FabSwingers.com forum: Feeders

By *erry OP Man
5 weeks ago

London

I had a lovely chat with a woman a couple of days ago and she described herself as a feeder.

Not sure I properly understood what she meant - can anyone help?

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By *nebworthMan
5 weeks ago

Knebworth

Usually it is women who look for feeders, rather than taking on the role themselves. A feeder is someone who financially supports a person for that person to become obese.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
5 weeks ago

kendal

I jokingly get called a feeder all the time .... coz if my baking prowess and the fact that when everyone comes in my house, I'm like 'do u want a sandwich?'

'Packet of crisps'

'Would you like a slice of cake'

But that's not the same.

A feeder is someone who will support someone, and enable them to become morbidly obese.

It's not gender specific, either can be feeders.

And the dynamics of each individual dynamic are different.

Some finance thr feeding,

Some don't,

Some get a sexual kick out of it,

Some don't,

There can be a number of reasons someone is a feeder, wether that be, sexual gratification or wether it fulfills the caring and nurturing role in them, everyone has thier own reasons.

Just like any other kink/persuasion/preference

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Usually it is women who look for feeders, rather than taking on the role themselves. A feeder is someone who financially supports a person for that person to become obese."
wow really never heard of this before

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's enabling poor health and in some cases actual abuse. I'm all for accepting other people's kinks but not this one.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

It’s abuse disguised as a fetish disguised as love.

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By *erry OP Man
5 weeks ago

London

Many thanks for your replies - Im enlightened. Taken to am extreme I can believe it verges on abuse on all sorts of levels just like so many other kinks - it's what's safe and acceptable ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's akin to people who tell alcoholics that 'just one' won't hurt. It's control

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

She gets aroused by watching people eat large amounts of food and she enjoys being the one to provide that.

A feeder/feedee relationship is a very very fine line to tread and can overstep into abuse/addiction if not handled in a moderate way.

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By *ndymac888Man
5 weeks ago

Dumbarton

There is actually a few documentaries on this on the internet.

It never to my knowledge ends well.

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By *igballsM34Man
5 weeks ago

Denton

She likes cooking, makes sure no one is hungry.

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