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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

I’m aware single men don’t get much attention or there are too many of us on this site to choose from but feel like im doing something wrong as im not sure why no one really replies not very word savvy so my bio is bleak but can someone help me and point me in the right direction please would be much appreciated and I hope u are all having a good day x

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

OK op, both your pics are v similar and taken in the bathroom.

Take more pics with a bit more variety if you can, taken elsewhere.

Also you don't tell anyone what you'd offer a meet, all we can tell is you haven't had much luck and maybe want to try clubs if they're worth it.

If by the being worth it, you mean you're guaranteed to get laid, that's not the case for any of us.

I'd advise to go to clubs with no expectations, mingle and chat and see where it goes.

With parties I think they will be groups of people who will have sex, but again, it's not guaranteed.

Pad your profile out with a bit about you, what you're into and what you'd bring to a meet.

Most ladies and couples will look at the profile of the sender, when they get a message. If it's not appealing, they won't look at the message.

You do have to sell yourself and try to stand out, due to the volume of other men here.

Organised socials are a good way to meet others, so you could maybe search for one nearby.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Your public pics are very samey and bathroom pics can be a turn off for some. Try some variety if you can.

You say you can't accom, so maybe include the reason why as some might find that relevant.

Your bio doean't really tell anyone what you would bring to a meet or what experiences you would like to try.

Just our 2p worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

Thankyou I appreciate that I will give my profile abit of a sprouse up ☺️

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 weeks ago

Up North

I would get better pics out of the bathroom. Are you single? You need to right about what you can offer and why someone should pick you. Clubs are good but don’t go with any expectations x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
4 weeks ago

Norwich


"Thankyou I appreciate that I will give my profile abit of a sprouse up ☺️"

Well that spruce it up!

Bye

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
4 weeks ago

Scotland


"Thankyou I appreciate that I will give my profile abit of a sprouse up ☺️

Well that spruce it up!

Bye"

If he looked at your profile for inspiration, not copy it, but use as a template, he’d maybe of got somewhere. X

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By *ensual_SamMan
4 weeks ago

Bracknell

"By (user no longer on site) OP"

So long good brother - The "FAB Circle of life continues.

🎶 Amazing Grace Plays🎶

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