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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Was only sending face pics when asked and got blocked by most women I sent them to. I know I'm not a natural smiler but wtf?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

East Sussex

No you're not ugly.

I'm guessing you didn't have face pictures on Your profile previously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

I only had the one with eyes covered. Been privately messaged saying I take a shit selfie, which is fair.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I only had the one with eyes covered. Been privately messaged saying I take a shit selfie, which is fair."

That wasn't really helpful was it.

There are tips on the net for taking good selfies.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

Central

No. However only the very tiniest minority of people are mutually compatible, including from physical attraction, interests, availability and more. People here will generally have most of their initial discussions reaching a dead end, because of this.

It's really important not to guage your worth, looks etc based on interest because it's only reflective of their predicament, preferences etc and not you. You could visit socials and clubs, to engage socially with others and pick up on the real life engagement. Many people will find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

I had only the no eyes profile pics for a while, and a basic profile. I was chatting to several people but when I revealed my face, I was blocked. I have blocked people after the face reveal myself, as I did not find them attractive,so get that but the amount of blocks didn't seem normal

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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49 weeks ago

Central


"I had only the no eyes profile pics for a while, and a basic profile. I was chatting to several people but when I revealed my face, I was blocked. I have blocked people after the face reveal myself, as I did not find them attractive,so get that but the amount of blocks didn't seem normal "

The block here is a blunt 'no thanks' but we should expect it as the norm

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By *londebiguyMan
49 weeks ago

Southport


"I had only the no eyes profile pics for a while, and a basic profile. I was chatting to several people but when I revealed my face, I was blocked. I have blocked people after the face reveal myself, as I did not find them attractive,so get that but the amount of blocks didn't seem normal "

Just view it as a bullet dodged.

I would.

Anyone who is not adult enough to actually converse is best avoided to me.

I have the guts to tell people politely and respectfully.

I only block rude and nasty people.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Fuck no, if your ugly then christ knows about me. Seriously man your a good looking bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Appreciate all the comments. New to online 'dating' etiquette. Missing the good old days when you'd have several drinks and approach someone in a bar/club

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By *eavensent78Couple
49 weeks ago

west mids


"Appreciate all the comments. New to online 'dating' etiquette. Missing the good old days when you'd have several drinks and approach someone in a bar/club"

This is still available try the clubs on a Friday. To be honest I think the success rate at clubs is much higher than on line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

None of my mates are single and very rarely go out, so my only options are works do's. Been to Pandoras swingers club a couple of times on my own, but it must have been couples night

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By *ucka39Man
49 weeks ago

Newcastle


"None of my mates are single and very rarely go out, so my only options are works do's. Been to Pandoras swingers club a couple of times on my own, but it must have been couples night "

Hiya op

If you use reply + quote per comment it makes it easier to understand who you are replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

You have 3 face pics of which one has a blue line across your eyes and you choose that for your avatar? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Was only sending face pics when asked and got blocked by most women I sent them to. I know I'm not a natural smiler but wtf?"

It could possibly be that you look serious or even sullen in your selfies. You are a good looking man.I think a bit of a smiley jolly one would possibly help.

To get a smiley one what I do is sort of pretend someone's told me some exciting news or a joke and try to make a smiley response face. It does feel rather cheesy when you are doing it. I can take about 20 selfie photos and out of them I will get one decent one if I am lucky.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
49 weeks ago

out and about!


"I only had the one with eyes covered. Been privately messaged saying I take a shit selfie, which is fair."

That’s really unkind, unfortunately some feel the need to be rude rather than just say no. Have a look at ‘wiki how’ I expect there’s a how to take a selfie page. Other than that, just take loads all the time, you’ll get a feel for your best angles etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Some of us just aren't photogenic & look better in reality & that's a fact......on the other hand some people are really photogenic & don't look as good in reality

I think some of the comments you received OP are quiet cruel, you look ok to me in your photos & I do believe you may be a case that you look better in reality rather than a photo ✌️👍

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
48 weeks ago

Stoke

The black and white photo makes you look a lot older than the other two pics in my opinion.

You're not my cup of tea op, but you're not ugly.

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By *avexxMan
48 weeks ago

cheshire

your not ugly OP,,, chin up young man

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

You aren't ugly, far from it.

The attitude of the people you dealt with, thats ugly.

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