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"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?" offer 2 for 1 cake on a Tuesday | |||
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"I think my only issue with that is that I get anxious around too many people. I know it's a bit of a stupid thing to say but it's something I do struggle with." What about it would you say you struggle with? | |||
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"Just large groups in general, I don't do well in crowds" Maybe worth looking to finding a smaller social event then? I don’t know of any in and around London where you’re based but I’m sure there’s some floating about. Or if you’re adventurous maybe look at ones further afield | |||
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"Just large groups in general, I don't do well in crowds Maybe worth looking to finding a smaller social event then? I don’t know of any in and around London where you’re based but I’m sure there’s some floating about. Or if you’re adventurous maybe look at ones further afield " I'm definitely open to it | |||
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"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?" It's far from easy for single guys on here! You're profile is fine maybe the advice about more and different kinds of photos could help as well as the humour one. My advice would be to hold on in there, keep looking and just know you are not alone! George Clooney would struggle as a single guy on here unless he revealed his name! Oh and lastly try not to listen too much from anyone that's been on here over a year without a single verification but seems to know it all. ☝️ | |||
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"Your bio tells us that you’re easy going, you can accommodate or you can travel, you like sci-fi, you listen to all kinds of music, you can be either sub or Dom, you like oral, you don’t have a huge cock, personality is key……there’s absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out from the crowd in any way, you make yourself sound like a very middle of the road, uninteresting, unoriginal, bland man. I’m not saying that you are any of those things but that is the impression you’re giving. Your bio already says your age and that you can accommodate and travel so you don’t need to repeat those in your bio. No one on this site cares what films or music you’re into so it’s pointless saying it, and even more pointless when you’re saying you like all music….saying you’re switch is way too vague, i’m sub and like dominate partners but i’m not suited to everyone who’s dominant as it’s such a broad ranging description. Maybe be a bit more specific about what you’re into, what specific things you’ve done and enjoyed, what specific things you want to try. Nearly everyone enjoys oral so it’s pointless saying that you do, it’s like saying i like sex or i like drinking water….personality is key for everyone, no one will meet up with someone who they’ve been chatting with and hated their personality…but different people like different personalities. Personally i like chatty, honest, funny, confident people who don’t take life too seriously and look for positives in everything but some people prefer someone who’s more reserved, cautious, serious, thinker rather than a talker etc…no one ever says ‘I’m like for someone who considers personality to be key’….people are looking for someone who’s personality matches theirs so tell us what your personality is like (saying the types of films and music you’re into isn’t describing your personality) and what personality traits you’re attracted to. Basically, be less vague and more specific if you want to stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps…" Quite an unnecessarily brutal critique of this guys profile, especially from someone who hasn’t managed to meet anyone! 🤔 | |||
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"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?" The issue is everyone is looking for different things, I asked the same question and some of the advice I got was to remove stuff that had previously been the reason people HAD contacted me. At the end of the day just be yourself and accept its always going to be a lot harder on here for a guy than a girl, just as it is in real life | |||
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