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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Hi newbie here

I'm not 100% happy with my profile, not because I'm not getting replies (no honestly). I just don't want to come across as the kind of single guy that everyone in the forums complains about.

Also I'd like some constructive criticism from actual swingers as I can't exactly ask friends/family for advice.

Anyway thanks in advance

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By *izandpaulCouple
4 weeks ago

merseyside

You actually show up in real life at a swingers social event.

You have just put yourself in a very small percentage of those on FAB.

Just keep it up.

Get yourself known to as many as possible and if you are a decent, straightforward, polite guy you will do OK.

A couple of more photos may be a bonus.

Good luck.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
4 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

My brother, if you are going to be attending socials and going to club nights, you'd be better focusing on them.

In terms of profile, its ok. Tge pic is fine enough as well.

But when you get more into the club and social scene you'll not be as fussed abiut the lack of replies.

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By *ogandher1962Couple
4 weeks ago

Reading

Why can’t you accommodate?

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By *un and Games 2016Couple
4 weeks ago

Darlington

Tbh, your profile reads like you are a little hard work

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By *an1978Woman
4 weeks ago

Wales

Your profile text is ok to meet someone like minded.

I would remove the "older guy" bit,

46 is in your prime for Fab

Maybe a couple more photos would be nice but it is a good start.

It will be hard work given men massively out number women.

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Tbh, your profile reads like you are a little hard work "

How so? Do I come across as too formal?

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Your profile text is ok to meet someone like minded.

I would remove the "older guy" bit,

46 is in your prime for Fab

Maybe a couple more photos would be nice but it is a good start.

It will be hard work given men massively out number women."

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester


"My brother, if you are going to be attending socials and going to club nights, you'd be better focusing on them.

In terms of profile, its ok. Tge pic is fine enough as well.

But when you get more into the club and social scene you'll not be as fussed abiut the lack of replies."
Thanks. I Def need to socialise more.

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester


"You actually show up in real life at a swingers social event.

You have just put yourself in a very small percentage of those on FAB.

Just keep it up.

Get yourself known to as many as possible and if you are a decent, straightforward, polite guy you will do OK.

A couple of more photos may be a bonus.

Good luck."
thanks.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

46 is definitely not "an older geezer"

I think you could add some more photos, a bit sexier than your current one.

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Thanks for the feedback. I've deleted the profile and will think about it a bit more. Take care!

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
4 weeks ago

land of overweight munters

You've deleted the bio, not the profile. It would be better whilst your thinking on improvements to hide it, otherwise others will see a blank profile and block you

Do you know how to hide to ninja?

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By *berdas OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Done. Thanks for the tip. 🥷

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