounds good and worded right ahah but suppose others read it differently. | |||
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"Some pics of the guy as it is a couples profile and for me I found the text hard to read so maybe space out your sentences/paragraphs more
"Complete agree with this. Also loose the disclaimer, it just takes up unnecessary space. | |||
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"What is hot about our profile and what needs adding to it to make it better" very nice and hot wife, very nice body and gorgeous pussy, topped off with seam like a very nice couple | |||
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"What is hot about our profile and what needs adding to it to make it better It’s a couple profile, but all we see is you ??? Speaks volumes about your partner " He actually posted this not me, what do you mean speaks volumes about my partner? | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile." I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile. I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x" Would you buy a car you hadn't seen? Or a house? People who expect others to want to get naked with someone they've never seen usually end up disappointed. Even a clothed vanilla pic would go a long way to helping others make an informed decision as to whether there was interest. | |||
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"What is hot about our profile and what needs adding to it to make it better It’s a couple profile, but all we see is you ??? Speaks volumes about your partner He actually posted this not me, what do you mean speaks volumes about my partner?" In my experience, in many couple profiles the lady is absolutely stunning and the man… well… is not that attractive/easy on the eye. And the lack of photos of him/just of his dick tends to be an indicator of this. | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile. I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x Would you buy a car you hadn't seen? Or a house? Understandable where you are coming from but if he's camera shy I can't force him to do something he's not wanting to do we do send pictures together and of him once we've spoken to people as he's more comfortable with that thank you for reply
People who expect others to want to get naked with someone they've never seen usually end up disappointed. Even a clothed vanilla pic would go a long way to helping others make an informed decision as to whether there was interest. " | |||
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"He must have posed for a pic for your profile to be photo verified" Yes he did to prove it's a couples profile, it was of his face which he's fine with&the picture was privatised due to his job we only send face pictures to people we are actually going to meet to prove we are both genuine | |||
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"The lady is very attractive, the guy is simply missing! More pics of him required. Profile text is too blocky and not easy to read - break it up with paras. " Thank you for your reply he's very camera shy but he is reading&taking things on board, yes we are looking at switching up the writing haha x | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile. I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x Would you buy a car you hadn't seen? Or a house? People who expect others to want to get naked with someone they've never seen usually end up disappointed. Even a clothed vanilla pic would go a long way to helping others make an informed decision as to whether there was interest. Understandable where you are coming from but if he's camera shy I can't force him to do something he's not wanting to do we do send pictures together and of him once we've spoken to people as he's more comfortable with that thank you for reply "Your choice entirely. It's your profile after all. But you're giving yourselves an uphill struggle by hoping messages will come in with no visuals. And also setting yourself up for disappointment later if a conversation is going well and then dies a death once an image has been sent. People will wonder how comfortable someone will be in person if they're not happy/confident/comfortable to even post an unidentifiable image online. | |||
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" People will wonder how comfortable someone will be in person if they're not happy/confident/comfortable to even post an unidentifiable image online. " This is my thoughts exactly. I wouldn't expect a face pic but a headless body in smart clothes and a naked torso would be good enough for me. | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile. I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x Would you buy a car you hadn't seen? Or a house? People who expect others to want to get naked with someone they've never seen usually end up disappointed. Even a clothed vanilla pic would go a long way to helping others make an informed decision as to whether there was interest. Understandable where you are coming from but if he's camera shy I can't force him to do something he's not wanting to do we do send pictures together and of him once we've spoken to people as he's more comfortable with that thank you for reply
Your choice entirely. It's your profile after all.
But you're giving yourselves an uphill struggle by hoping messages will come in with no visuals. And also setting yourself up for disappointment later if a conversation is going well and then dies a death once an image has been sent.
People will wonder how comfortable someone will be in person if they're not happy/confident/comfortable to even post an unidentifiable image online. "Thank you again for your reply, we get lots of messages without his images being on there or any images of us being on there together, he's actually a very confident person in himself and in person he doesn't do social media in general I.e fb,insta all that jazz, definitely not having an uphill struggle haha, we're still very new to this& he posted this forum to see where we can improve on the profile, thanks for the advice enjoy your day mate | |||
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" People will wonder how comfortable someone will be in person if they're not happy/confident/comfortable to even post an unidentifiable image online. This is my thoughts exactly. I wouldn't expect a face pic but a headless body in smart clothes and a naked torso would be good enough for me. " Thank you for your reply again Sally he's looking at maybe doing something like this, after reading the replies on the forum have a lovely day | |||
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"Might as well be a single woman’s profile. You need ohotos of male half. " Thank you I have said this to him a few times | |||
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"More photos of the male would help the profile. I've said this to him he needs to add pics of him but he's not a fan of the camera x" It depends for me, when we played it was looking for a third to have a straight MFM, we had no pictures of the male in public as the third person didn't need to fancy him to have a straight MFM. If you are looking for couples then that's a different thing for me, most people would expect to see all parties even if you were to send the pics in private. | |||
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"we get lots of messages without his images being on there or any images of us being on there together" The messages you're getting from couples are likely to be sent from the Man of the couple. He sees photos of a hot Woman and messages. It's very common the Woman in the couple has no idea they've sent messages. | |||
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"we get lots of messages without his images being on there or any images of us being on there together The messages you're getting from couples are likely to be sent from the Man of the couple. He sees photos of a hot Woman and messages. It's very common the Woman in the couple has no idea they've sent messages." We are still new to it and learning more about it all and how to have a fun profile so as the experience comes I'm sure we will change it as we go along. We have added 2 pics of us both in there and that's what M is comfortable with atm so it's a start 😂 | |||
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