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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice please

So you've met a really nice couple and you wish to remain swing friends but ......

I don't wish to play with the male .

In any other situation i would just say not my type to play with .

We as a couple never take one for the team .

How to word without offending ???

Txx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Can you not just say, not interested in anything sexual, would love to become friends and remain in contact for meals etc? As we enjoyed your company!

I'd just be honest and if it doesn't happen then at least you did try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would just put it in their hands, explain your happy to be friends and socalise, if they say no its theor loss of two potential good friends! good luck! x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you saying that you want to remain friends or that you want to continue with your partner and his partner having sex. It's your use of the phrase swing friends that's confusing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on, take one for the team, spoil sport lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh go on, take one for the team, spoil sport lol "

Lol noooooooooooooo

Tee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult, probably not going to work out, why not just move on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever take one for the team !! Leads to arguments , jealousy and bad feeling.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take things one step at a time. Tell them your boundaries about not having sex now, as you're not leading them on. One for the team does not need to be mentioned, just that you two won't be playing with them.

Invite them to meet socially etc. It's likely too early for anyone to commit to a long term friendship at this point. Then just take social meet ups a day at a time, even if at clubs etc.

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