FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Social meet in a public place

Jump to newest
 

By *nob OP   Man
5 weeks ago

newport

I know it's a sex site but what would you talk about at a social meet that's in a public place?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

We often had social meets in public places. We talked about a wide range of subjects that were suitable to discuss in public. Any more intimate chat took place away from listening ears.

We did meet a couple of guys who didn't understand discretion and loudly talked about swinging. It was just embarrassing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nob OP   Man
5 weeks ago

newport

There's a fine line between boring,interesting and discretion.

Donald and Jacqueline (Benidorm) often mentioned swinging but that was fictitious comedy, however based on some fact.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss DevilWoman
5 weeks ago

Bedford

For me, the social meet is to gauge chemistry, to see if I'd be happy to get intimate with that person. It doesn't matter too much what we're talking about but whether or not I enjoy their company enough to get naked with them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xswingCouple
5 weeks ago

hornchurch

We were speaking to our friends who are in the life style about one of my wife’s fb who tied my wife up and slapped her ass till it was red and a guy next to us didn’t know where to look.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rsPricklePantsWoman
5 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

All kinds of stuff I only do social meets in a public place

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hechonkyduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

On a social meet we have a normal conversation and get to know each other, guage chemistry and see if we click.

If the guy only wants to talk about swinging or sex then its a good indicator that its not worth a meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
5 weeks ago

cahoots


"I know it's a sex site but what would you talk about at a social meet that's in a public place?"

Anything and everything. Swinging isn't just about sex so just treat it as chatting to a new friend.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex


"We were speaking to our friends who are in the life style about one of my wife’s fb who tied my wife up and slapped her ass till it was red and a guy next to us didn’t know where to look. "

He was probably embarrassed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *thfloorCouple
5 weeks ago

Hove

I'd say as a rule of thumb we pitch the conversation at PG13 - we don't go into gory details but we do want to hear about a couple's rough experience or what they're most into, to gauge compatibility. Also, sex & relationships is my special interest so I enjoy being able to talk about these things openly even with someone I've just met.

Some public spaces are more comfortable than others for private discussions, in a spacious park or average loud pub nobody really can hear or cares, but any a place that is quiet or has seating very close together things can feel awkward for all involved. I think people love a juicy eavesdrop and gossip but I don't necessarily enjoy giving one!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I’m happy to meet those without a verification for a quick social, near me on a date & time suitable for me.

It gives them a verification which is like having ⭐️⭐️⭐️

Trixie

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ellhungvweMan
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

You just be normal and have a chat. I had a lovely social at a pub this week and we talked about loads of stuff - fab, work, life and everything in between. If you get on with someone then I think the conversation just flows. If it doesn’t flow then that is probably a good signal that it isn’t going to work.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Allsorts, I've had a good few socials in my time here.

They are really to see if there's mutual attraction and we hit it off.

If there isn't, or we don't,i generally wouldn't want to meet again.So the social has done its job.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucka39Man
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

A wide range of topics/subjects and interests even humour via that you may find out the similarities you might have then take it further even the kinky stuff but not focused on just that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *izandpaulCouple
5 weeks ago

merseyside

Chat about all sorts but tend to leave jobs and address out of the conversation.

Unlike some, we are not looking for long term friends, wouldn't know how we would introduce our swinging friends to our vanilla friends.

This is our very secret life, never the twain will mix.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ust RachelTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Horsham

A social meet for me is to see that the person, is roughly the same aa the 10 year old photos they have on thier profile.

Seriously, it is too what the person is like, before I get intimate with them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hisismeXXXMan
4 weeks ago

Welsh Wales


"On a social meet we have a normal conversation and get to know each other, guage chemistry and see if we click.

If the guy only wants to talk about swinging or sex then its a good indicator that its not worth a meet."

I remember meeting a couple at a pub in Merthyr that was quite close to where they live, and I couldn’t believe how loud they were talking about their experiences and tastes. They sensed my awkwardness and I remember one of them saying something like “don’t worry love, we’ve got no secrets most of the village know what we get up to”.

Great for them, not for me. Suffice to say we didn’t ’go all the way’ as they suggested we should, quite loudly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *WANDTGCouple
4 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We make small talk , holiday, jobs, weather, shopping then once we get a feeling for the situation we ask if they have any anecdotes from the swinging world. But all at a moderate sound level. If we all get along then we'd arrange a playdate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I just talk about everyday stuff. You're getting to know them to establish if there's chemistry. I don't usually get particularly sexual.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top