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By *isqueenHerking69 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Woking

Hey there everyone myself and wifey are looking for a bbw club or evening out to meet like minded . Wifey is bbw and i also love bbw . wife feels more comforatable with others so we are looking for a venue where we can have fun . we are based in surrey. we dont mind trtavelling if not not half way round the country ... dont mind few hours. i am 50 and wifey is 40 . we have tried other swinger club near us and just always feel out of place ... we need big bubbly and non judgemental people round us.. the more the merrier ... look forward to hearing from you ....

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By *evilinherCouple
4 weeks ago

varied

Chameleon goes an amazing bbw their event is tomorrow so unfortunately you have missed that one next one is in august.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

Dangerous Curves at Liberty Elite is also a great night.

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By *aughty40sRugbyCouple
4 weeks ago

Rugby

Also something we are looking for, so any recommendations welcome

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry

DC Libs and BWW parties at Chams are good suggestions.

Although maybe also try different clubs/crowds too. We're not small people but we've had the best times at convention nights/parties. Our experience of clubs is genuinely positive towards our build, it's not been a barrier anyway and there's people of all different shapes and sizes. Any club you're made to feel judged is not a great place vibe wise. I think also sometime we can be guilty of perceiving people judge us more than we think. Often (regardless of your build) other swingers are not that forthcoming. I think many of us are a bit shy like awkward teenagers at a school disco staying in our comfort zones and hoping for someone else to make the first move.

Personally we did not enjoy the vibe at our first BBW party (we went thinking we'd be more comfortable with this crowd). Although personally speaking (Mr) absolutely loving the eye candy. But the vibe was different, found it a bit more of a disrespectful crowd. Obviously the point of the party is partly the fetishism of larger women. But there were guys there who were quite candid about about going for what they saw as a easy shag with women of low self esteem. Now obviously how well they got on is a different matter (although I think they did ok) but an attitude and vibe that's a bit off putting. And I think although it is by design a night for the fetishism of larger people turns out maybe we're not so comfortable being a fetish above just liking us for the people we are.

So yes I think you should definitely go, find our for yourselves. Especially if your specific intrest is in larger people and you feel you may feel more comfortable and embraced. You may love it and many people we know do. I'd just say don't give up of the everyday club/partly scene. A part form being more convenient than waiting for the occasional BBW party we find it just more interesting. And although we like well proportioned people ourselves we've found great connection and sex transcends body size and shape. Not only for the people we've been with but likewise for them too. Like doesn't stay with like when there's chemistry. Thus we've had hot time and been totally comfortable with people of all different shapes and sizes and looks.

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By *os19Man
4 weeks ago

Edmonton


"Hey there everyone myself and wifey are looking for a bbw club or evening out to meet like minded . Wifey is bbw and i also love bbw . wife feels more comforatable with others so we are looking for a venue where we can have fun . we are based in surrey. we dont mind trtavelling if not not half way round the country ... dont mind few hours. i am 50 and wifey is 40 . we have tried other swinger club near us and just always feel out of place ... we need big bubbly and non judgemental people round us.. the more the merrier ... look forward to hearing from you .... "
. I am not great with geography so apologies in advance.You are based in Woking.There is Curvy Club in Sutton which I think maybe a hour or so away from you.They have a profile on Fabs called Curvy Club perhaps it maybe worth looking into if you haven’t already.Best of luck with your search.

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By *os19Man
4 weeks ago

Edmonton

I believe Curvy Club & Pluscious are held in the House of Politer in the Sutton area.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
4 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Club Alchemy do a good BBW night.

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By *isqueenHerking69 OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Woking

O have you details on where that is please would love to try. Many thanks for answering back.

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By *isqueenHerking69 OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Woking


"Hey there everyone myself and wifey are looking for a bbw club or evening out to meet like minded . Wifey is bbw and i also love bbw . wife feels more comforatable with others so we are looking for a venue where we can have fun . we are based in surrey. we dont mind trtavelling if not not half way round the country ... dont mind few hours. i am 50 and wifey is 40 . we have tried other swinger club near us and just always feel out of place ... we need big bubbly and non judgemental people round us.. the more the merrier ... look forward to hearing from you .... . I am not great with geography so apologies in advance.You are based in Woking.There is Curvy Club in Sutton which I think maybe a hour or so away from you.They have a profile on Fabs called Curvy Club perhaps it maybe worth looking into if you haven’t already.Best of luck with your search."
many thanks will look now. And thank you for advice.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"But there were guys there who were quite candid about about going for what they saw as a easy shag with women of low self esteem. "

If that's what they're going for, then they must have pretty low self-esteem themselves. They're idiots to actually say it, but then you can get idiots on any night of the week.

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By *os19Man
3 weeks ago

Edmonton


"Hey there everyone myself and wifey are looking for a bbw club or evening out to meet like minded . Wifey is bbw and i also love bbw . wife feels more comforatable with others so we are looking for a venue where we can have fun . we are based in surrey. we dont mind trtavelling if not not half way round the country ... dont mind few hours. i am 50 and wifey is 40 . we have tried other swinger club near us and just always feel out of place ... we need big bubbly and non judgemental people round us.. the more the merrier ... look forward to hearing from you .... . I am not great with geography so apologies in advance.You are based in Woking.There is Curvy Club in Sutton which I think maybe a hour or so away from you.They have a profile on Fabs called Curvy Club perhaps it maybe worth looking into if you haven’t already.Best of luck with your search. many thanks will look now. And thank you for advice. "
. No problem I believe the club in Sutton is known as something like House of Politier and they hold various events Curvy Club & Plusicous been two of then.There is also Club Indulge who hold vanilla events but also adult events again at House of Politer again maybe looking into.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.


"But there were guys there who were quite candid about about going for what they saw as a easy shag with women of low self esteem.

If that's what they're going for, then they must have pretty low self-esteem themselves. They're idiots to actually say it, but then you can get idiots on any night of the week."

Guys like that get spotted immediately at BBW nights. We can tell.

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