FabSwingers.com forum: Foot Massage/worship advice

By *ingh89 OP Man
48 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hi all,

Any advice how do you tell a random woman that you want to massage, worship and serve their feet and soles?

I have always wanted to know as I don't know how tell a woman would be interested and into it before asking or approaching with the idea.

Appreciate the thoughts

TIA

By *ickD80Man
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

As with pretty much anything else in life, just be open and honest about it. The best way to tell someone something is to just be up front because if you try to use any sort of subtle, covert tactics they will see right through it. It’s always obvious when someone has ulterior motives for saying or doing something and it always gives the impression that the person is sneaky and untrustworthy.

The worst thing that can happen if you tell her is that she will stop talking to you because of it but that will just show you that she doesn’t like you very much anyway, if she’s prepared to walk away from you so easily. The second worst thing is that she says she’s not at all interested in anything like that and will never try it with you but she still wants to carry on seeing you, which will show you that she likes you a lot but maybe she isn’t the right woman for you (it depends how important the foot worship element of a relationship is to you)….

The absolutely worst thing to do is to not say anything, because there’s a chance that you both desperately want the same thing but you’re both too scared to tell each other so you both miss out on doing something you both really want to do.

By *ingh89 OP Man
48 weeks ago

Birmingham

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Thanks for the response and advice.