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Is accommodation key?

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By *eetformeat OP   Man
4 weeks ago

barnsley

Is being able to accommodate the key to getting responses/meets? I guess seeing a man who cannot accommodate raises suspicions, such as married, something to hide etc. Should I stay off here until I can accommodate, as getting zero action?

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
4 weeks ago

North Manchester

Each thread you post is about a different reason why no one will meet you.

Chill out a bit perhaps. Go to an event.

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By *smith87Man
4 weeks ago

totton

But surely it's the same for lady?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

Everyone is different in their preferences and accommodation options.

People meet in hotels, clubs and all kinds of other options.

By far, the hardest thing here is for single men to get established, including setting realistic expectations. It's essential to grasp reality, that the overwhelming majority of people will never be mutually compatible. Only a really tiny minority of people are.

Fab won't be for everyone and for the rest, not all of the time. OP - consider how much sexual engagement you get elsewhere. Some of the same challenges you will face here too. Though you will find more.

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By *air havenCouple
4 weeks ago

southampton

Exactly,op just relax when its time it will happen.Just live your life and keep developing yourself and most importantly go to events and clubs and put yourself out there.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 weeks ago

Newry

Not for me. I prefer to meet on neutral ground. I don't bring people to my home so I don't expect others to either.

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By *azza26Woman
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

Won't meet at own home and generally not close to home. Prefer neutral ground such as a club or hotel over meeting in a person's home

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By *ustforshow25Couple
4 weeks ago

Leatherhead


"Is being able to accommodate the key to getting responses/meets? I guess seeing a man who cannot accommodate raises suspicions, such as married, something to hide etc. Should I stay off here until I can accommodate, as getting zero action?"

It might put some off OP, but many either don't want to have others accommodate them or just don't care, so it's not 'the reason' for no meets. As others have suggested, use socials to start building your connections and network, and keep yourself grounded on your expectations. Good luck

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

The key is finding each other attractive enough

Having some kind of connection and if there is any chemistry which might lead further

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

It's a factor but regardless of if he can accommodate or not..

if he's only interested in any pulse any holes the goal it's a hard pass and instant block.

I only have sex with someone who is past hidden sex..if he or I can't be in their home he/they can't be in my body.

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By *rown.studMan
4 weeks ago

Thornaby


"Each thread you post is about a different reason why no one will meet you.

Chill out a bit perhaps. Go to an event. "

Atleast he made me see your profile. Stunning 🥵

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By *rpeggioCouple
4 weeks ago

Baughurst

I don't think so (Mr Arpeggio).

I have a single profile in addition to this, our couple's profile, and I cannot accommodate because we have children, and because meeting people while Mrs Arpeggio is at home would not work.

So I meet couples at their place, a hotel, a club, or at a party. Not being able to accommodate never been an issue.

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton


"Each thread you post is about a different reason why no one will meet you.

Chill out a bit perhaps. Go to an event. "

😂 harsh but fair.

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By *heonixrising500Man
4 weeks ago

Barnsley

Seems to be cant accom not interested

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